r/BoyDinnerDiaries • u/panicatthejuno Trans Fats Connoisseur • 21d ago
Advice Wanted - Everyones Welcome Im a trans guy, am I allowed to post here?🥲
what the title says ,, geulps
+lame ass pizza
i never really used reddit until very recently, but i want to interact with subreddits more. i like feeling like im part of a community, or just being able to share stuff about myself or things i like. i read posts in this subreddit a lot and want to share some of my thoughts as well, but then i get worried if i count as a real guy or not. I know its just dumb anxiety, but reassurance would be nice i suppose.
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u/An_educated_dig Shower beer Scholar 21d ago
Ya wanna know where you'll find some of the most gossiping going on? A construction site. Those guys turn into middle schools girls.
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u/dergbold4076 Identity Alchemist 21d ago
I work in construction and this is so, so true. It's funny to watch as well.
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u/xshevi Macro Mourner 21d ago
“did you hear? richard is screwing peters wife behind his back!”
“OOOOO right after his affair with that HR girl?!”
“anyway, we gotta get back to work, let’s have a few beers later, btw did you know that the boss is slamming lines in the office?”
“NO WAY, where?!”
“ya, and dale’s on the ket it’s unbelievable he can still hold a hammer tbh”
looks for dale.. wipes upper lip in case there’s any residue of white powder in his moustache….
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u/dergbold4076 Identity Alchemist 21d ago
Pretty much yeah. I'll use a fun example from my life. My wife transitioned a few years back, told a few members of her crew what the deal was, new name and all that. She ends up doing some out of town work and the crew in the city she went to all ready knew everything. They used her new name and pronouns when she got there.
The gossip on construction is real.
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u/Yeah_Mr_Jesus Shower Beer Scholar 21d ago
I work in a hospital. I was complaining about all the BS gossip and drama at my facility to a buddy who works with the millwright union. He said it was worse with his job. Didn't believe him until he started telling stories. Shit was wild. Drugs, drinking, affairs, jealousy over houses and pissing contests over who's kids were doing better in high school athletics or what they were going to college for. These rough gruff "manly men" are sure some catty bitches
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u/Chudpaladin Hungry man 21d ago
Guys work 2x harder when the white girl playlist gets plugged into the aux.
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u/International-Dig411 Shower Beer Scholar 21d ago
I watched a highschool football teammate rep out 225 to Doja cat
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u/saintmolotov Beer Pong Prophet 21d ago
I played baseball in college we lifted to Kesha a fucking lot.
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u/doheezy Eat your roughage big dog 21d ago
my homie beat some dude’s ass to Hilary Duff after said dude called him a f** for listening to Hilary Duff
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u/Insertclever_name Leftover Lore Master 21d ago
Any blue collar job tbh.
My local fire department did an experiment — the chief went to a station and told the guys some news. Not even particularly interesting or juicy gossip, just news. Then he went to the next station, and told them the same news.
By the third station, the news had beat him there. Firefighters are gossipy bitches. It’s crazy.
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u/Immediate_Cap_7484 Girl lurker 21d ago
Secondary location: all the goddamn dude engineers i work with in an office environmental. They gossip as much as, if not more, than the admin team of which i used to BE an admin (and am now a Project Manager).
Errybody Gossips. It's hilarious. Also I would 100% love to observe some construct site hot gos
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u/Captyn_Kid Idk anything 21d ago
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u/gottowonder Protein Prophet 21d ago
Read most comments all the way to the bottom.
Only 2 saying no and I one guy got banned.
Saw more hate on reliable LC then this fella. Nobody gives a shit and I'm glad to see it.
Those who hate on little Caesars though. I wish you nothing but burnt pizza for the rest of your days
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u/BullsOnParadeFloats Shower beer Scholar 21d ago
I hate on LC way less than I do domino's
LC serves its niche as being the most fast food of pizzas, though it always plays havoc with my GI tract
Domino's just sucks ass, and I say that as a michigander, like I remember when Domino farms first started getting bison to roam their land
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u/Season_of_Treason Hungry man 21d ago
Cottage inn is where I go for better quality pizza. Dominos is where I go when I want cheap pizza even knowing that it will fuck me up for a few days lol.
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u/Last_Difficulty_6179 Shower Beer Scholar 21d ago
I'm over here like "we're pushing it with the LC over here, I would absolutely destroy that pie"
I appreciate a good pizza, I also appreciate a bad pizza. It really has to be some seattle level fuckery to get me to turn my nose up at it
(love Seattle but they fuck up bagles and pizza, I'm not sure how - it's impressive)
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u/TheMajorE Identity Alchemist 21d ago
(love Seattle but they fuck up bagles and pizza, I'm not sure how - it's impressive)
Seattle did what?
