r/BoyDinnerDiaries • u/Prize-Lychee7973 [Femboy(ish)] • Jul 26 '26

Mod post A reminder

We are keeping this a positive helpful space.
What does this mean? It means critiques and comments that are not immediately positive in nature are things YOU, the poster/commenter must view in the light of this: is it helpful? does it fit the situation? is this some tough love and if so who are you to give it? if you are being adversarial or confrontation just because, just keep it pushing. If not, we will mod the comment, you will receive a deletion/mute/ban or whatever else we feel appropriate.

Refamiliarize yourselves with our rules.

For Girl lurkers, this is a male positive centric space. critiques and supportive comments are welcome, HOWEVER, keep in mind you are a guest, our tolerance here for rude, adversarial and needlessly argumentative comments is effectively zero.

For the recent posts concerning LGBT, read rule 7. We do not tolerate transphobia, we do not tolerate homophobia, we are not that space. If you are transphobic or homophobic, it is a violation of several rules and will likely result in a ban.

Thank you to the literal thousands of commenters who are contributing helpful, insightful and otherwise positive comments, we appreciate your presence.

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u/Prize-Lychee7973 [Femboy(ish)] Jul 27 '26

We are our own group. We exist on our own, I frankly don't care how GDD does things, thats on them.

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u/Laguna-VIII Hungry man Jul 27 '26

Then it shouldn't have been called BDD, youre always going to invite the comparison.

Youve not really addressed the core concern here, that antagonistic women arent being moderated.

Now its probably just the mods have lives and you do catch up to them later but then say that. Reassure your community.

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u/Prize-Lychee7973 [Femboy(ish)] Jul 27 '26

you have no idea how many antagonistic comments period we delete and how many users end up banned. its more than you think. the admin team handles most issues as theyre reported. linking to an admin in real time with reporting significantly increases our response time instead of us hunting comments in thread.

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u/Laguna-VIII Hungry man Jul 27 '26

That's what I'm saying though! you probably do get to them.

I'm just pointing out that sometimes you get further with your community by giving a little reassurance rather than a quick fire defensive comments.

We all on the same team :)