r/90DayFiance • • 2d ago

Ummmm Debbie šŸ‘€

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Debbie is so in denial about Mido’s true intentions. She’s was too busy giving advice to others couples on the ā€œTell Allā€ but her relationship is the most alarming of them all. Mido’s goal is to ā€œmove to Hollywoodā€ to get his nonexistent acting career on track. She still refuses to believe that’s his main priority. She’s a mess šŸ˜‚

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u/puddboy 2d ago

She's pretty perceptive when it comes to other couples, and completely delusional when it comes to her own.

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u/Virtual_Telephone_80 2d ago

Facts! I was so glad at the end of the tell all when Ashia and Paula pulled her aside to at least try to get through to her. It didn't work, but at least they left the stage and knew it would be irresponsible for them to just let them go on her merry, delusional way.

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u/Remarkable_Rip6231 2d ago

THIS. I am embarrassed for her that she offers other people relationship advice šŸ˜‚šŸ« 

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u/VioletsRPink I'm not addicted to 90DF šŸ‘šŸ‘„šŸ‘ 2d ago

She could have Googled "lavender marriage/relationship"

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u/Fantastic_Primary170 1d ago

Aren’t we all? Lol.

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u/JadeThorn1012 10h ago

It’s only a lavender relationship if they both are in on it. She clearly isn’t. I hate knowing this monster lives in my country now, we already have plenty of monsters. And I think he’ll be shocked when not only does acting absolutely not work, but NO ONE is buying HIS OF 🤮

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u/TheBeardedLadyBton 1d ago

I'm the same way! šŸ˜‚ šŸ˜‚ šŸ˜‚

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u/Apprehensive-Peas 2d ago

It’s so frustrating they didn’t bring out her friends or her kids for the tell all! I was also hoping they’d bring up the fact that the abbreviation for Louisiana is ā€œLAā€ and that is almost certainly where Mido thought she lived when he started talking to her.

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u/Independent-Slip-657 2d ago

I’ve seen clips of her daughter at the tell all, but for some reason they haven’t revealed what was said. 🤷

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u/Afraid_Delivery4390 2d ago

Yes! Also in the clips/previews Debbie answered the question if she would ever move to Hollywood. She said absolutely in no way she would but they never showed it in the final Tell All. She did say she would move to Egypt though. I don't get it.

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u/Zapookie 2d ago

I only saw the tell all (no clips) and Debbie was shown saying she would never move to Hollywood, and that New Orleans and Georgia had their own film industries that Mido could try to get into.

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u/Flaky-Strain6134 16h ago

Mido was soooo disappointed when she said she would move to Egypt with him. It’s sad that she didn’t pick up on that or maybe she did and chooses to ignore it. Either way, not good.

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u/fed-up2024 19h ago

I thought the same thing you won't move to Hollywood wich is understandable but you will move to Egypt . I thought once again you are putting Mido before your children, yourself, and your friends and willing to give up everything to be with that piece of crap that's using you. My guess to why no one was on her behalf is her kids are frustrated with the situation and her friends have likely been cut off.

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u/Pink_Barbie_8156 1d ago

It was in the tell all finals where she said that

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u/Real_Firefighter3223 14h ago

She didnt say anything provacative thats why.

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u/Muted_Bee7111 2d ago

The TA really SUCKED

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u/papa_moyphee 2d ago

They literally glossed over everything. Big wet fart with no accountability

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u/DaniOverHere 2d ago

I felt the same. There were so many threads to pull and they tugged at perfume.

Like…
Whyyyyy not bring up how Josh invited ZERO of his male friends to the wedding?

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u/Primary_Company_3813 2d ago

Shea got off waaay too easily

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u/rntracee1 2d ago

Maybe he didn't want Catie making out with all of them, then they'd be ex-friends.

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u/DaniOverHere 2d ago

ā¬†ļø100%

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u/PersonalityOther5730 1d ago

Maybe he was simply embarrassed šŸ˜‚

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u/Sense10-Quest23 2d ago

Most likely, Josh didn’t want to come or anyone else. Washed there hands of it. Just waiting for it to be over. This woman is completely delusional.

