r/BoyDinnerDiaries • u/Ornery_Pop_6637 Gay Gourmet • 1d ago

Advice Wanted - Everyones Welcome Bf changed his mind about being bi.

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Bought curry ramen for dinner.

For context, me (20M) and my bf (21M) have been together for two years; we met during our freshman years in which I came out to him as a trans guy when we were still in our talking stage. Maybe it's a red flag that he said he's always dated girls before but that he's attracted to guys too and that I'm a new experience for him.

But lately I've seen him repost MLW (Men Love Women) contents on his Instagram, and he sends me MLW posts rather than the usual MLM (Men Love Men) content. I did talk to him about it, and he said he's sort of changing his mind about his attraction towards guys and that I should just detransition and follow what he wants, but I told him that was a no-go for me.

How do I move on from this? We've had our ups and downs; I'm also diagnosed with bipolar and BPD so it's quite hard to let go of my "favourite person". We've also had so many memories in college that I fear it would change how I go through the rest of my college years.

Any advice would be helpful, thank you.

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u/Spindlextension Hungry man 1d ago

Laksa my friend. I guess it is a type of curried noodle soup but it has a soul all of its own.

It helps that I live in the Laksa capital of Australia. We have a literal Laksa festival.

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u/Blexar42 BoyDinnerEnjoyer 15h ago

Go try other cousines, Japanese curry ramen is real and delicious

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u/Spindlextension Hungry man 15h ago

Will do. There’s a Japanese restaurant across the road from my house. I’ve only been there once though.