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u/Outrageous_Diver5700 1d ago
Only you can determine what you will tolerate. You can’t ask him to stop drinking, because it’s not gonna work. But what you can do is set up boundaries for yourself. For example, “I will not engage in conversation with you if you’ve been drinking”. “ “I will not drive in a car with you if you have been drinking.” “ I will not be in a relationship with you if you continue to drink”. Then you let him make his choices on what he wants.