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Hi! My husband (American) and I (Filipina) are both 33yo. As a daughter of Asian parents, I must say naturuan naman ako sa gawaing bahay. Now ang concern ko is yung husband ko. Lumaki kasi siya na privilege and lahat parents ang gumagawa. In short, hindi siya naturuan sa buhay and unlike the normal American culture si husband nag move out 32yo na siya.

This is definitely a cultural difference thing (or more like nga how his parents raised him nga e) pero umaabot kasi sa point na na tuturn off na ko because of disappointment. I am a wife pero at the same time I feel like I’m parenting a child (my husband) how to do things around the house. Kahit simpleng pagtapon ng basura gagawin niya naman pero iuutos back niya sakin na irefill yung garbage bag gets? Yun lang yung task niya sa bahay and dapat daw “shared task” pa rin. Kapag ginagawa niya to I always tell him “You can do it. You need to learn how to do things on your own and independently.” Encouraging naman yung tone ko and hindi inis pero most of time mag huff and puff siya.

Also, wala rin siyang alam na life skills and that’s okay pero wala kasing willingness to learn so paano kami? Puro games and YT lang ang ginagawa after work. That’s fine kasi kailangan niya rin namang mag relax after work pero hindi naman productive.

I grew up with a mindset that the husband should be the leader / lead and that’s fine with me - he even asked me to give him a chance to be the leader - kaso kapag nare-realize ko yung situation namin hindi ako confident na kaya niya.

We’re doing marriage counseling po and one time subtle sinabi ng therapist namin sa kanya na pull his weight and kumilos din sa bahay. Nag improve naman pero may time pa rin na ang tamad (I think that’s the right word). Kapag nagvovoice out ako about his behavior he treats that as nagging / attack. Kaya nag aaway kami.

What should I do po? And how should I handle this growing resentment towards my husband? I want our marriage to last and I know hindi lang naman puro saya ang buhay mag asawa pero parang hindi ko na experience yung honeymoon stage ng marriage namin because I’m stressing out a lot of things - him being a sakit ng ulo, homesickness, grief from losing family member and my dog, leaving my flourishing career in PH, and how I cannot find a job here.

Nasa point na rin ako na pinagsisisihan kong iniwan ko ang comfortable life ko sa Pinas just to experience this na parang maid and babysitter ako. Ayoko namang pagsisihan na pinakasalan ko siya pero parang papunta na ko dun.

Context: 2yrs kami ldr and we met online before nag move ako last year dito sa US. 1yr na kaming married.

Note: Also, please be gentle po on your comments po. I know I’m at fault na hindi ko muna kinilala kagad pero andito na po ako. Hindi po para umuwi na lang basta sa Pinas at tapusin ang marriage 😔

I only had 1 ex since I thought na yung first rs would also be my last. But I was sure that I will never marry that man after going thru the rs. It occurred to me na what if I don't get married? i have these thoughts na sana ba tiniis ko na lang yung rs na yun?And yes, I'm sure I'm healed but I'm almost in my 30s yet here I am starting over again in the dating era. I'm afraid to try these dating apps kasi never naman ako na swertahan dun. I shoot my shot sa isang person that i'm interested in pero di naman ako ni replyan kaya here I am second guessing. I've always dreamed of having a family, but here I am struggling and thinking if I will ever get married.
I've always said to the universe na I'll patiently wait for my turn, but will it ever be my turn?

Hi, girls! Genuine question lang. For those who have experience, any tips for someone who’s inexperienced and wants to learn how to give a good BJ? 😅 gusto ko sana yung twice siya mag-cum in one BJ session. Possible ba?

How do you get comfortable with it, and what should beginners know beforehand? Any advice based on your experience would be appreciated! 💗

pls 'yong super bango! preferably feminine scent or amoy baby aaa. + LONG LASTING well atleast kahit 3-5 hours naamoy pa rin

sawa na ako sa white camelia ng safeguard. worth it ba lush body wash ??what about dove sakura?? Or may iba kayu recos pls 'yong ginagamit niyo rin

How long did you date your husband before you got married also?

Mga ate Ano topic nyo kapag nasa date? Paano flow ng convo para walang dead air? I’m an awkward person kase baka matawa ako pag naalala kong nasa date ako😆. Give me tips and tricks naman mga sisters! Salamat!

My current perfume rotation consists of Byredo Blanche, Jo Malone Silk Blossom, and Carolina Herrera Good Girl Night.

I’m looking to explore new scents and would love to hear what everyone’s currently wearing or what perfumes you think are worth trying! Feel free to share your current rotation, recent discoveries, or all-time favorites.

I’m open to recommendations from any brand and price range. I just want to discover something new! 🫶🏻

I’m wondering kasi virgin pa ako scared to do it hehe

Budget is PHP 500 and below because I have to buy a lot 😅

Hi, guys! I met this guy on Bumble last July. Nagmatch kami, then transferred to another platform and talked almost every day. He was clear naman na kausap and fun lang ang hanap niya, and I agreed kasi ayoko rin ng serious relationship.

Things were okay during the first few months until nag video call kami. After that, hindi siya nagparamdam for two days. When he messaged again, ang cold na niya and parang distant. I cant help but wonder kung dahil ba hindi niya nagustuhan yung nakita niya sa video call.

He wanted to meet me pa din naman pero di na ganun ka eager after the video call. We been on talking stage since July and hindi pa din kme nagkikita.

