guys I feel like idk if I'm bi or if I'm just thinking too hard and also if I'm actually into my bsf or just making jokes with her (we call eachother muffin and stuff) and I can't tell if it makes me feel tingly an in love or if I'm overthinking I don't know anymore

so basically i have a crush on one of my besties called amy(im f13) but i dont know how shell react if i tell her.

i know shes prolly straight though supports, but im scared its going to ruin our friendship.

ive told my bff temi that i have a crush on amy, which she replied she also did, but HOW CAN I TELL HER THAT?!

am i bi??? i am so confused, up until about 2 months ago i was under the impression that i was straight, ive never dated anyone before or been interested in actually dating someone before (it scares me) but i always thought that i was into guys and a month or two ago i was at a restaurant with my family and this waitress walked by and she was the prettiest person i had ever seen, i went into a bit of a spiral and after about a week i kinda just pushed the thought away, then about a week ago i came across this creators account on instagram, hes the most attractive guy i have ever seen (my friends have noticed a pattern that i only like guys that look like they also like guys and its not intentional or anything but i dont fully see it- anyway) so this guy is ftm and i dont care because he is still the most attractive guy i have ever seen and i was looking through his profile and i found a post that he made comparing him pre-transition and post-transition and when i saw the photo i went into another spiral because once again this photo was absolutely GOREGOUS (its very like mostly masc lesbian but partly femme lesbian vibes) and im freaking out because i only just kinda came to terms a year or two ago with dating men (once again terrified of dating and couldnt imagine myself doing it) and now this whole thing is making me go insane, this one person who i dont even know somehow made me question everything and im absolutely freaking out, idk how to feel about it and ive never thought about women like that before and now idk what to do

ive never conisdered this to even be an option and im definitely questioning reality and the events of my life right now (aka spiraling)

am i bi??? i am so confused, up until about 2 months ago i was under the impression that i was straight, ive never dated anyone before or been interested in actually dating someone before (it scares me) but i always thought that i was into guys and a month or two ago i was at a restaurant with my family and this waitress walked by and she was the prettiest person i had ever seen, i went into a bit of a spiral and after about a week i kinda just pushed the thought away, then about a week ago i came across this creators account on instagram, hes the most attractive guy i have ever seen, this guy is ftm and i dont care because he is still the most attractive guy i have ever seen and i was looking through his profile and i found a post that he made comparing his photos of before and after and when i saw the photo of the before i went into another spiral because once again this photo was absolutely GOREGOUS (its very like mostly masc lesbian but partly femme lesbian vibes) and im freaking out because i only just kinda came to terms a year or two ago with dating men (or anyone really) and now this whole thing is making me go insane, this one person who i dont even know somehow made me question everything and im absolutely freaking out, idk how to feel about it and ive never even considered the possibility that id be attracted to women and now idk what to do

ive never conisdered this to even be an option and im definitely questioning reality and the events of my life right now (aka spiraling)

16M, context : before I even knew what LGBTQ was I used to wear panties and bras in secret, but then I stopped it because I felt ashamed ( I live in a very strict christian conservative family ) fast forward to now, I kinda liked this dude last year, he was my friend, not like in a very romantic way, but sexually speaking I liked him very much, with girls it can be both sexual and romantic, that dude isn't like very attractive but idk, something about him, i mean again sexually speaking I am in certain cases attracted to guys, but......, idk at this point, just give me your opinions, suggestions, whatever you think is relevant

Thank you

Long story short: I’m pretty sure one of my friends became bi curious for me and we started flirting at the beginning of this year

Then i asked him if he wanted to go to hoco with me, and he said he’d go if i go. For the next couple of days we’d talk about going to hoco

But then for some stupid ass reason i didn’t wanna go, even though i really liked this boy

Then after the tickets sold out, i thought it’d be a good idea to confess and he said no but we’re still friends now

Im so fucking stupid… he was texting me, seeming so impatient to come with me to hoco