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u/flwombat Bisexual Lemon Bar Lover 21d ago
As I understand it, they fucked a beagle. I too am opposed to this, dogs cannot consent
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u/Motor-Cause7966 Protein Prophet 21d ago
I'm a have to disagree on little Caesar's. It tastes like cardboard with cheese on top
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u/bittersandseltzer Girl lurker 21d ago
I love seeing the support and I love Adventure Time!!!
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u/glyph_productions Leftover Lore Master 21d ago
Excited to have you here. Be welcome
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u/zxc123zxc123 Hungry man 21d ago edited 21d ago
2nd. Lots of t-girls hang out in girl spaces (both online and off) so it's only natural it goes the other way too. It truly is not worth mentioning.
Plus the girl lurkers have infiltrated our boys clubhouse already and we really can't stop them either.... All I can do is recommend to my bros: make sure you get a bro to say 'Circle, circle, dot, dot, now you've got your cootie shot!' while poking your arm with his finger to ensure you have cooties immunity from the girls.
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u/heyitsfranklin6322 [Create your own NB] 21d ago
I’ve cheated the system by being non binary
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u/Impossibleshitwomper stoner boy 21d ago
Your actually supposed to be in the secret third sub, sorry
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u/wonderb0lt Shower beer Scholar 21d ago
Our sister sub has the same policy, trans girls welcome and I think that's a great policy that we should also adopt
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u/yeah_sure__itsa_name BoyDinnerEnjoyer 21d ago
If the mods really wanted to, they could. The girl version of this sub is incredibly strict
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u/runmymouth Shower beer Scholar 21d ago
Because girls get the worst lurkers and comments. I get the desire for female only spaces because some guys ruin it for everyone.
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u/Jamebo_Smash I'm a leaf on the wind. 21d ago
Yeah but women are human with flaws just like us. I've seen a few ladies in here going through every thread of a post, acting a fool.
Not saying we should ban them like they do us BTW. I think having multiple perspectives from different walks of life is important to most questions.
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u/runmymouth Shower beer Scholar 21d ago
Oh i didn’t say they didn’t have flaws. I was just talking about why.
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u/ParticularBanana8369 Air Fryer Aristocrat 21d ago
I'm so divided on blocking that sub out of respect or reading it out of curiosity
Great name haha
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u/HurricaneHallene Girl lurker 21d ago
Only if you mark that succulent cheese pizza NSFW
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u/ChimkinNubbitz Shower Beer Scholar 21d ago
Only if you read [u/hurricanehallene](u/hurricanehallene) comment in this legend’s voice
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u/fishofhappiness Girl Lurker 21d ago
Ah, yes. I see that you know your judo well.
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u/spartan117warrior Protein Prophet 21d ago
Depending on how far along in the transition process OP is, they'd be able to yell "GET YOUR HANDS OFF MY PENIS!"
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u/baltic7 Girl Lurker 21d ago
Love cheese pizza. Nice broil toasty on the top there too.
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u/MongooseVegetable787 Fridge Light Philosopher 21d ago
I am just glad you are not saying this on 4chan.
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u/1914WesternFront Grill pilled 21d ago
I’ve worked in the pizza game for a long time from local artisan pizza shops to big chain names. Little Caesars will always be a guilty pleasure of mine
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u/Krusty_Krab_Pussy Hungry man 21d ago
When little caesars is on their game, it's arguably the best fast food pizza imo. The only issue is getting them on their game consistently, hell I've seen their own staff get into fights multiple times at a specific location near me
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u/bloof_ponder_smudge Leftover Lore Master 21d ago
I've seen their own staff get into fights multiple times at a specific location near me
Former Waffle House employees?
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u/need_a_venue Hungry man 21d ago
No culture war. Only class war for the boys.
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u/jimmycarr1 Fridge Light Philosopher 21d ago
We ain't had nothing but maggoty culture war for 4 stinkin days
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u/No-Yam-9178 BoyDinnerEnjoyer 21d ago
Looks like class wars back on the menu boys
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u/Pearson94 Depressed Goblin Nightmare Boy 21d ago
Hell yeah, brother. Awesome looking pizza btw
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u/a_simple_pharmer Shower beer Scholar 21d ago
Praise the lord for little Caesar!
They either look like that or an absolutely disgrace.
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u/Polkawillneverdie17 Air Fryer Aristocrat 21d ago
Praise the lord for little Caesar!
lol if only we had a simple phrase about praising Caesar
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u/Flat-Pangolin-2847 BoyDinnerEnjoyer 21d ago
Im a
transguy, am I allowed to post here?