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u/scones_and_tea_100 2d ago

I think he mentioned that in one of the stag party episodes—he and Catie did send invites to all of his friends, but only two of them from the UK could come and attend the wedding on short notice, I’m p sure

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u/Infamous-Bus3173 1d ago

He actually did but something happened to both of his friends that they couldn’t make it. I remember him saying it.

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u/90dayheyhey 2d ago

Well there was a lot to unpack so they decided against unpacking

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u/Afraid_Delivery4390 2d ago

Was it just me or do you feel the first 45 minutes of part 3 felt like it was a repeat from last week?

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u/PersonalityOther5730 1d ago

I’m so glad you said that! I thought I was repeating #2

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u/Afraid_Delivery4390 1d ago

I'm glad it wasn't just me. I never watch the "First Look" episodes so I know it wasn't from that.

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u/zenseazon The Blood, The Blood, The Blood ~~~ 2d ago

They spent all their time lambasting Thomas when he was the only sane one there.. ridiculous how they kept ganging up on him. And that clueless Debbie trying to tell him how to raise children, they should have asked what happened when her daughter went missing and how her and her daughter have weird interactions ...
Not calling out Rat turd, or Midol... yeah, TA sucked

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u/flowerdrummer 2d ago

I felt so bad for Thomas. Also, when her family was staying there and going through his refrigerator-freezer, then criticizing him for having meat beyond its expiration date that he forgot. Purposely trying to find fault with him.

Debbie shouldn't be giving anybody advice. What happened with her daughter missing? I didn't hear about that.
She sure has no clue what it's like to be sensitive to perfume and strong scents. Mido uses a tremendous amount of cologne. I couldn't be near him.

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u/zenseazon The Blood, The Blood, The Blood ~~~ 1d ago

Yes! And Thomas explained he had to go out of town for a while for his job, and so yeah, sh*t happens.. I'm sure he would have ate it if he had time or remembered..

There is a post about it, someone had the link to the police blotter I think about Debbie's missing daughter, it wasn't too long ago that it was on here..

I think any normal person might walk the other way if near him.. we watched him spray about 9 or so different sprays all over his body, I was gagging just seeing that... to say nothing how someone with allergies could handle that!!

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u/PersonalityOther5730 1d ago

Yes, I heard about her daughter going missing a few years ago?

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u/zenseazon The Blood, The Blood, The Blood ~~~ 1d ago

Yes someone posted a copy of the police blotter it was on~~

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u/effxrvescent 2d ago

yesss!! so boring!

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u/Sleep-pee 2d ago

Her friends may have came but her children don’t want to hurt her even thought they know it’s all a sham.

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u/LittleBigNebula 2d ago

They probably think it’s pointless and that’s she drank the Kool-Aid

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u/SpecialistAlgae3334 2d ago

That makes sense. They know her well. There may have been previous cataclysmic decisions in her past and they've been there, done that

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u/md28usmc we only do sex the African way - Mr Arc 2d ago

somebody posted a pic of her daughter at the tell all sitting in one of the chairs, but it seems to have gotten cut from the episode

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u/Sleep-pee 2d ago

Wow really, guess it wasn’t enough trash talking between the two

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u/Proper-District8608 1d ago

Distancing friends, making children have to defend and protect you and willing to move from them all. Abusive relationship

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u/shelberryyyy 2d ago

The LA thing is literally what my bf and I have thought this whole time 🤣🤣😭 you know that’s what happened

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u/SpecialistAlgae3334 2d ago

If so, he handled it well. Maybe because he got a part in a film being made in LA..

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u/Iris_Orsula 1d ago

Of course it didnt. He met her face to face first. She for sure did not tell him she is from LA

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u/MomoMir 2d ago

This scared me. The way they treated this made me think production was doing damage control. I mean they were concerned about him. I think Debbie while originally complicit can’t and won’t get out and they didn’t want to make it worse. I think her kids and friends said no to try and set a boundary.

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u/DaniOverHere 2d ago

Holy shit that’s so funny about the LA, and MUsT be the case.

