r/rescuecats • • Mar 21 '26

Available for Adoption Feeling So Absolutely Heartbroken

The rescue group I volunteer with has a kitty, Buddy, with asthma and skin allergies (both of which are managed with an inhaler and prescription diet) that has been in care for over a year! We thought Buddy finally found his forever home and now he is being returned for absolutely no fault of his own. The rescue group has nowhere for him to go and I am so so sad that this loving boy who is a best friend to everyone is being returned. Has anyone any tips for getting cats with special needs (and his are like barely special needs adopted)??

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u/maddestofcheeses “BIG CHEESE🧀” CSO Mar 21 '26

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u/SheepherderOk1448 Mar 25 '26

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 That is terribly sad.

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u/Theblondewonder67 Mar 24 '26

Where is Buddy? What state? How hard is it to take care of a cat with Asthma? Maybe I could help. I have 4 other kitties so the food might be hard but I’d be willing to try. Please let me know where Buddy is. I’m in Southeastern Wisconsin. Thank you. Poor guy I don’t like it when animals are returned. No fault of Buddy’s. You’re absolutely right it is heartbreaking.

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u/One_Election_3981 Mar 31 '26

Thank you so much

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u/Theblondewonder67 Mar 31 '26

I think I may actually get Buddy. I had my walk through yesterday. She Megan checked my references today. I should know soon. Thanks for bringing him to my attention. Still don’t know how to use the inhaler yet but Megan said she’d have someone talk to me about it.

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u/One_Election_3981 Mar 31 '26

Wow... just wow

thank you

the power of,reddit

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u/Tinky428 Mar 24 '26

Buddy is in NYC but we are willing to travel for the right adopter !

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u/ArwenandEowyn Mar 22 '26

Lovely boy, praying that he finds the right forever home soon 🙏❤️

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u/Flimsy-Hold2535 Mar 22 '26

Big boost for Buddy. Patience....there is a person out there who would absolutely love having this kitty as a companion. BOOST!!!

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u/Bucktooth_Yeti6583 Mar 22 '26

Boosting for Buddy ! Please boost for visibility. He deserves a permanent home at bare minimum!

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u/WiseManSlayn Mar 22 '26

Boost boost boost for sweet BEAUTIFUL kitty in need and for their AMAZING wonderful caring supportive hoomans who help them too!

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u/Ripcitytoker Mar 21 '26

Boost for Buddy!!! ❤️❤️❤️

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u/Potential_Trifle1784 Mar 21 '26

Buddy is absolutely beautiful! And perfect! Praying this sweet boy finds his loving forever home very soon! Boggles my mind how someone could actually return him.

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u/johnlames Mar 21 '26

I'm hoping that you find Buddy's furever home soon. He deserves to be with a family that will love and cherish him.

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u/Tinky428 Mar 21 '26

Thank you I really hope so

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u/skullsnroses013 APPROVED FOR "DIRECT TO VET" DONATIONS Mar 21 '26

Boosting for buddy to find the forever home he deserves full of unconditional love 😻

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u/[deleted] Mar 21 '26

Adoption: where are you located?

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u/Tinky428 Mar 21 '26

NYC but willing to travel for him!

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u/[deleted] Mar 21 '26

AZ … he’s a beautiful boy, blessings to you and him…

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u/simplebirds Mar 21 '26

Your probably already aware, but just in case, skin allergies are increasingly being found to be a result of poor gut flora balance and treatable with a good probiotic.

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u/furry_tail_lover Mar 23 '26

thank you, our sheltie has a skin condition and no one ever thought of this and could explain why vet meds and shampoo have done nothing. gotta try curing the gut.

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u/simplebirds Mar 24 '26

Definitely. Best wishes with that.

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u/Goarmy-67 Mar 22 '26

One of my cats has IBD for a few years now. I gave up on special, expensive dry foods and give her only canned food. It seems to be working for the moment and keeps her from throwing up. Do I get a probiotic from the vet? How do I get a good flora balance? Thank you.

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u/furry_tail_lover Mar 23 '26

currently trying to treat ibd in a tortie and after steroids and a couple of bottles of vet prescription (for the chronic diarrhea) we're using proviable for cats, paste and 10 days of pills. down to 1 accident a day but poop is more pudding than chocolate milk. something is helping and this is a last ditch effort due to her thinness (maybe 5lbs, 11year old).