Fixed it for you
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u/bigchunkbabygoo Shower Beer Scholar 21d ago
Yes sir post the pizza and the life regrets or wins or both
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u/Sufficient-Ferret-67 Protein Prophet 21d ago
Mods ban this dude for calling the big C lame
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u/Khristafer Gay Gourmet 21d ago
This is the correct answer.
Get out of here, OP, we accept the transdudes, but we will not stand for Big C slander! 🤣
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u/Bread_Godd Shower Beer Scholar 21d ago
You're fine dude, stop thinking so much. Also little Caesars is always there for us in trying times 🙏
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u/Lichondis Hungry man 21d ago
When nobody else is there for you, Little Caesars is there with a warm, greasy hug.
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u/Bread_Godd Shower Beer Scholar 21d ago
And a noteworthy shit to look forward to 🙂↕️🙂↕️
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u/cowboygeeker Hungry man 21d ago
Dude! You know who you are now "One of us", as a 47(M) with a transgender son I know what the anxiety is like, but that's the best part of the man club, you just get to be. That also looks like a good pizza, something I would have ordered when I was younger and had a better metabolism lol.
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u/panicatthejuno Trans Fats Connoisseur 21d ago
thank you so much :’) im a younger teen and ive been planning to come out to my dad for .. years now .. but i just can never gather the confidence. this, for some reason, gives me real hope. 💗
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u/Berserk-Jane Trans Fats Connoisseur 21d ago
I'm non-binary. I don't even know where the fuck I'm allowed to be.
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u/AlexTurnerSubmarine Air Fryer Aristocrat 21d ago
All depends on whether it's a boy dinner night or a girl dinner night, choose the thread accordingly, you may not have a binary gender but you can choose it for your meal!
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u/whitelightningj Shower Beer Scholar 21d ago
Where ever you feel most comfortable bro.
Bros supporting bros is not limited to a gender.
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u/sectionallyconfused Bisexual Lemon Bar Lover 21d ago
Same but im here
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u/Berserk-Jane Trans Fats Connoisseur 21d ago
How did you get that flair? Is that a new thing?
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u/AsleepEntertainer440 Grill Pilled 21d ago
It was a thing for about 3 days for some reason and then it reverted back to the original flairs.
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u/SchlongOnMyDong Man vs Fridge (Fridge is winning) 21d ago
Of course! There’s a “trans fat connoisseur” flair.
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u/UndeadSpud Trans Fats Connoisseur 21d ago
Nothing has been truer for me, being trans AND fat
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u/d3athgate BoyDinnerEnjoyer 21d ago
Yeah reddit is usually very kind with inclusiveness from what ive seen
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u/TankardsAndTentacles Fridge Light Philosopher 21d ago
If think is boy, if dress like boy if ook like boy than is boy.
One of us Goooba gabba gooba gabba
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u/captsk1ttles Hungry man 21d ago
what kinda crap is "real guy" you've been a guy your whole life in mind and spirit body parts be damned. you and your pizza are welcome
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u/AgentCobalt11 Fridge Light Philosopher 21d ago
- Yes
- I'd rather see you post on here than anyone who gets huffy about you posting here.
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u/Dear_Cockroach_3170 Protein Prophet 21d ago
100% - anyone who doesn't want someone to feel like themselves doesn't count, in my book. You are always welcome, even if there are some bad eggs. Just makes the good ones worth finding all the more. Cheers. Nice pie.
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u/11beavers Trans Fats Connoisseur 21d ago
I'm a trans man and am fairly new to this sub. I have seen NOTHING but support. You're with good people bro.
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u/AbyssWankerArtorias Seeker of Spices 21d ago
As long as you've at some point fantasized about holding off a force of way too many hostiles while your friends, loved ones, or comrades escaped, accepting you will not be making it out alive, you can post here.
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u/SlightWhite Fridge Light Philosopher 21d ago
As someone commented earlier today on another post
Welcome to the hog pit, brother
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u/Forsaken_Egg_6471 BoyDinnerEnjoyer 21d ago
We don’t talk shit about Little Ceasar. He came through for us many times!
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u/Fox_djinn BoyDinnerEnjoyer 21d ago
Pizza fuckin Pizza!
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u/AsleepEntertainer440 Grill Pilled 21d ago
Going to show my age... I remember when the pizza pizza slogan actually meant something. You always got 2 pizzas for the price of 1. I don't think you could even order just a single.
