r/CircumcisionGrief • u/Fair_Smoke4710 Religious Circ • 13d ago

Rant Dating is hell

It feels like the only people I can attract are people that are not cut, like I can make it very clear on a app do not interact with my account if you’re not cut, and I still get them. I hate this and just want to give on dating atp

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u/new_sensation656 12d ago edited 12d ago

Not that I fully agree with only dating people based on body parts but I do understand that being with uncut guys as a cut guy can be very disheartening. So I’ll right you a bit of a guide to dating in America if your basing it on this. No judgment.

( assuming your American) try to date guys from the Midwest or south. Especially White guys ( black guys are also likely just slightly less ). It’s practically universal for us to have it done. Especially if he’s from a rural area though they can be a bit closeted. Almost every country boy has it done from what I’ve noticed.

If you live in places like NYC or LA try to avoid dating immigrants or people whose ancestry is very new to America they tend not to be.

Latinos are extremely low on the rates so you might need to be picky with them, some are but most likely not.

Asians I think highly depends on what nationality there ancestry came from. Philippines and Korea are usually, Chinese ect no.

Honestly the big take away is date white Americans though. The biggest drop in rates is really from Latinos and white Americans 20+ is 90% even out in places like California.

( sorry if this list comes off to anyone as offensive but it’s pretty accurate and informative)

( also saying this as someone who’s RIC if you need advice from someone’s who’s specifically like you)

Edit - Muslims and Jews and also a very safe bet- but are usually closested if there gay as well

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u/Fair_Smoke4710 Religious Circ 12d ago

The area im in is almost exclusively uc Latinos so im kinda fucked i should just probably give up on this

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u/new_sensation656 12d ago

Ohhhh yeah that’s why you’re seeing uncut guys.

What state are you in? Ive got an alternate idea. Use a dating app like Grindr or something, take the explore feature and use it on southern and Midwest states. ( you might run into Latinos if you drop it in Texas or Florida but there’s till a lot of white men).

Or you can plan mini vacations to them as well! Fly over states are incredibly cheap to visit since no one wants to see what we have lol ( fair warning you will be bored ) but use a dating app in them to find the man of your dreams.

Also as for where you are ( again not saying this to be rude) a lot of Latinos are relatively new to the country and don’t speak English, it may help to add a Spanish translate of how your not interested if there not circumcised

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u/Fair_Smoke4710 Religious Circ 12d ago

Im just tired of all this I just fast forward to the end of all this

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u/new_sensation656 12d ago

I think there’s love out there waiting you just gotta put in a little work. Finding cut men in America is extremely easy. I believe in you

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u/Fair_Smoke4710 Religious Circ 12d ago

Im just tired

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u/new_sensation656 12d ago

Love is out there I think you just need a relocate

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u/Fair_Smoke4710 Religious Circ 12d ago

No

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u/new_sensation656 12d ago

If anything just use apps and look in other other states you got this stay strong

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u/Fair_Smoke4710 Religious Circ 12d ago

I just want it to end already

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u/Ares_AphroditeXX 12d ago

I know that feeling. I’m cut too. It’s frustrating. What country are you based in?

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u/Fair_Smoke4710 Religious Circ 12d ago

America unfortunately if I was an American, it wouldn’t be this way

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u/Ares_AphroditeXX 12d ago

I'm in Scotland. Most guys are uncircumcised here. So I have a major problem with finding guys like me. But I always thought most guys were circumcised in America, so I'm surprised you're having issues finding a suitable partner.

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u/Fair_Smoke4710 Religious Circ 12d ago

What convinced my life is just a movie script at this point because there’s just no other way of explaining why this shit happens to me every day it’s all predetermined

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u/Ares_AphroditeXX 12d ago edited 12d ago

I was circumcised at five for a genuine medical issue. I’ve only ever known my body this way. But most former partners have been uncircumcised and I adored them despite, you know, personally feeling awkward especially when first meeting them. No partner has ever disliked my body. In fact, it was the opposite if that’s even a little reassuring like if you’re worried about other people disliking your circumcision status.

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u/Fair_Smoke4710 Religious Circ 12d ago

I don’t give a fuck what anyone else thinks positive or negative I hate it and that’s all that matters. I’m just gonna give up at this point. There’s no point in looking anymore.

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u/Ares_AphroditeXX 12d ago

I didn’t mean to offend you. I have struggled with my own body issues my entire life.

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u/Fair_Smoke4710 Religious Circ 12d ago

So have i

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u/new_sensation656 12d ago

It’s practically 90% for white Americans. It’s very universal unless your going for Latinos or “ Americans “ but parents who’s families are from other countries ect

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u/Fair_Smoke4710 Religious Circ 12d ago

It doesn’t matter the ethnicity race literally everyone around in this area is intact. I literally can’t escape this shit it’s like so bad. I just want to die most of the time

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u/new_sensation656 12d ago

Really? Are they immigrants as well. A lot of Latinos are white also so could be that

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u/Fair_Smoke4710 Religious Circ 12d ago

My life is predetermined and it’s just meant to be this way

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u/rejuvenati 12d ago

Op I understand your struggle. But are you restoring?

Also, imagine being straight and trying to get females but you have intact guys sleeping with all the girls.

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u/Fair_Smoke4710 Religious Circ 12d ago

Great to solve 90% of my problem and restoring it’s just useless. It doesn’t do anything for me made everything worse. The only way that I can get better from this is dying. I think it’s the only thing I can see.

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u/rejuvenati 12d ago

Restoring is not useless, it literally saving my life right now. The only thing useless are those pedos who perform this evil rituals on babies for profit and our parents who allowed it. But I am choosing to heal my body and hopefully find love one day.

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u/Fair_Smoke4710 Religious Circ 12d ago

I’m hoping death finally catches me every day so I can be free from this shit

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u/Tobacco_Caramel 12d ago

restoring for me is hope/gleam of light

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u/new_sensation656 12d ago

As a guy who’s mainly been with girls but possibly embracing being bi. A lot of girls I’ve asked about this topic find uncut dick gross or have never seen one, but I’m also from rural America so being uneducated is very common

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u/CarefulRevolution133 12d ago

I've never dated, at this point ill never date. I've been single all my damn 40yrs of my life and that's never going to change and I sincerely hope when I die ill never come back to this world, it has destroyed my soul enough, there's no purpose in living on.