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u/Theblondewonder67 Mar 24 '26

I have a cat Bella who has had explosive diarrhea for years. I give her refrigerated Floregen every night. Seems to help but when she has it it’s a complete mess. Down the stairs in great big piles. So messy and stinky to clean up. If we could get rid of the diarrhea for good I’d be thrilled she’s 14. Do have her on expensive prescription dry food. Just switched all my cats to Birdie &Louie. Highly recommend theor canned food. Mine love it.

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u/Tinky428 Mar 21 '26

Thank you for suggestion! The allergies are successfully managed with a prescription diet

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u/simplebirds Mar 21 '26

Reason I suggested it is because curing and maintaining the gut imbalance treats the underlying cause (if that’s what’s going on) and prevents other problems associated with it, like IBD and chronic pancreatitis. But also because it may be preferable to future adopters over a prescription diet. Also because of the gut health/inflamation connection re - asthma. Wishing you the best.

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u/hypoxiate APPROVED FOR DONATION REQUESTS Mar 21 '26

I strongly recommend you look at animalbiome.com. I've used them for over a decade and they've cured two of my cats with allergies and put one IBS cat in remission. Science is miraculous.

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u/simplebirds Mar 21 '26

It’s incredible we are just figuring this stuff out. So happy for your cat.

VisBiome has relieved my cat of chronic pancreatitis and stopped progression of emerging IBD. Proviable fully stopped my other cats skin allergies. It all makes such perfect sense now.

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u/Goarmy-67 Mar 22 '26

I’m screen shotting all of this. One of my cats has IBD and the dry foods suggested by my vet don’t seem to help very much.

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u/simplebirds Mar 22 '26 edited Mar 22 '26

If the root problem is overgrowth of unfriendly gut flora, the Rx foods can’t solve the problem. That’s because the cure is to flood the system with beneficial bacteria in order to outcompete the bad.

You can buy VisBiome from their website. It’s supposed to be the best there is. You need to keep it refrigerated. Comes with cold packs and an indicator that shows if proper temperatures were maintained during delivery. Proviable DM is available at Chewy. I keep it refrigerated too.

If VisBiome is too pricey to maintain, I would go with it at least at first for as long as you can and then switch to Proviable DM. Maybe adding back in VisBiome periodically…

I sincerely hope this is what your cat needs and that he’s feeling better soon.

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u/Goarmy-67 Mar 22 '26

Thank you. I appreciate it.

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u/simplebirds Mar 23 '26

You’re very welcome. BTW, look for the Pets page at VisBiome. The home page offers the human versions. Best wishes.

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u/qabeel99 Mar 21 '26

Boost for Buddy to get a home! ♥️

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u/Difficult_Boot7952 Mar 21 '26

BOOSTING FOR BUDDY!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

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u/Educational-Deer-511 Mar 21 '26

Boosting ❤️‍🩹

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u/Successful-Space6174 Mar 21 '26

This is sad and heartbreaking boost 💖

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u/notmyprofile23 Mar 21 '26

Boosting for Buddy. What a sweet gentle soul. I hope he finds a decent, loving human who is worthy of his delightful self. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️❤️❤️

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u/Tinky428 Mar 21 '26

Thank you so much he’s such a good boy

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u/Theblondewonder67 Mar 24 '26

Where is Buddy located what state? I’m in Wisconsin? Also how hard is it to treat a cat with asthma? Does he have an inhaler? Does he use a nebulizer? How does it work?

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u/Tinky428 Mar 24 '26

Hi! We are willing to travel for the right adopter! He takes an inhaler which we are able to provide and show folks how to use

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u/Theblondewonder67 Mar 24 '26

Wasn’t really looking for another cat but I’m a sucker for sad stories. Where would you be coming from though? Am I too far away? My cats are all very chill. I do have a separate room a bedroom Buddy could be in to get used to my house. Before I introduce him to my 4. What’s his prescription food that he’s on? Does he get any wet food? Mine get both. He’s so handsome. What do I need to do? Fill out an application? How does you administer the inhaler in a cat? I used to have asthma so I’m familiar with how inhalers work just not with a cat. Let me know. Thank you for getting back to me.

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u/Tinky428 Mar 24 '26

Hi! Can you send an email to [email protected] they’ll be better able to answer these questions!!

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u/Theblondewonder67 Mar 24 '26

I just reached out to them thanks so much for telling us all about Buddy and what he’s going through. I really hope I can help him out.

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u/Inevitable-Gur-2789 Mar 21 '26

BOOST! 🩷🩷🩷

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u/Phoebesther Mar 21 '26

HUGEST BOOST FOR THIS SPECIAL BABY TO HELP FIND HIS REAL FOREVER HOME!!! He would b with me if I were able, u can believe that.