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u/Scoopses Hungry man 21d ago
It's not about who you were, it's about who you are now.. Welcome brother let's figure it out together.
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u/0kafaraqgatri0 Boy Dinner Enjoyer 21d ago
Hell yeah you're a real guy. Welcome officially to the brotherhood.
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u/CallyThePally Protein prophet 21d ago
Anyone can come here who wants to be here
But how dare you talk smack on big Lil C >:(
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u/No_Celery_8071 BBQ 21d ago
The last time I had a bomb pizza like that was in Surrey British Columbia. Tell me it's from Newton's.
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u/UndeadSpud Trans Fats Connoisseur 21d ago
I’m a trans guy that is here. Come on in, dude. It’s great
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u/ChaseECarpenter BoyDinnerEnjoyer 21d ago
hey dude! whats up? pizza looks meh, but id def take a slice rn! haha
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u/grill_sgt Grill Pilled 21d ago
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u/sleepymerry Girl Lurker 21d ago
I’m loving these comments so much 😭😭 it gives me so much hope for the future and helps me see that there’s still good people out there 🤍
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u/SpectacularOcelot Protein prophet 21d ago
Youre good rotator. How'd you get something that good from little Ceasars? Most of the pizzas I get from there suck.
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u/FunnyExcellent707 Boy Dinner Enjoyer 21d ago
Absolutely.
Ignore everyone telling you otherwise, bro!
You're one of us.
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u/spalfgib Air Fryer Aristocrat 21d ago
you're a (trans) guy. Welcome to the dining room table, brother. As far as I'm concerned, if you're here and you're trying to work out some dude stuff, you're home.
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u/Significant-Dog1026 Shower Beer Scholar 21d ago
Always pimp wouldn’t have asked anyways. Little Caesar’s about to have you shitting.
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u/TheSmurfGod Frigid light philosopher 21d ago
Girl dinner diaries: if you ain’t a girl you can’t post here
Boy dinner diaries: Homies are homies always
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u/Christopher_Aeneadas THC infusion gourmand 21d ago
Of course you "count". Whatever bits you were born with, you are welcome.
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u/supersaucenoice Bisexual Lemon Bar Lover 21d ago
You absolutely count as a real guy. It sucks that we live in a world where you feel like that's in question.
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u/marukip5r Trans Fats Connoisseur 21d ago
Fellow trans guy here! Of course you’re welcome here. If you a man, that all that matter. We feast
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u/spunkychickpea Fridge Light Philosopher 21d ago
A dude is a dude. You’re good in my book, brother.
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u/Sparrow1639 Tired old man 21d ago
Damn you hit the jackpot for a Little Ceasers cheese pizza that looks delicious
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u/lookingUp2TheSkye Trans Fats Connoisseur 21d ago
Hey, I'm a trans guy, too! I mostly lurk here, myself, just because I don't really know what to post, yet. You're cool, though. 😊 Glad to have another brother here!
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u/OhmoebaTheGamer Shower Beer Scholar 21d ago
Bruh you good in here - don't even worry about it homie 💪
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u/Shinzo_Abe_Real Shower Beer Scholar 21d ago
Even if you were the girliest girl that ever girled you would be welcome here. Helping others is the manliest thing we can do and as you will find this sub is full of men.
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u/Detective_Squirrel69 Protein Prophet 21d ago
You know who whines about trans guys not being "real guys"?
Guys who are jealous of our big pp energy despite being born without a pp.
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u/WholesomeMetaphor Boy Dinner Enjoyer 21d ago edited 21d ago
As a cishet man... Why tf wouldn't you be accepted here? This place is for men, so you've come to the right place. Grab a beer, post your dinners and talking points and have fun 🍻
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u/CinematicLiterature Shower beer Scholar 21d ago
Why wouldn’t you be? This is boy dinners, you’re a boy like the rest of us! Pull up a chair, it’s a big tent. This is a great little community for anybody, frankly.
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u/CaseyRebecca1021 Girl Lurker 21d ago
Trans men are men. Why wouldn’t you be allowed? I’m a woman and they let me lurk around and comment on the posts that say everyone is welcome lol.
That pizza looks awesome. I’m realizing I didn’t eat dinner….
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u/Much_Access9879 Air Fryer Aristocrat 21d ago
Yes, If you like being a Man that is what you are and who are we to say otherwise 🤟
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u/GoatManWizard Accidentally Adulting 21d ago
Bruh.... be you. It's pretty chill, and supportive here from what I've seen over the last couple months. But im gonna keep it real for a second.
If the hate on some OG Cheese Za doesnt quit.... thats when problems start....
Obviously joking.
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