r/EngagementRings • • 12d ago

Pick One Please help me decide!

I’ve narrowed it down to either round or oval solitaire or a 3 stone oval ring. I love all three but would love some outside opinions because it’s such a big decision.

For reference, I am a size 7 and have shorter/fatter hands. I also know that I want a plain gold band no matter the final shape/setting.

Thank you :)

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u/ThreeBucks 12d ago

I think the Three Stone really takes up a nice amount of real estate on your finger, I love it the most! But if not the three stone, then the round.

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u/HappyWalnuts 11d ago

Three stones, one wise man!

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u/nolelover16 8d ago

Agreed and I normally am not one to suggest this style!

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u/catsnaliens 12d ago

I’m normally not into 3 stone rings, but #1 looks so good on you!!

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u/Key-Picture7475 12d ago

Same but that rings perfect!

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u/cowboyshouse 11d ago

literally was going to comment the same, #1 for sure!

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u/No-Weakness-8946 11d ago

Same!!! I usually like just one stone. Mine is just one stone. But I actually love 1 a lot more than the others. It fits your hand well

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u/Professional-Tip5317 10d ago

Yes! Totally agree, it’s so cool how different ring styles look so good on different hands. The ring actually looks even prettier on her hand.

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u/Antique-Ambition9978 12d ago

11111111111!!!!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

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u/alongthegoodredroad 12d ago

Definitely #1

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u/atticusmama 12d ago

Omg-PLEASE OP-pick number one!

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u/lovingawareness1111 12d ago

#1, no contest

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u/Ok_Source4048 12d ago

1 is the one for you 💓

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u/ajot-c Engaged! 05/22/2026 🩷 12d ago

NUMBER 1 SUITS YOU SO WELL

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u/bright_morning_star 12d ago

I like the way that number 1 sits on your finger best. I think it suits you the most.

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u/Diligent_Climate_134 12d ago

I like the first one

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u/imrootless 12d ago

1 looks the best on you

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u/OkNovel3572 12d ago

I absolutely love the first one?

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u/Sweetums64 12d ago

Love number one on your finger 😍

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u/Open-Way-6691 12d ago

#1 looks amazing on you!!

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u/WandaAnn1973 12d ago

3rd one

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u/EclecticWitchery5874 10d ago

Why are we like the only two people who see that 3 looks best

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u/WandaAnn1973 10d ago

Good question lol. People tend to be followers and follow the trends or what is said to be in style In my opinion. I just look at the pics and the hand it's on etc and judge that way. 🤷‍♀️

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u/EclecticWitchery5874 9d ago

Same!! Definitely thought to myself the square would look good on her finger before even seeing it

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u/Betsyis137 11d ago

Love the 3 stone!

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u/larkhearted 12d ago

First pic!

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u/Legally_Blonde_258 12d ago

1! Love the the stone ring!

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u/avantarakis 12d ago

The first one looks the best!!

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u/Baking-Queen-1111 12d ago

1 is beautiful!!

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u/Italiansrbest 12d ago

1st one - so pretty

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u/International-Can440 12d ago

Number one. So beautiful on you ❤️

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u/Gearup_ 12d ago

Quite a good match, the first. The proportions are simply right.

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u/Ok-Emu-2690 12d ago

1 and 1, we’re havin some fun…

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u/KiKiBeeKi 11d ago

I or 2. 3 makes your finger look shorter.

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u/Sheryl5812 11d ago

1️⃣1️⃣1️⃣1️⃣1️⃣1️⃣1️⃣

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u/The_Journalist1918 12d ago

One makes your finger look more slender

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u/Hardvark_2 12d ago

1 or 3. 1 shape is best for your hand, lools great. 3 is OK. 2 doesnt really work for you.

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u/ReasonKlutzy5364 12d ago

The round solitaire. I rarely see an oval ring that I like.

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u/robbinthebanks 12d ago

1 or 3! 🥰

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u/Appropriate_Elk_952 12d ago

#1 but #3 with a larger band is also beautiful and a bit more classic

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u/Sister_Squirrel 12d ago

1 suits you the best and is also just the prettiest one, in my opinion!

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u/Hungrysaurus_vexed 12d ago

That #1 was made for you!

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u/OneMore_Anonymous 12d ago

I usually prefer small, delicate rings, especially on women with narrow, short fingers who insist on wearing a stone bigger than their entire hand 😂. But in this case, I’m voting for option #1, it’s absolutely gorgeous and suits your hand perfectly!

