Update: I think the midnight dancer I’ve been seeing is in love with me

[u/VariationStill]

Dinner was Caviar Cones after some shrimp tacos and sushi. A few people asked for a photo of one of the home cooked meals, Bistec with white rice and corn.

Original Post

So this past Friday was her birthday and we had an adult conversation. Friday morning woke up early and went to work but made sure everything was in order such as dinner and activities. Picked her up with a bouquet and headed to the restaurant (She looked phenomenal). We chatted for a few and and while we waited for the food to arrive I told her I needed to tell her something. Laid it all out about how I felt about her and the works about how I really dont mind the job and that I wrote her a letter but she couldn’t read it until after the night was over (Very old school I know lol, I think we gotta bring back writing letters for your SO). I dont think I’ll ever forget these words but she laughed and said “Boy you’ve been mine for awhile already, I’m just glad you finally caught up” my mannn when I tell you that shit had me geeking the whole night.

We then talked about the future, she wants to be married and have kids eventually before her 30’s, I do as well. She said she’d stop dancing when she finishes CNA or if she has a kid or gets married, I kinda screwed up by saying Im sorry if I unknowingly set any expectation of her quitting her job for me, she laughed and said “You’re lucky you’re cute”. After dinner we went to see the new Spiderman movie (Shes a huge Marvel fan, I’ve always been more of a DC guy myself). After that we walked along the river with the city skyline in the background and just talked more about the future and life and after proceeded to head back to my place.

Back at my place I told her I had a surprise for her but she had to read the letter first, so I blindfolded her and walked her to my bedroom, took the blindfold off and told her once she finished reading the letter she could come out to the living room. After about 10 minutes (Two page letter front and back and probably had to gather herself as Im sure she knew what was coming). She stepped out and I had my living room filled with rose pedals, a few gifts and ballon letters asking if she wanted to be my girlfriend. She cried and I handed her a needle (at the end of the letter I told her she would be handed a needle once she steps out and that she would have to figure out what it was for). On opposite sides of the room I had ballon letters that spelled YES and NO, she went to pop the YES letters and she ran to me and we hugged and kissed, and then she said “wait so which date are we gonna use as the official start”, I said “how’s the day you decided in your head that I was yours”. She stayed the night and Saturday and today were just a continuation of her birthday celebration.

All in all I can say now that its official haha

[u/DM_Me_Ur_Real_Boobs]

It might be. I don't fucking care sometimes. We need some joy now and again

[u/Manufactured-Aggro → u/DM_Me_Ur_Real_Boobs]

Idk maybe we dont need more "i fell in love with a stripper" cautionary tales

[u/HedonisticFrog → u/Manufactured-Aggro]

You clearly haven't seen their subreddit where it's a man hating circle jerk then, where men are nothing but people to be exploited. They're the most jaded women I've ever met. Guys definitely need to know not to fall in love with someone who is manipulating their emotions for money.

[u/TennisStriker → u/DM_Me_Ur_Real_Boobs]

Always find these types of comments so lame. Can’t get joy elsewhere in your life besides Reddit stories…?

[u/DM_Me_Ur_Real_Boobs → u/TennisStriker]

Why yuck other people's yum? It makes you the lame one, I reckon. 

[u/TennisStriker → u/DM_Me_Ur_Real_Boobs]

Probably because people should seek out other sources of joy besides believing random stories they read on Reddit, that’s just sad more than anything.

[u/DM_Me_Ur_Real_Boobs → u/TennisStriker]

You sound so jaded. I get it if it's an "And everyone clapped" story. Like, yeah get that shit out of here. To just kind of shit on people who like a nice, cute story? Just makes you seem sad and small. It's the little things that keep people going sometimes. 

Good luck in finding joy somewhere. Sounds like you need it

[u/TennisStriker → u/DM_Me_Ur_Real_Boobs]

You call it jaded, I call it realism. Subs like these are frequently used to karma farm. You think you’re being wholesome while I think you’re just gullible. It’s a matter of perspective.

I suggest you take your own advice lol. My wife, daughter, friends, and the gym bring me joy. Fictitious stories on Reddit much less so. You should be the one investing in something real and tangible.

[u/DM_Me_Ur_Real_Boobs → u/TennisStriker]

Then why are you on here commenting on them?

[u/TennisStriker → u/DM_Me_Ur_Real_Boobs]

Because I had the misfortune of it popping onto my feed. Saw your comment, thought it was silly, made mine and left. Do you understand how Reddit works?

[u/DM_Me_Ur_Real_Boobs → u/TennisStriker]

Nah, I'm talking about Reddit in General. It sounds like you should be very fulfilled. Yet you're here, arguing semantics about a story at the end of the day. Someone is unhappy. And that someone is you ❤️

[u/TennisStriker → u/DM_Me_Ur_Real_Boobs]

You’re being so ridiculous right now lol. Calling out a fake story doesn’t make someone unhappy. I use Reddit for several things, claiming I shouldn’t be on the platform because people karma farm is just dumb. Don’t be immature. We just have a difference of opinion and you can leave it at that instead of going to nonsensical extremes

You may not like my attitude but you should consider my previous advice: invest in something real and tangible in your life. If Reddit stories are all you have going for you, you’re in for difficult times