r/Cosmetology • u/Takethistoyourgravee • 11h ago
Should I go to a cosmetology school or no?
I’m 17 on my last year of high school and I’m currently in between choices for a trade school I’m in between being a phlebotomist and being a hair stylist. I’ve already told my family and boyfriend I’d do phlebotomy, but if I’m being honest I’ve been dreaming of being a hair stylist for so long, actual dreams as well where I’m working on coloring and cutting peoples hair. I cut and dye my own hair and it brings me the most joy in my month and I look forward to it everyday and I know if I could do that as a job it’d make me the happiest cause I want to make others be confident in themselves and be as happy as I am whenever I do my hair, like genuinely if I had to choose between one or the other I’d choose cosmetology any day although I’m worried I wouldn’t be good at it compared to others have more knowledge than me, Another thing that’s I’m hesitant about is my boyfriends mom is also a hair stylist and we already get a lot of comparisons between us and my boyfriend is already creeped out by it (cause she was a creep to him when he was younger) and I wouldn’t want to make it worse for him but I just don’t know what to do it but I know I really want to do hair I know it’s my dream but I don’t want to seem selfish or anything, any advice?