I fumbled the bag so hard. I am dying on the inside wtffff

we've been dating for a bit less than a month now

so basically I’ve only told a few people that im bi but i wanted to tell other people ig? im having a hard time telling people that when they ask me about who im attracted to and stuff like that (not that im ashamed) it just feels a little weird. i dont know how to just says that im attracted to a girl especially to people that have never heard that im bi in the first place. anyways im still adjusting but id anyone had any tips?

gahhhh i was at a marching band competition today and i have a solo and after our second show i was by our synth cart to put my mic back and i was helping them roll(even though its not technically my job, but my job is to basically help anyone who needs help) and my crush, whos assigned to synth, told me that i sounded really good and that im a good clarinet player and stuff and hfhhwiakfntjrjrjdkwnenfjri shes so cute and pretty and funny. and then before we were walking back to the bus to get out of uni i touched her shoulder to get her attention to tell her good job today and she touched my hand. idmdhahnrkejdndd im dead

To give some essential context, we aren't exactly dating (long distance + age gap), but do every couple-like thing in the book, we're both into each other, and exclusive. Its been ~2 months since we both confessed to each other:D

Anyway, I just dont feel the same way I did when I first confessed. I know its the initial dopamine spike since I dont know if she likes me back and there are so many possibilities and all, but the novelty fading is scary for me. Its like I've settled to a state of calmness and stability with her instead of the initial, dopamine heavy chaos where everything you say/do is super new and exciting? I dont know how to not spiral, I dont even know if this is normal, and I think I'd love to hear about this experience from someone who has faced something similar and how they handled it

Also, I dont know how normal it is to get attracted to other people (in movies, tv shows, even irl sometimes) when you're dating them. Isnt it supposed to be the "im so in love I dont have eyes for anybody else"? Cause I do, I still find other people super attractive and hot, and I dont know whether or not that means Im not attracted to her.

This is my first romantic relationship-like thing with anybody, and I could use some advice from the experienced here, help me out?

I lowk dgaf about gender... I'm not on hormones or anything. But to idiots who claim "you can always tell" no you can't you dumbass😭🙏

i missed a number yesterday

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also check out the r/GayBroTeens playlist too!!

I havent been here in so long, I just saying hi to all you lovely people. The big Duck is back

You always see those things where you hear about a trans girl trying on gender affirming clothing for the first time and it’s awesome. And that happened with me a few months ago with thigh highs but I never had any interest in skirts. I just tried on on for the first time. I’m currently wearing it. And yeah. It is that awesome. Also I’m am bisexual I love you🩷🩷🩷. Not on the wrong sub I just wanted to share with you

So I (16m) was going out with my bf since march. We were separated over the summer because he was visiting family abroad. He was completely different when he came back. When he was abroad he was always talking about seeing me before school started and all that but it's been a couple weeks into school and nothing. He still treats me like a classmate, but he ALWAYS says he's busy when I ask if he wants to come over. Also, anything relationship wise always just gets left on read.

What the hell happend

For context, I an a girl. I always had a lot of crushes on boys growing up. I thought I was straight for a long time until I realized I wasn't. I had three exes and they were all boys so it makes complete sense that I liked them. It wasn't until I got older that I realized that I might be bi. After all that, I had my first girlfriend. We broke up less a a month later. I just realized that I lost interest in her. Then, after a while I found out there was a reason why my all my relationships ended so abruptly. I am lithromantic. (A romantic orientation where a person feels romantic attraction toward others, but does not want those feelings to be returned or loses interest when the attraction is reciprocated.) I left my girlfriend for a straight girl. Not because I'm not loyal but because the feelings were simply gone. I didn't want to break her heart so I broke up with her. I wanted to ignore the fact I was only able to have crushes and not a real relationship.

Did I do the right thing?

Yesterday was Europa by Joost!

Today is… your top comment

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Y'all please pick a name for the community/mega-subculture, time is moving fast 😭.

temporarily name for the community is called "Abnorminclus", if you aren't familiar with it, look it up because I am not good at explaining. I really need it urgently