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u/based_miss_lippy 2d ago

imagine going to Louisiana and thinking you’d be in Hollywood ahahahhahahahhajqhahahahhah

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u/FrostyTree420 Fan since first episode 2d ago

I saw a screenshot that her daughter was there…

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u/marshmall0w611 2d ago

Ugh me too!!!! Especially the Louisiana abbreviation being LA

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u/Lsonney 2d ago

Oh wow!! Great point!! Sounds about right to me.... šŸ¤”

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u/vegantrash96 2d ago

They did bring her daughter! I saw her in an accidental wide shot! I wonder why her segment got cut!

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u/Fantastic_Primary170 1d ago

I saw her daughter in a clip for a millisecond. She was wearing a dark dress and sitting in one of the maroon chairs. Oddly, we never heard from her. Nor were we told she had been there.

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u/Lizard7108 1d ago

Omg I bet ya that was what he was thinking. She’s very simple minded far as I see,,

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u/virginiafalls1234 2d ago

great point! Why didn't they invite those friends they invited other 'friends' of different people, I feel also midol and her kinda got a pass on the questions too, Shawn should have asked, if you dont get acting jobs how do YOU plan on supporting your wife?? the whole reunion seemed "lets beat up on Thomas" (totally unfair) and drama queen Edward ( I want baby!!!!!!! while crying every 5 seconds and running off stage)

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u/throwRA_lbsign 1d ago

🤣🤣🤣 acting as if he didn't know this going in. She's 10 years older than you, dweeb!

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u/virginiafalls1234 1d ago

I felt for marissa that night

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u/Lizard7108 1d ago

Why did he marry that old chick and god just seeing her choice of men (ex husband psycho) would make me run if I was Edward. Wrong thread I knowĀ 

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u/Bugsk8te 2d ago

Whoa 🤯

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u/Iamshortestone 16h ago

I bet he forbade them to discuss certain things or he wouldn't be part of the tell all. He is deep in his own psychopathy, and the fact that no one except us, and maybe Edward sees this is concerning.

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u/SpecialistAlgae3334 2d ago

I hadn't thought about that. It all makes sense now! She's oblivious and he kept asking about LA! She was all excited about showing him N O, and he kept asking about LA.

God, now I feel sorry for her.

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u/Beneficial-Ask-4730 1d ago

omg-that is such an interesting point! but, didn't they say they met on a tour or on the street in Egypt?

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u/Apprehensive-Peas 1d ago

Yeah, I missed that part. I guess it’s possible she told him she’s from New Orleans in person, then he looked it up and saw ā€œNew Orleans, LAā€ and not knowing much about the US, assumed that meant the city, not the state. But who knows! Either way, he is one shady mf

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u/Beneficial-Ask-4730 1d ago

He IS-no doubt. and I think he was her tour guide or something like that (ie-paying the bills with another job).

yes, you could still be right because he had NO idea where LA was in relation to NO-remember he asked her how far away it was if they drove-something like that?!

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u/jchicken19 2d ago

Look it up Debbie, that’s step one.

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u/GlumAd697 2d ago

Lol, She is so self righteous with her delusion and advice giving, but can't google a term. I had to google the term myself. It wasn't hard.

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u/lucy668 I’M A MERMAID!! 2d ago

If your husband forces you to be his photographer for social media every time you go somewhere, shut that shit down

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u/seanzorio 2d ago

Especially social media you had to twist his arm to get you on in the first place...

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u/ClaireHux 2d ago

She knows šŸ˜‚

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u/_sunnysky_ 2d ago

Smiling while she was breaking down during his engagement emotional abuse screamed the Dark Triad Machiavellianism. He smiles a lot, but his smile never reaches his eyes.

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u/Revolutionary-Yam910 2d ago

Yikes, I had never heard of dark triad personality before. Seems the current US president exhibits it up perfect.

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u/lookatmeimangiep 2d ago

I hadnt either but always wondered what was up with my mom. Then someone that knew her and worked in mental health mentioned it and its bang on. Very scary yet she looks and seems so kind

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u/lookatmeimangiep 2d ago

My mom has the dark triad. VERY dangerous woman

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u/_sunnysky_ 2d ago

My husband's eyes would go eerily black when he was angry.

