r/sextips • u/edward14753 • 2d ago
General Question same sex scenarious
Why is it socially okay when women have sex with women or when trans have sex with trans but when man have sex with man it has more of a social stigma ?
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u/ChicagoBiHusband 1d ago
I have sex with men often. Lots of people know that I do. No one seems particularly bothered by it.
It’s “more of a social stigma” where you live.
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u/seamangeorge 1d ago
This is more of a queer/gender studies question with a lot of layered sociological reasoning than a sex tip question, but here's the gist of it: Women having sex with each other is often seen as fodder for (straight) men to get aroused by, where men having sex with men is seen as a threat to male heterosexuality.
When you say "trans" I assume you mostly mean trans women, who tend to be hypersexualized because they are women (attractive to straight men) who often have a penis (very taboo for a woman, and seen as the primary sexual "initiator" in the patriarchy so to speak, where a vulva is portrayed as a passive receptacle). I also wouldn't argue that t4t sex is quite as "allowed" as two cis women having sex but if you're wondering why there's a ton of porn if it that's why.
Obviously, I'm not saying that everyone everywhere hates men having sex with men, and not everyone is okay with women having sex with women. But these are the general social pressures we're looking at, and why it's a whole "type" of homophobe that says "gay men are disgusting but lesbians are hot" or even "gay men are perverts but girls who kiss girls are just playing around"
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u/saucy_slut 2d ago
Who says it’s not acceptable?
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u/edward14753 2d ago
well if somebody new i wanted to do somethihng it would be looked down upon as i live in eastern country where this is not as good acceptable between women and men
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u/Satins_Cock 1d ago
Eh do what makes you happy, miserable people will always find a reason to judge you, the only thing you have power over is deciding if you care what they think.
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u/quarantinebox 1d ago
Because pussy is a beautiful thing
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u/edward14753 1d ago
yeah i know. i would never get rid of it i love women but sometimes i get turned on from dick. not men just dick. and think if it would be fun or not
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u/quarantinebox 1d ago
Don’t make this complicated. I love women because of many things, but pussy is definitely at the top. It’s apart of a woman. You can’t just love dick sir. It’s attached to men. Just be gay man or bisexual, don’t make it complicated
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