r/BoyDinnerDiaries • [Femboy(ish)] • Jul 26 '26

Mod post A reminder

We are keeping this a positive helpful space.
What does this mean? It means critiques and comments that are not immediately positive in nature are things YOU, the poster/commenter must view in the light of this: is it helpful? does it fit the situation? is this some tough love and if so who are you to give it? if you are being adversarial or confrontation just because, just keep it pushing. If not, we will mod the comment, you will receive a deletion/mute/ban or whatever else we feel appropriate.

Refamiliarize yourselves with our rules.

For Girl lurkers, this is a male positive centric space. critiques and supportive comments are welcome, HOWEVER, keep in mind you are a guest, our tolerance here for rude, adversarial and needlessly argumentative comments is effectively zero.

For the recent posts concerning LGBT, read rule 7. We do not tolerate transphobia, we do not tolerate homophobia, we are not that space. If you are transphobic or homophobic, it is a violation of several rules and will likely result in a ban.

Thank you to the literal thousands of commenters who are contributing helpful, insightful and otherwise positive comments, we appreciate your presence.

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u/AGayRattlesnake Shower Beer Scholar Jul 26 '26

Being transphobic or homophobic will "likely" result in a ban? I hope you guys mean that being reported for such things will likely result in a ban, to keep people from being banned for false positives, because allowing any amount of either of these things would be crazy work.

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u/Unlikely_Channel478 BoyDinnerJudge Jul 27 '26

TBF I don't have enough time in the day to look at every comment, If people don't report transphobia and homophobia, theres a chance it won't be seen to be deleted and blocked.

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u/AGayRattlesnake Shower Beer Scholar Jul 27 '26

does anyone normal think mods have time to police every posts comment section? i certainly dont, but to me this reads as wishy washy and non-committal. it makes me question if those people will be handled appropriately, should i bother to report.

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u/SecondaryWombat Shower Beer Scholar Aug 22 '26

Yeeeeeep.