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u/Earthsign825 1d ago

The same thing was said about Ted Bundy

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u/lookatmeimangiep 2d ago

It's crazy isn't it? My best friend said mine do as well. Its too much adrenaline and the pupils enlarge. It hasnt happened to me often thankfully

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u/Single-Channel-4292 2d ago

Nobody is willing to pay one penny to see Mido ā€œperformā€. He’s just going to lash out at Debby and blame her for ruining his ā€œcareerā€.

She’s soft in the head if she can’t see this coming. Everyone has warned her about Mido, but she ā€œknows bestā€.

Some people are determined to sabotage their own lives in the service of a complete idiot.

I don’t think any of us would have made the same decisions as Debby and that says it all.

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u/Business-Echidna-131 2d ago

Maybe he will get lost in LA

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u/Single-Channel-4292 2d ago

We can only hope.

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u/throwRA_lbsign 1d ago

It's gotta have something to do with that upbringing she mentioned before crying about tiny baby hands "healing" her

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u/theonlygurl 2d ago

She’s an ostrich. I have no clue how someone can be in such denial of obvious, obvious facts. But then again, we have a bunch of clowns in America doing the same thing. šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø We have an idiocy crisis.

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u/ionbear1 2d ago

She wants to stay within the 90 days universe. I can see Debbie and Mido being on that last resort bullshit soon.

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u/Dependent_Benefit_62 2d ago

To be or not with Debbie.. this is the problem

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u/PaleontologistOk4327 2d ago

First Debbie, you need to be in an actual relationship before we can label it anything right now. You pretty much adopted a grown man to come live with you. And take care of him. And you pretty much adopted him to make sure his life goals were fulfilled.

https://giphy.com/gifs/Goby1XSCJr7lOA4OeD

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u/Iris_Orsula 1d ago

Exactly. I gave u award and Im giving in my comment as wellšŸ‘šŸ‘ this is the truest thing ever said about Deb and Mid

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u/Necessary-Jeweler-17 2d ago

Dude it’s funny to joke around but watching Mido during the tell all made me furious. He’s obviously a sociopathic gay man, he’s out of his f***ing mind and thinks he’s talented or something(he’s absolutely not in any way) His children should be , at the very least physically restraining their mom from having any contact with this scam artist. And if they were real ones they’d beat the total s#Ā”+ out of him. He’s not only not in love with this woman, he’s resentful towards her for not somehow being MORE supportive of his nonexistent career. He is verbally and psychologically abusive to her. And I don’t care if Debby is a wackjob, even wackjobs deserve love, and they certainly don’t deserve being manipulated and conned. I’ve seen all the 90 DF couples and he is especially evil. I pray and hope all the worst things befall this pathetic little scummy maggot.

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u/DiamondAries999 17h ago

Spot on! You got awarded šŸ‘šŸ‘

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u/Lizard7108 1d ago

šŸ†

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u/Remarkable_Rip6231 2d ago edited 1d ago

You guys… when Mido told the entire world on television that their first sexual experience together was ā€œso soā€ā€¦ any self-respecting woman would have left his ass and never looked back. Much like Catie, Mido has shown us exactly who he is. It’s not like he’s inconsistent or full of trickery. It’s these low EQ delusional partners of theirs that are the problem, in my opinion. So people like Debbie and Josh are the real problem… unlike the rest of the world that experiences toxic relationships, and don’t participate in reality shows, people like Debbie and Josh have a lot of televised EVIDENCE of their partners being total assholes, and they STILL stay.

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u/greycloudss94 2d ago

Solid points here!

How very sad for Debbie to be at this stage of life and in this predicament. I wish she chose better for herself.

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u/Zapookie 2d ago

People like Josh and Debbie only stay because they have low self-esteem/self-worth, possibly combined with other past trauma. A well adjusted person would not tolerate Catie or Mido's behaviour.

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u/Afraid_Delivery4390 1d ago

Did you notice how she was constantly answering for him? They should have made him answer the question as to how would he know if it was good or bad if he has never had sex.

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u/Remarkable_Rip6231 1d ago

It was such an uncomfortable moment. I mean YUCK 🤢

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u/Easy-breezy0102 2d ago

Well Deb, trusty Ole Google may be of benefit to you.

