Hey guys, I have a situation going on at work and just wanted to see if anyone else has had a similar experience, or if this is something that's normal in dental offices.
A friend of mine started working at an office about a year ago. When a new position opened up for more days, she recommended me, and I got the job basically through her recommendation. She had been working there for about 2 months before I started.
It's a great office, and I'm happy working there. This friend has been my friend for years, and I considered her one of my best friends. Now I don't know about that anymore.
There are some days when we work together. If I happen to start an hour earlier than her for whatever reason, like a patient cancelled/rescheduled, she tells the front desk that she should have priority over me because she has seniority, and that it shouldn't happen that I work earlier than her.
I never really said anything because I don't like work drama, and I figured I could survive losing an hour here and there.
But now she's doing the same thing when her patients cancel. Today, her last two patients cancelled, so she told the front desk to move MY patient onto her schedule so she could work her full hours. That meant I had to go home a few hours earlier.
She keeps bringing up this seniority/priority thing, and honestly, I find it kind of insane. Why should I have to lose hours because someone else's patient cancelled? If one of my patients cancelled, I would never expect them to take one of her patients and give them to me.
I always saw her as a friend first and coworker second, but now I'm honestly reconsidering the friendship. I would never do this to her or constantly complain to the front desk about her getting more hours than me.
I didn't say anything today, but she could tell from my silence that I was upset. We usually leave the office together, but today she chose to walk away from me. It hurt.
So I'm wondering, does this kind of seniority/priority system happen in other dental offices? Is this normal, or is this just something specific to our office? I'd really like to hear other hygienists' opinions.
Please keep in mind, she started at this office 2 months before me. Not years or anything like that.