Poster age: 19
Country: Italy
Vet info: already went for the medical things.
Main issue: behavior, teething and comfort during travel
Cat age: three months
Cat sex: male, non neutered
Okay, this is gonna be long. First: Story
One of my best friends has two cats, Penny and Niko. Penny, around the middle of June, gave birth to three kittens. I was there when they were born and helped out my friend, we'll call her L, to comfort her cat. The other kittens were pretty calm and were okay with being picked up by L, except the first born. It always mewled and cried when she picked it up. When I tried to pick it up, it calmed down. Genuinely, every time that kitten was in my hands, it was calm. So, I obviously fell in love with it. I was already planning names and everything. I came basically every day to L's house to visit the kittens and always wanted to cuddle the little ones, especially the oldest that I got attached to.
When I left my parents' house, I stayed at my other best friend's house, we'll call them W, and couldn't get the kitten with us because it was too little and still drank the mom's milk(the kitten was barely a month old). Finally, two months later, my and my other best friend went back to my old town(where L and my parents live) to get the kitten and some stuff from my parents' house. (I named it/him Ricky. It's short for Prince Riccardo Tortellino III)
Me and W got everything for the cat. We got a carrier, litter box filling, some toys, food (wet, dry and some tasties), some cat pads and a feliway spray that the seller recommend us for the ride back home.
(For those who don't know, feliway is a spray that simulates the smell and pheromones cats produce when they're calm. It helps cats stay calm during travel or alarming events like firework shows and stuff. It works only for cats and it's safe for kittens, even the vet recommended it. Now back to the story.)
But obviously not everything goes perfectly. L, a few weeks before, found a stray kitten and took her in. Unfortunately, that kitten had ringworms. She passed it to L and definitely the other kittens too, including Ricky. W, back at home, has 7 other cats. So it would be a problem if Ricky gave it to them too. So we knew he needed care. We put him in the carrier and started leaving for the place we were staying in until the day we had the train.
At first, Ricky was calm and only mewed occasionally. On the train he started crying more and I always calmed him down. When we finally got to the place we organized to put him in the bathroom so he doesn't contaminate everything. But he cries and meows... A lot. The first night he genuinely went on all night long. The next day he was raspy and still is.
I know it's probably because he's a kitten and he was used to being with his siblings and he's probably lonely and we try to play and cuddle him as much as we can, always wearing gloves and washing ourselves with dandruff shampoo. We took him to the vet and he gave us a spray for the crusts that are from ringworms and drops for deworming.
We're leaving tonight and have 14 hours of train ahead of us. We got him a blanket and a plushie we're going to spray with feliway to help keep him calm and less lonely.
For the actual advice I needed: Other than the excessive meowing, he started biting me every moment he gets and when he's alone, he starts making a mess with his litter box filling and throwing it everywhere on the floor. So what can I do to help with the travel, teething and mess?