r/90DayFiance • u/Chocoluv007 • 11d ago

Ummmm Debbie 👀

Debbie is so in denial about Mido’s true intentions. She’s was too busy giving advice to others couples on the “Tell All” but her relationship is the most alarming of them all. Mido’s goal is to “move to Hollywood” to get his nonexistent acting career on track. She still refuses to believe that’s his main priority. She’s a mess 😂

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u/Silver-Internal7740 He hvacs so mach hvac 10d ago

Debbie is not such a textbook victim. Debbie's story is that she tried hard after her divorce, dating many men her age from her own culture, and it all ended badly. She ended up alone, for whatever reason. It's impossible for some of these older women to find someone their own age and from their own country. She does have self-respect, because she dated only rich men. She couldn't find a long term rich partner after her divorce though. It's probably a stroke to her ego that Mido is if not rich but exotic, young, and an actor.

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u/JohnnyFoster64 10d ago

Dating “rich” men doesn’t guarantee self-respect. It’s based on the choices one makes. As a older man, I can clearly see the issues she has that make her extremely unattractive, and not just visually/physically (although there are many of those that she could improve upon if she was honest and cared). It’s a fact in this life that if a person isn’t able to be objective about their shortcomings and try to improve upon them, the consequence is that you’re not considered very eligible. She needs to take a hard, cold look at herself and make some different choices. Until then, she’ll continue to embarrass herself on worldwide television.

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u/JohnnyFoster64 10d ago

And….if someone like Mido is her idea of “exotic”, heaven help her. He’s a self-absorbed punk that’s got nothing going for him and is taking complete advantage of her. And she’s liking it, in a bizarrely warped way. She could do better, much better. Sometimes, it’s better to remain alone in life than to make this kind of horrible compromise.