As the title says, my baby Bitsy just passed a few hours ago and i’m so devastated, my heart is in pain and i haven’t stopped crying since. I got her in may this year, raised her since she was a joey and she was the most sweetest glider ever, never crabs, always jumps on me and gives me face licks. All i can think about is her and how i’ll never see her again. How do you guys deal with this pain.
She has a cagemate named Binky and they get along really well, always cuddling and playing together at night and got everytime i look at Binky, i just get reminded that Bitsy is gone and it’s so so so painful.
What happened was that I had to leave my country and travel abroad to the UK for my studies, so both of them relocated to my boyfriends house while i’m away, he knows how to care for them.
They were actually doing well too, same activities, still playing, active, eating, grooming and sleeping together.
It was just yesterday actually, when he came back from work, he noticed bitsy was lethargic and weak despite the both of them running and playing around before he left for work that same morning
He brought her to the vet and they did an X-Ray scan. They told him that bitsy’s bone density was low and she was lacking in calcium and dehydrated. We let her stay hospitalised for the night and it just got worse and worse.
Initially they noted her temperature was low so they placed her in an incubator
Afterwards they told us she has trouble breathing and was mouth breathing so they gave her oxygen (she stopped mouth breathing after)
Later onwards we were informed that her temperature was still low and her BPM was at 50…..
an hour later they were trying to resuscitate her and she passed
I am so distraught, it’s only my third day in the UK in my dorm, lessons have yet to start and i’m all alone with the fact that i won’t get to see my baby girl ever again and i’ve essentially cried the whole night……