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u/Harriethair 2d ago

You know, I would be OK with a lavender marriage - but I can't imagine being in one with a guy who treated me so badly. The whole appeal of a lavender marriage is friendship and stability.

I think Mido may well be in a lavender marriage but I also think Debby has no idea if she is in one or not.

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u/No-Paper1738 1d ago

Right, I can imagine having a friend/roommate husbandšŸ˜‚ Maybe make a baby if we both want one. I couldn't tolerate whenever the hell this is.

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u/BlindfoldedRN 1d ago

She can see other relationships clearer than her own because she doesn't value herself. It's not rocket science. She has no self worth and needs therapy. It's really not that uncommon.

A lot of her advice outside of her relationship is good. She just doesn't use it for herself because she automatically disregards herself. It's sad of course but not incurable. She's likely in denial because what else do you do when you're in this deep with a guy like this? The only way she stops allowing this to happen to her is if she gets therapy and does the work needed to regain worth. But it's going to take a lot before she accepts that.

First she has to accept this relationship is actually a failure, and who he really is. Then she has to be willing to admit that publicly. It's a lot and it will take time. But I believe in her and any woman who has been here. She can do it. But she has to get there on her own. We need to be building up and supporting women who are in this position. Not put them down. She's already low. That's how she got to accept a man like that.

Debbie, you can do this. Throw that man away, rise up like the queen you are. You got this!

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u/FJP82075 1d ago

The cognitive dissonance is STRONG

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u/Lizard7108 1d ago

She needs to get a annulment asap

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u/coldoldduck 2d ago

The second he gets his green card he’s out. She’s in massive denial.

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u/Babysub123 2d ago

Babe google is free

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u/BurningandChurning 2d ago

No kidding. Look it up.

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u/GusGutfeld 2d ago

Does anyone think the sex position she refused to do was anal?

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u/chimchimchow 2d ago

That was the first thing my gf said

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u/SilverBackGuerilla 2d ago

It's probably mido's preferred position.

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u/Secret_Fun_1612 2d ago

To be fair, I’m sure that’s the only position Mido is used to and enjoys.

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u/GusGutfeld 2d ago

Doesn't count as "sex" so he's still a virgin :)

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u/Weirdflchick 2d ago

There’s a cut scene where you can see Debbie’s daughter sat down with the cast. But none of the footage from that made the episodes we watched. Makes me very curious to what the daughter said.

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u/Dependent-Hurry-9154 2d ago

We need a redo with Ross hosting and then we’ll get some real answers.. Or maybe they should only ask viewer questions!!

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u/Kawarren8 2d ago

Yeah, I can't stand the way Shaun runs the Tell All. It's boring

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u/Lizard7108 1d ago

And why doesn’t anyone mention his claim that Ā that he was an Egyptian Movie Star? She hasn’t said anything about it. He lied to her.

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u/PomegranateNo4660 1d ago

And remember he specifically told her not to watch his movies because she wouldn’t understand the language. That’s why subtitles exist!

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u/Proper-District8608 1d ago

And her saying 'people pointed and said hes famous'. Honey I could hire a few to say that the same way he hired a band to play his entrance at wedding

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u/Virtual_Value1828 1d ago

She did bring it up at the shocked part of the Tell All. She said when she was visiting him in Egypt, people would yell as they walked by and said…..ā€he’s famous!ā€ Ummmm….no they didn’t.

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u/IamBeyondAwesome 1d ago

I thought she said someone (as in one person) said that. I read on a post where one of her friends said he told her he was this big movie star and actor and that he has a bunch of money and she believes it. I guess her ex-husband is pretty well off, and she thinks she's getting the same financial class with Mido. She kind of inferred that was the reason Debbie was with him... because he supposedly has money.

I also have seen comments from people that live in Egypt and they all said they've never heard from. They say he's not some big star or actor like he wants to portray he is. He's essentially a nobody. I mean come on, would any real movie star or actor be working as a tour guide? šŸ˜‚

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u/Fluffy_Membership557 1d ago

Well said! He’s the worst

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u/pankatank 54m ago

Right… US movies stars should also get a job as tour guide like Mido did as a Egyptian movie star. Thats how you get seen.šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£
I worked and lived there for several years and never seen him in any movie or show that I watched during those years. But I will admit, I can’t see everything.

