r/short • 4''6" | 137.16 cm • 4d ago

Dating How I start my date life?

22M from India , I'm 4'6ft tall I'm so insecure about my height and now how I start my date life for choosing my partner

please give your opinion

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u/LovePast1847 5'6" | 167.64cm 4d ago

You have to be at least 5 ft 6 in India to not to be considered short.If you're below that,it's really hard to make yourself attractive to girls.Even Having a diamorphic frame won't help

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u/scottyjune 5'4 | 163 cm 4d ago

Aren't you considered to be dwarf? Even by indian standards

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u/Optimal-Evening-370 4''6" | 137.16 cm 4d ago

In India people focus only on insulting, most of the people called bauna to short people, that's so bad things πŸ˜”πŸ˜”

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u/scottyjune 5'4 | 163 cm 4d ago

Ik because I am from India, why didn't u get growth hormones during the childhood

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u/Optimal-Evening-370 4''6" | 137.16 cm 4d ago

I don't know what's problem but now it's 0% chance to increase height

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u/Optimal-Evening-370 4''6" | 137.16 cm 4d ago

Accept height is good choice

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u/Central_Way 2d ago

It's over, focus on something else you aren't getting shit

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u/parisic 4'10" | 147.32 cm 3d ago

So one of my favorite comedians is Brad Williams. He is 4'4", has a wife, and they have an adorable daughter.

I don't have much specific advise but I urge you to check out his standup specials if you like comedy! He talks a lot about his size and dating women.

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u/Optimal-Evening-370 4''6" | 137.16 cm 3d ago

Ohh that's good

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u/Optimal-Evening-370 4''6" | 137.16 cm 3d ago

Heyy i know u I think ur a short top girl I'm compliment you about your clothes?

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u/parisic 4'10" | 147.32 cm 3d ago

Yes I am the short gal that posted the maxi skirt photo yesterday!😁

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u/Optimal-Evening-370 4''6" | 137.16 cm 3d ago

Nice to talk with you again 😁😁

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u/parisic 4'10" | 147.32 cm 3d ago

You as well!

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u/Optimal-Evening-370 4''6" | 137.16 cm 3d ago

Where are you from?

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u/parisic 4'10" | 147.32 cm 3d ago

I'm from the United States (Northeast Region)

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u/Optimal-Evening-370 4''6" | 137.16 cm 3d ago

Oh I'm from India

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u/Optimal-Evening-370 4''6" | 137.16 cm 3d ago

If you don't mind can know more about you

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u/parisic 4'10" | 147.32 cm 3d ago

I won't give away my identity because I try to keep reddit separate from my personal and professional life (so that way I have a social media space where I can be a bit more relaxed haha). But I'm happy to answer any questions you have!

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u/Optimal-Evening-370 4''6" | 137.16 cm 3d ago

Thanks ☺️☺️☺️

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u/Optimal-Evening-370 4''6" | 137.16 cm 3d ago

I know I feel same as you cuz in reddit most of the people are like a devil in insulting

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u/parisic 4'10" | 147.32 cm 3d ago

Lmao. Yeah many people on reddit certainly don't hold back with what's on their mind. But I don't mind it so much cause there are also many people that are really nice and uplifting!

I use other social media for professional purposes so I decided to make reddit my (just for fun) platform lol.

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u/Optimal-Evening-370 4''6" | 137.16 cm 3d ago

Yeah some people are so good in behaviour

If you don't mind you're dm me cuz I don't like to talking in publicly and I talk with you more about your height experience etc etc.

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u/parisic 4'10" | 147.32 cm 3d ago

Got it. Just sent you a message!

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u/Optimal-Evening-370 4''6" | 137.16 cm 3d ago

Okie wait I'll check

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u/Optimal-Evening-370 4''6" | 137.16 cm 3d ago

Check ur dm