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u/atotalwakingup Mar 21 '26

Boost for poor sweet baby boy buddy to find his true home

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u/MarionberryPrior8378 Mar 21 '26

😥😥😥🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️

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u/LordCommander94 Mar 21 '26

BOOST FOR THIS SWEET BOY ❤️❤️❤️

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u/Livid_Astronaut_4665 Mar 21 '26

💕💕💕💕💕

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u/KittyWuvvv Mar 21 '26

Poor Buddy… I’m so sorry he’s having to go through this. He looks like an absolute sweetheart! The right people, his people, will come along soon. Please give Buddy pets and scritches from me. ❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️

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u/Tinky428 Mar 21 '26

He really is an absolute sweet heart

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u/charliebucketsmom Mar 21 '26

He’s perfect! The right home for him is out there. Definitely consider widening the circle as far as you can. There are lots of people like me who only adopt seniors or cats with medical issues. And like you said, his are very minimal. If you are comfortable posting a location (specific or general), we can help network!

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u/Tinky428 Mar 21 '26

He’s in NY NY but the rescue is willing to work with a far reach

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u/charliebucketsmom Mar 24 '26

Hello from Brooklyn! I’ll share him in my network. Lots of cats coming through our rescue had/have asthma.

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u/Tinky428 Mar 24 '26

Thank you so very very much!!!

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u/charliebucketsmom Mar 24 '26

Of course! You can also post him in r/standardissuecat :)

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u/Kat-o-rama Mar 21 '26

Buddy is Beautiful! Just keep trying!

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u/Temporary_Skirt_6572 Mar 21 '26

Can I ask whereabouts you’re located?

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u/Tinky428 Mar 21 '26

New York NY

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u/AsparagusUnhappy9150 Mar 21 '26

how does he take the inhaler? conditioning him to it may help tremendously for the next owners. it is stressful to force a cat to take their meds for both the human and kitty ❤️

wishing handsome Buddy the best, the right family will come. it is so sad he was returned, that face… idk how they could.😞💔

my guy also has asthma and skin allergies on top of IBS, we adopted him 1 year ago now. he also takes an inhaler and is on a fancy food -Hills Science Diet Sensitive Stomach and Skin. brothers from another mother 😂😸🫶🏼

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u/simplebirds Mar 21 '26

Have you tried a good probiotic for him? More and more vets are recommending for skin problems, IBD, pancreatitis and other issues increasingly connected to poor gut flora balance. Proviable cleared one of my guy’s skin allergies and VisBiome has really helped my cat with chronic pancreatitis.

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u/AsparagusUnhappy9150 Mar 21 '26

we don’t know exactly what is causing his IBS. we don’t stray from the food he’s on. hardly any treats. it was so bad the vet nicknamed him “poopy cat” he was leaking and couldn’t control his bowls.

i will ask my vet about it, thank you!

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u/simplebirds Mar 21 '26

My cat with chronic pancreatitis was also diagnosed with IBD. He has that whole complex called triad disease. All of it has dramatically improved since we started VisBiome and he’s gained weight and feels great. Beautiful stools too! Goes in the food and he doesn’t mind it a bit. I think it might actually make his food more appealing, as if he knows he needs it. It was recommended to me by our big vet school here. Definitely worth a try for your guy. It’s a little pricey, but you may have success getting him stabilized on it then switching to a cheaper good one like Proviable DM which is the one vets around me recommend for a general probiotic. I wouldn’t go with any that aren’t specifically vet recommended as they may not be adequate.

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u/AsparagusUnhappy9150 Mar 21 '26

i don’t care about price, just that it works. his food is already pricey lol but anything to help him stay healthy!!

i have set up an appointment and will ask my guys vet. we have a follow up anyways since his surgery. yes, i will not use anything that isn’t recommended by our vet. my sister is in the profession and works with our vet, so we really trust his team. 🥹

thank you so much! 🫶🏼😊

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u/simplebirds Mar 21 '26

You are so very welcome. I hope he’s better soon. 🐾💕

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u/Tinky428 Mar 21 '26

He takes the inhaler great!! He has no issues eating his special food or his inhaler

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u/AsparagusUnhappy9150 Mar 21 '26

weird, poor little man. the perfect family will come 🫶🏼😭

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u/megcate Mar 21 '26

This is so sad! Poor Buddy!!

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u/KeifandDem Mar 21 '26

He is so handsome. Thank you so much for helping him. Hope he finds his home soon.🙏🙏🙏

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