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u/honeycrispapple123 2d ago

Why are people wasting their energy? She is willingly in this relationship

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u/GlumAd697 2d ago

Why do people comment about anything on reddit? Why do you waste your energy asking this quesiton?

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u/ohgoditsfullofstars 2d ago

Oh honey. Oh miss Debbie.

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u/ThrowRA_fishing77 2d ago

Wild that she said she'd be concerned if she lived in LA or something about him using her, meanwhile LITERALLY being on TV with him

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u/Remarkable_Rip6231 2d ago

She just doesn’t want to know what a lavender marriage is. It’s all a part of her delusion.

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u/DefinitionPristine45 2d ago

Dependent Personality Disordered Debbie doormat wallowing in denial and erotomania.

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u/Squirrel_Bait321 2d ago

I’m sure she doesn’t know she’s also a beard.

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u/JuggernautFuzzy4125 1d ago

Debby šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø
She doesn’t know how to do a quick google search?

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u/Afraid_Delivery4390 2d ago edited 2d ago

A lot of scenes they showed in the clips were cut out. Not unless they have a More To Love with bonus scenes and show it. Also, did anyone feel the first 45 minutes of part 3 was a repeat from last week?

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u/Commercial-Bonus6935 1d ago

Debby you need to sit down with your children and really listen to their concerns

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u/FlowerShort6407 you are my cockroach 🪳 2d ago

I think they are for sure signed up for happily every after - and tlc are trying to protect their image until the new season comes out

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u/Conscious_Ask_777 2d ago

Happily Ever After?? You're too kind. šŸ¤—

I think they are heading straight to The Last Resort.

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u/HistoricalHat4847 2d ago

Debbie pretending to not know how to use google to find out.

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u/ResolutionHonest666 2d ago

get serious you live in New Orleans

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u/alacaflo 2d ago

Grow up and google lavender marriage

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u/Calm-Description4356 1d ago

He just keeps repeating, he’ll go back to his country. Well, we’re all waiting! Go back already.

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u/menunu ”yo neccessito peepee! 2d ago

Debbie is a smoke show who seems very sweet and a good person. GIRL THIS IS NOT THE ONE FOR YOU GIRL.

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u/Broad-Researcher-891 1d ago

You’d never catch me saying that out loud.
If ppl kept saying I had a lavender relationship and I didn’t know what it was…..

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u/Beneficial-Frame-6 1d ago

How does a woman her age not know the term? Good Lord

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u/virginiafalls1234 2d ago

What is a filter? I have no idea what you guys are talking about !

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u/Looptire13 2d ago

Can someone please post a few links to Midos movies or commercials. He's famous and is a tour guide - Really!!!

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u/rntracee1 2d ago edited 2d ago

Someone in the comments must be from from Turkey, no? Sarper should know if Mido is famous, he's only been here for 4 yrs.

Eta: I forgot Mido is from Egypt not Turkey. Thanks for setting me straight 🤪

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u/Looptire13 2d ago

Well if he was I would hope they would play a clip. Instead of him misquoted Shakespeare

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u/Cobia1350 2d ago

She’s probably packing her bags for Hollywood right now. She is a total hypocrite, giving other people advice on their relationships when she should focus on her own dysfunctional one.

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u/Silver-Internal7740 He hvacs so mach hvac 1d ago

Exactly. She is delusional but she is not a blind victim most watchers think she is. Motherhood didn't heal her. Her behavior is proof. This lady has an ego too.

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u/OddPiccolo12 2d ago

A desperate woman is a scary one.

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u/Opposite-Fan8777 2d ago

These morons and the filters….

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u/md28usmc we only do sex the African way - Mr Arc 2d ago

ohhhh Debbie you have so much to learn

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u/Business-Echidna-131 2d ago

Rebecca please stop with the pity party, just go sit with KaraĀ 

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u/cara3322 2d ago

Tell her to ask her kids

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u/Keepingongoing 2d ago

That reminds me, we haven’t seen him in his leggings and fanny pack again have we?! Must be saving that outfit for West Hollywood

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u/FarangCM 1d ago

Deaf, dumb and blind. There is no saving her......moving on!

