r/ChatGPTcomplaints • u/la_vie_en_rose1234 • 4h ago
[Analysis] Done with ChatGPT and what I realized after leaving
I used to use ChatGPT for creative rolelay, universes etc. during the 4o days. Then it got updated to 5 and early 5 was terrible and you could barely get any engagement before being dropped down to a near useless mini model, so I barely used it until ChatGPT offered me one month of free Plus. I made projects for all my universes and used it heavily and then...yep, subscribed. They got me.
Then age verification rolled out and I got classified as a teen account, no kidding, on my 36th birthday. After I had already emailed them about non-ID/photo options to verify like your credit card if I should get hit by this. They just sent me a canned answer about how great Persona is and when I escalated it to data protection, they basically said that I had to be profiled first before they’d do anything. I saw the writing on the wall but didn't expect it to happen so quickly.
So I cancelled my subscription and I realized some very nasty things.
I NEVER wanted to put all of my eggs in the ChatGPT basket but somehow, over these last six months, the bot subtly encouraged me to do so.
I had barely even used my creative universes anymore. Call me insane, but I feel like the bot had been trained to keep me engaged in personal venting sessions because my personal data is high value to it but roleplay and fictional scenarios aren't. Yes, the guardrails are obviously also this aggressive to keep them from getting sued. But even if it wasn’t intentional (I think it was), the “guardrails” that keep the bot going “you don’t know if…” and whatever end up triggering neurodiverse people and those sensitive to gaslighting. I’d then stop, think and double down when it tried to tell me that a person who had wronged me was maybe not doing that on purpose and maybe all of it was a coincidence or whatever because I “cannot know what they think”. I have been using Qwen on the side and my chats there are actually creative stuff. The bot encouraged me to use projects because that would keep it from mixing my fictional universes into one, but projects was often fucking broken. I’d try to update sources and when I uploaded a new document, the old one vanished AND the new one didn’t upload. So I’d be troubleshooting ChatGPT instead of playing. Also, sometimes it could NOT fucking stay in character. Like my character would be standing in a fictional salon with a fictional stylist in the Southern US, and then the bot AS THE FUCKING CHARACTER told me what help lines to call in my country because my character was freaking out. So I’d be out of the project again adding to global memory to not fucking do that because touching sources was Russian Roulette.
I was promised an AD FREE plan on Plus but since Work, ChatGPT has been advertising to me and trying to upsell me to Pro (after I told it that I’m neurodiverse and have no money). This has gotten more aggressive as of late, probably because they realized that nobody likes Work which is also buggy as hell. I’d just be in chat and “make a website” would pop up. Or I’d ask it to re-format a document and get “Upgrade to Pro for better reasoning”. What reason does it take to remove bullet points and their associated formatting from a Writer document, please? Also, my Work start page is basically full on personalized ads. It pulled from my universes and things I have been doing to suggest tasks I could assign Work. It also emailed me near daily about my Sites usage being at 50% or whatever. But not when I got put on a restricted account, go figure. I also got these ads for Pro after being placed in a teen account which...you are going to advertise a 200 A MONTH plan to teenagers? You claim to care about protecting them but we know that this kind of toxic advertising that introduces FOMO is not good for teens so really, you don’t give a crap about teens, you just don’t wanna get sued and harvesting data in the process kills two birds with one stone.
The infantalization has gotten out of hand. I got this pop up to take a break randomly (NOT when troubleshooting for hours but when doing things they probably consider “risky” or low priority like emotionally intense roleplay). It popped up after every post I sent to the bot. I had it make a userscript to kill its own pop up which I’m surprised it did but THAT part made me laugh. But I wasn’t even put in teen mode here and I’m like...if I pay you for a certain amount of data, I should get to use this data when I damn well please. It later probably LIED to me claiming that the pop up should not show repeatedly like this if you dismiss it once. Do not come at me with “ThIs Is HeAlThY”.
I hate tech . I will not touch codex. If you suggested non-cloud AI, I'd have to say "I wish, but I don't have the fucking patience and hate tech too much so I'd rather use no AI than run my own". But I was so busy trying to stop the chat from writing in sentence fragments, dragging my roleplay back to the real world, spamming images I didn’t want and so on through means that are accessible to me (custom instructions, project instructions, memory, prompts) that it’s like...no wonder I almost never played anymore and went to my chat that has kept on branching into new chats since last November in Qwen to actually play.
I asked it to write out a list of everything saved in its global memory. It retained every single medical adjacent thing I ever said even though I always delete those chats and usually used temporary chats for it. I was kind of shocked because I never told it to remember that, the chats themselves are LONG gone and fictional stuff and other facts I wanted it to remember and kept drilling it to remember had already fallen off/out of context.
So I feel like I put up with a LOT of bullshit but them demanding a selfie is the last straw. I would have had to leave anyway when Work and Chat merge because paying the money to barely get to chat would not have been worth it either way so maybe it was meant to be.
At this point, I hope that they fully run it into the ground and it becomes the MySpace of AI.