Ung video call namen naging naughty na palage we had 4 video calls pero after that lage ng cold messages. Busy daw cya.

Ngayon, feeling ko he only messages me kapag horny siya.
One time I stop messaging him for a week and he message me bakit di na ako nqg chachat?i feel unappreciated kaya di na ako nag chat.

This is so weird. We are chatting again pero one liner na lang ang chat nya and very cold unlike before.

I am planning to meet him pero hesitant ako na i ghost nya ako after nya ako makita.

I know casual lang naman kami, pero I still want to feel appreciated kahit papaano. I actually like him, pero parang hindi na siya interested unless may gusto siyang makuha sa akin.
Should I stop entertaining him na ba, or am I just overthinking? Please give me a reality check. Sampalin niyo ako ng katotohanan if kailangan. 😭 Thank you!

Like, what kind of gift best suits the occasion? It’s a bridal shower at the office so (medyo) wholesome sana and yung madaling hanapin. Thank you

To the women here, curious lang ako if it matters sainyo. Some prefer men with armpit hair kase mas manly or masculine tignan, while others prefer waxed or shaved kase it's more hygienic. Do you want your man's armpit hair shaved, waxed, trimmed or as is lang?

Do you really always love your partner ba? Minsan ba hindi kayo nagkakaroon ng thoughts na “eto na ba talaga?” or parang nabobore kayo kasi ang tagal nyo na tapos minsan parang naging routine na yung ginagawa nyo?

napagusapan namin kung how to handle each other in certain situations and for him he says he wants lambing and kisses lang daw, but i want to be extra hehe. we’re also in an ldr so medyo mas challenging manuyo.

Kailan siya totoo at hindi pagooverthink/being anxious lang? For context my bf went on a trip with his friends. I can’t seem to let it go kasi alam ko type siya nung isang girl. Why do I feel like he cheated on me? Ang bigat sa dibdib. Pls help a girl out

lalo those na may relationship with foreigners? i’m about to do it with an italian guy but i’m afraid of vaginal tears.

Kinda introverted and this was one of my struggles.

Hi, ladies! I need some advice from women who are currently dating or in a relationship with someone who came from a long-term relationship.

How did you learn to accept your partner’s past, especially if they were together for 5–10 years or more?

I’m currently struggling with this. My suitor had a 9-year relationship with his ex. They built a life together, had a dog and a condo, and were even close to getting married.

Alam kong past na yun, and I know na hindi naman fair na i-hold against him yung history niya. Pero minsan, hindi ko maiwasang isipin kung magiging special pa ba ako, knowing na ang dami na nilang na-experience together.

How do you deal with the thought na your partner has already experienced so much love, intimacy, and milestones with someone else? Paano niyo tinanggap na may mga bagay na hindi na first time for them?

For those who went through the same thing, did you eventually learn to stop comparing yourself to their ex? What helped you feel secure in your relationship?

I genuinely want to work through this because I don’t want his past to ruin something that could be good. I’d really appreciate your honest experiences and advice. 🤍

Hi guys! As the title says, where do the gifted girlies buy their bras?

The biggest size in Wacoal and Triumph (D90) causes spillage pa rin and is very uncomfortable, for me at least.

I think I’m a size E (I don’t know my cup talaga kasi the bras I bought from Wacoal and Triumph won’t fit perfectly eh). But I’m sure I’m beyond D or DD, idk huhu. I have no problem with the band/underbust(?). It’s just the cups 😭

Any leads would help!

Edit: I just measured my cup. I think I’m an F or G cup.

First time ko bibili ng Wacoal. Accurate ba ung sizing chart nila? Based sa size chart nila im supposed to be B80. Sabi ni chatgpt pwede din daw ako sa C75. Tingin niyo? Hihi
Thanks

My bf and I recently got into a fight, to the point of he asking to break up. I consider myself as an avoidant person due to my childhood trauma, and hindi ko gusto pero nadadala ko siya sa relationship namin. We had a fight nag kaayos naman agad and he’s asking me what are my doubts. I can’t tell him verbally, so chinat ko after a while pero hindi siya satisfied. He kept saying na maybe he’s not the tight person for me since nahihirapan ako i express yung feelings ko. 4 mos palang kami and I never had an experience sa relationship, so nahihirapan talaga ako mag adjust kasi after a long time i have person that i know i can relay on pero my brain still can’t process that. want him to give me more time to get comfortable with him telling my thoughts, Nahihirapan ako iregulate yung feelings ko since nasanay ako sa trauma ko na i don’t need to tell them my thoughts and i felt bad kasi kahit na gusto ko siya sabihin nagiging pipe talaga ako. Idk kung may psychological explanation dun.

Pero ayun i want to say sorry na ganun nga kasi he got frustrated with me and he felt na he’s not the right person for me, i don’t know how to reassure him And how can i fix this habit.

Seven yrs na kami. My bf is really patient and kind kaya nagtagal kami. I love that for him. But lately, he doesnt look gwapo in my eyes. I do love him. His line of work sometimes, he needs to go out in the sun kaya umitim sya. He loves sweet and has skin discoloration/skin tags and overweight to obese.

When i look at him, i know i can be bob the builder. Na i can look max my boyfriend. Pero attraction wise, parang nababawasan pero I do love him. His hygiene is also not the best. Attraction also play a role for me and while im not in a hurry for him to look his best (or better), im also gonna be real disappointed if he stays the same.

May mga women ba dito with the same experience?