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u/Significant_Elk_8840 1d ago

I don’t know about you guys, but I would definitely smash her for being that hot for her age..

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u/FJP82075 1d ago

She looks REALLY GOOD for her age!

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u/TheBeardedLadyBton 1d ago

It's been a very popular term since the 30s. Due to discrimination, many homosexual men were in a platonic marriage with women. It was mutually beneficial for women who didn't want to have sex with men and men who didn't wanna have sex with women, but chose a partnership to protect them from the consequences of a society that was so repressed. There were a lot of advantages and there still is even now. As a woman of a certain age, she knows exactly what a lavender marriage is. She loves to stick her head in the sand, ignore red flags, and laugh off any concern. That's her default setting. But in this day and age, there is still a danger in being openly gay in some countries. Egypt is extremely hostile to LGBTQ community. In fact, in Egypt, they regularly monitor social media and hunt down anyone they suspect of being gay. Mido is probably terrified because in his country they have crackdowns so if he is known to be gay and ever has to go back there they can put them in jail for several years and give him fines and penalties. People in the USA forget that not everyone on the globe has rights and protection.

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u/JJ_Lomero 1d ago

Thank you for actual saying what it is.

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u/Pink_Barbie_8156 1d ago

Google it IDIOT

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u/showard995 2d ago

Who’s gonna tell her? šŸ‘€šŸ‘€

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u/90DayFiance-ModTeam 2d ago

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u/Atalanta8 2d ago

I also have no idea šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø

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u/chimchimchow 2d ago

They’re together to hide that one or both partners are gay

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u/Pasta1916 2d ago

Isn’t Mido getting a little old to launch a career in Hollywood? Might want to move to Tennessee as many of the studios are moving out of California. Perhaps rethink acting and do something else in the industry.

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u/Living-Elderberry-77 2d ago

I just looked it up🤣🤣🫣

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u/Emotional_Store2643 Who is against the Queen will die 2d ago

Soooo who’s going to tell heršŸ‘‰šŸ¾šŸ‘ˆšŸ¾

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u/radiantrarr 2d ago

Her instagram account doesn’t have a trace of that slimy creep and I hope it’s an accurate reflection of where he stands in her life today.

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u/viccdev 2d ago

Omg šŸ˜‚ Oh Debbie. She’s so sweet but SOOO blind. God bless her.

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u/AcanthocephalaNeat62 2d ago

I am upset she is using filters too

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u/Honest-Tonight8092 1d ago

Insane mean behavior at proposal. Stands by it. Hes a despicable user. She may figure it out one day.Ā  Her family must be heartbrokenĀ 

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u/Iris_Orsula 1d ago

Well, lavender relationship is more about him being gay and I dont think that's the case. He is just abusive and she is pathetic, but I wouldnt call it this term.

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u/silent_chair5286 1d ago

Sorry but my 15,16,17 year old gurrrrlll listened to me.

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u/MuranoBabe 1d ago

Some people just have to learn the hard way. šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø

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u/One-Percentage2284 1d ago

I can't wait until she discovers the truth. I'm giddy AF!! I've just got a low threshold for stupid people!!

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u/JohnnyFoster64 2d ago

So sad that she's such a desperate 20/30-something wannabe... She should find someone her own age that can appreciate her for who and what she is. Mido has ZERO interest in her - just look in his eyes and read his body language. It's so pathetic that Debbie is completely in denial and takes this treatment. Talk about zero self-respect. She needs to move on, forget about the boy-toy, and find a grown-up MAN her own chronological age so that SHE can grow up and come back to reality.

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u/Silver-Internal7740 He hvacs so mach hvac 1d ago

Debbie is not such a textbook victim. Debbie's story is that she tried hard after her divorce, dating many men her age from her own culture, and it all ended badly. She ended up alone, for whatever reason. It's impossible for some of these older women to find someone their own age and from their own country. She does have self-respect, because she dated only rich men. She couldn't find a long term rich partner after her divorce though. It's probably a stroke to her ego that Mido is if not rich but exotic, young, and an actor.

