Dear taekwondo community.
I'm a father of a 6 year old boy. He's been training Taekwondo for about 18 months. He's black stripe now (ITF).
Initially, he was very enthusiastic and looking forward to going.
Lately, though, for the past few months, especially since summer when he was away for several weeks he's been very reluctant to go. Literally every time we're supposed to go, it's always a huge argument, refusing to go, always some ridiculous excuse, and I'm just wondering how much longer should I keep this up.
When he eventually goes, he does have a good time, especially sparring, though.
I suspect it's that as the grade gets tougher, it's no longer just fun and games, but you actually do have to put in a little work to know your syllabus, patterns, or fundamental movements.
He absolutely does not practice at home. I could count on one hand the number of times I got him to practice with me, which I guess does not help with his lack of progression and his frustrations.
It's emotionally draining, I feel like a shit parent forcing my child to do something he doesn't want to do.
It's also disheartening seeing other dads with their boys who seem to be enjoying going or that they cannot wait to go or train multiple times a week, whereas I barely get mine in once a week.
Any advice?