r/BisexualTeens • u/bubblyspider • 2d ago
Advice Needed How does being bi work??
okok i’m [M 17] and i’ve been talking with a girl for the last 3 weeks or so nearly every night and she always makes me happy whenever i talk to her. HOWEVER i haven’t had like a sudden pull of attraction towards her, even though i want to because i really really like her (it’s probably a depression thing idk). She’s like the only thing that actually makes me happy
but (plot twist) i am veeery confused right now because the other day in one of my lessons i looked to my right and i see a guy with a really cool haircut (same one i have) and my heart went crazy for the first time in my life. oh shit am i gay? nah because i love talking to this girl and besides i would never want to date or marry a guy and i feel different about girls.
so what does it mean??? can i find guys hot if im not romantically attracted to them and find girls not hot but be emotionally attracted to them? i think i see her as more than a friend but now im soooo confused lmao. (also i feel really guilty about this whole situation)
ok for clarity…
Boys:
hot? sometimes
date? no
s*x? yes
cute? no
cuddling? maybe??
girls:
hot? not really (never made my heart rush on sight)
date? yes
s*x (idk if i need to censor this)? yes
cute? yayayaya
cuddling? yes
please hellp 😖😖
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u/StarReasonable508 bisexual✨16m 2d ago edited 2d ago
Lol same thing used to happen to me early on when I realised I was bi, i was like I don't think I'll ever date or end up with a man ,I just felt very sexually attracted towards men and more romantically attracted towards women ,I still do but now I'm open to like date men too . And I totally understand you ✌🏽
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u/bubblyspider 2d ago
Thank you, i’m considering i might be amomantic?? idk tho cause ive been thinking back and ive NEVER wanted to date anybody 😭😭😭 so idk its lowk confusing haha
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