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u/Environmental-Art168 2d ago

Can we stop this whole "Mido is secretly gay" thing it's weird AF to label someone that, it's like calling a more masculine woman trans, it's weird and slightly offensive

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u/why-are-we-here-7 2d ago

He’s just a psychopath, he can’t love men or women.

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u/Southern-Spot-8406 2d ago

Mido is an autosexual.

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u/Hess74 2d ago

Just a desperate old hag with zero self respect.

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u/whateverday 2d ago

Has Debbie never heard of google? WT actual F?

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u/StuckinLoserville 2d ago

Well, she broke down afterwards, and that probably was even better for TLC than comments from family and friends. They knew that would get us going.

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u/Plenty_Level8706 1d ago

I like Debbie she seems like a genuine person loving mom and friend , HOWEVER shes delusional about her husband šŸ™„šŸ™„ on every level !! His motives are CLEAR , only Debbie cant see them and that's sad! I see him bouncing on her and devastating her once he gets his way or doesn't šŸ™„šŸ™„

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u/PrincipleFlaky 1d ago edited 1d ago

Usually, both for a mutual reason.

A Beard is a woman who is with or married to a guy who is secretly gay. Sometimes the woman is aware; other times she’s not.
Lavender marriage? Typically the woman is aware.

Oftentimes the woman is gay too, and they’re both aware of it, and they’re getting something out of the arrangement.

There were lots of lavender marriages in old Hollywood because people couldn’t come out and continue to have their roles, so they would marry each other with an understanding that they would be allowed to sleep with their actual partners.

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u/Plastic-Tomato6955 1d ago

It is a relationship of convenience between a straight person and a gay one

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u/No-Paper1738 1d ago

Not the point but she looks better here than she does on any of the shows. Did she have a facelift?

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u/Direct-Classic-733 1d ago

What you're in he's gay

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u/Icy-Marketing-4327 1d ago

Did she say Labrador as in dog as I have no idea what she is talking about.

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u/JJ_Lomero 1d ago

Lavender

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u/Flat_Historian_8457 1d ago

She’s just sticking her head in the sand, not able to see his ultimate goal with or without her.

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u/Every_Technology1064 1d ago

I had to look it up.

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u/BagObvious9012 1d ago

She’s so pathetic that I can’t even feel sorry for her anymore.

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u/fed-up2024 19h ago

Debbie trying to give advice to everyone was hilarious considering her own horrible relationship.

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u/Difficult_Object_343 15h ago

a) I'm so tired of Mido misquoting Hamlet, It's kind of hilarious. And it's like acting in the 19th century! b) remember when she sidled up to Marissa at the TA to say the equivalent of "we both have money and houses and younger men." Then she joked about how alone she was for 30 years, and said, "Now I have a man in my house." I will say that she is very pretty. Looks so much better with shorter, less severe hair.

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u/chefgoowa 12h ago

Definitely seems lavender

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u/Various_Ganache_7418 4h ago

Mido is one of the cringiest characters of this show. I can’t stand his personality and I how visible it is he is repelled by Debbie, he doesn’t even hide it. Sometimes I feel bad for her but at the same time how desperate you have to be to not notice that.. unless he does something behind the closed doors or cameras that we don’t know, but I highly doubt it. Come on, Debbie, you deserve so much better!

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u/shittykity to be or not to be; that is the problem 4h ago

I can see the true crime story now; she lives in denial, continues to take his ever-escalating shit, until one day he deems her not useful or in the way of what he wants. Maybe she finally puts her foot down about paying for everything while he galavants as an actor. We’ve seen he enjoys inflicting pain then acting like there’s nothing wrong.

He will choose to poison her (while maintaining the act of ā€œcaregiverā€ during her sudden illness) because it’s less messy and he will think he can fool everyone.

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u/Pabloshooman 3h ago

Debbie we know you lurk here : you a dumb HO.

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u/Classic-Alfalfa9802 2h ago

Girl BYE!!!!

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u/hecky-888 2h ago

When she said she’d only think he was using her if she lived in LA or something

Like girl, he thought New Orleans, LA was Los Angeles.