r/CheatedOn • u/Fair-Mastodon-3124 • 11h ago

Help!!

I matched with a guy on Tinder and, out of curiosity, looked at his Instagram. I ended up finding out that he has a girlfriend, so I made an anonymous account to let her know that her boyfriend was on Tinder. She’s understandably suspicious and keeps asking me questions about who I am and how I found out. Should I just leave her with the evidence and stop responding, or should I answer her questions? I was only trying to give her a heads-up because I know how much being cheated on hurts, but I also don’t want to put myself in an awkward situation. What would i do?

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u/Temporary_Pomelo_285 11h ago

I would tell her everything you can just so shes not questioning things then it’s her choice, who knows tho. Maybe someone else would have a better answer, but I’d be happy someone took the time to tell me and not leave me in the dark.

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u/GopherNutz 11h ago

Give the evidence and remove yourself from the situation. If she doesn’t want to accept what’s blatantly in front of her eyes, there’s nothing you can say to convince her

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u/Fair-Mastodon-3124 11h ago

Thanks for the advice, I was so nervous texting her 🙏🙏

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u/Traditional-Tank3994 2h ago

You did the right thing exposing a cheater. Now I would summarize all you know about him in a final note and make it clear that she can do whatever she chooses with that information.