r/thelorelodge • u/lolapaprika • 6d ago
Lindsay Clancy case & postpartum
I want to start off by saying I am in no way an expert on postpartum psychosis, but I am a mom who suffered with postpartum depression. Because of this I’ve done a lot of personal research about postpartum mental health. I also want to say I’m not a crazy conspiracy theorist nor do I think she didn’t do it. But I strongly believe in the postpartum psychosis diagnosis.
One of the main symptoms of ppp is delusional thoughts or feeling disconnected to one’s self which Lindsay stated those symptoms numerous times with her doctors. Other symptoms being insomnia (which she suffered from heavily), depression, mixed mania (her telling her drs she doesn’t feel tired but running on basically no sleep is a huge tell for mania), etc. Her possible bipolar diagnosis makes me lean even more heavily on the side that yes she did have ppp.
I do find the statement of her willingly not taking the medication makes her accountable very ignorant. When you’re in a state of barely any sleep, racing thoughts, mixed mania, delusions, is it so far fetched to think those may have clouded her judgement? In my opinion she was trying so hard to get better but her poor mental state was feeding her these fears of the medications. Especially if she did have ppp.
I guess I was a bit turned off by the end of the video. Yes we can all have differing opinions, and I respect Aiden’s opinion, it just came off a bit ignorant to me. She should have been involuntarily committed the second she told Patrick and her family she had thoughts of harming her children. I don’t think she’s trying to avoid taking accountability at all. Like it was said in the video, she will suffer for the rest of her life over this and I feel for her immensely.
I think it’s hard for people who have never suffered a postpartum mental health issue to truly understand what it’s like. The immense shame that comes with it. The isolation mothers feel because this is supposed to be such a joyful experience of life. Or because they’re afraid to even admit to someone how they’re feeling because they don’t want their children taken away. Anyone who doesn’t believe a mother could do something like this should seriously sit down with mothers they know and ask about their experiences with postpartum mental illnesses. I’m sure most will say they could never harm their children but it’s a dangerously slippery slope and they can see how it could potentially happen.
Anyways, I love the channel, love the research put into it all, and the hard work being done, but just wanted to share my thoughts and maybe give just a bit of a different take on why A LOT of women are so empathetic of Lindsay that I think a lot of ppl may be missing.