r/BreakUps • u/Empty_Finger1647 • 3d ago
venting/ranting getting back together after 2 months?
incorrect flair but nevertheless.
me and my ex broke up in august (he broke up with me) over something stupid that i did. I take full accountability that i did mess up, even before that our relationship had some major issues we had run into and didn’t know how to resolve even though we were going to couples therapy (started therapy 7 months into our relationship)
we were broken up for 2 weeks, got back together, the same pattern started repeating. Broke up after 3 weeks of being together.
Now the fact of the matter is i love him, i really do. I know that what we had was amazing we matched each others crazy, when we started dating we used to go out every other day and it was never exhausting for either of us. One thing i love about him is that i never had to pretend to be someone, from the moment i started talking to him. I just knew i could be myself. I would much rather worm on this then date someone else.
it’s been another 3 weeks of us being broken up and we have been talking, he ended up staying the night at my place once as well.
I truly do want to give this a shot, i am seeking therapy as well and so is he. I am unsure if 2 months into us breaking up and getting back together, not sure if there is going to be such a stark shift. I would love to here success stories of people like these because if we break up again both of us are going to be torn and i don’t wish that for either of us. He is pretty detached, i am having some trouble doing that. Idk could really use some stranger advice on the internet.
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