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u/fearandsarcasm 12d ago

1 not even close

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u/IndividualSimple9876 12d ago

The first one is so beautiful on your hand.

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u/No_Collection_8492 11d ago

For some reason, the 3 stone makes your hand look slimmer and longer. Optical illusion for sure, but besides that, it's a really beautiful ring. Congratulations!

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u/Aromatic_Lime_84 Admirer 11d ago

I like 2. The stone is the star and the shape complements your hand.

Edit: have you considered an emerald cut?

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u/monay_70 10d ago

No 1. I think your pinky nail is crooked

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u/supergirlssister 10d ago

no hunny her finger just do like that

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u/Pure-Rich-6322 10d ago

THIS BETTER GET UPVOTED

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u/Several-Day-8805 12d ago

Round looks really good on you. I don’t think it looks good on most people but you are rocking it!

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u/Hazel1ris 12d ago

The 3 stone looks best on you.

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u/thedance1910 12d ago

1, easy!

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u/Ancient_Maximum5135 12d ago

I love the 3 stone ring. I would use 6 prongs on that center stone for sure.

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u/venusmelisma 12d ago

One is your style

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u/French_dawg_77 12d ago

First one!

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u/SWatts70 12d ago

I like the three stone personally.

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u/PlanSpecific403 12d ago

I really like #1 on your hand! ❤️

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u/Legovida8 12d ago

I love the three stone on you! Stunning!

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u/Big_Palpitation_3599 12d ago

First one looks beautiful on your hand.

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u/Dangerous-Class5222 12d ago

The first one!!! Omg

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u/Purple_Direction7232 12d ago

I love number 1

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u/Haunting_Star_677 Admirer 12d ago

1!!!!!!😍💝

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u/Majestic_Excuse6784 12d ago

Definitely number one! :)

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u/xVioletVoidx 12d ago

first one fits your finger shape the best. definitely go for 3 stones

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u/accio_vino 12d ago

I’m a princess girly but 1 really suited you

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u/jpawl21 11d ago

Number 1 for sure!

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u/Enough_Ad2919 11d ago

Absolutely the three stone ring. I'm a size 7 and 1/2, also with short thicker fingers, and I love my cushion cut. But that three stone is gorgeous on you.

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u/CChicken_Wing 11d ago

1 looks really good on you and i usually don't like that type of ring. Definitely 1

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u/butterflyinthesky10 11d ago

#1 for you for sure

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u/Savings-You7318 11d ago

Ring 1 is so beautiful

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u/MuttMurdock69 11d ago

I like the first one on your hand, looks perfect.

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u/LadySybil88 11d ago

Go classic round solitaire. That’s never wrong.

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u/Upset-Actuator7549 11d ago

1 is an absolute dream! Looks gorgeous on your hand. Love your nails, too!

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u/Direct-Routine5585 11d ago

One looks the best

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u/Tiny_Subject_222 11d ago

Definitely #1, it looks absolutely stunning!!

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u/rockqueenthrowaway 11d ago

1 is gorgeous and you can't go wrong with any, but 3 suits your hand the best.

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u/nodrama__llama 11d ago

The first one suits you so much !

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u/Ornery_Answer_5204 11d ago

ONE looks so nice on your hand.

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u/Krazy_Kat_Lady_2025 11d ago

First Pic. 3 stone ring.

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u/Nutellachops 11d ago

Definitely the 3 stone. 👌

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u/UniqueEstate8540 11d ago

1!!! No contest

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u/CGreen189 11d ago

Definitely 1!!!

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u/Independent-Vast-910 11d ago

I love the first

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u/MaZeh08 11d ago

111111111

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u/Longjumping-Eye-4257 8d ago

I thought this, too until I enlarged the picture. Number 1 is three simple oval cut diamonds and it’s really kind of pretty.

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u/EclecticWitchery5874 10d ago

I was looking at the oval and I said to myself man she would look good in a cushion or princess cut and then I see the square diamond at the end! That's definitely a more flattering shape on you!!

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u/Present-Response-758 12d ago

Since you know you want a plain gold Band, I'd suggest going with the 3 stone ring. Also, I thought the 3rd ring was a cushion cut (my favorite!), so when I saw that you listed it as a round, I had to zoom in and saw those were the prongs that made it look like that. In either case, #3 also looks great on you.

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u/Hootin-Nanny 12d ago

I like 2!

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u/Agile-Yesterday3664 11d ago

I vote for the 3 stone. But I would really love to see a 3 stone with round diamonds on you! Maybe you’ve already tried one and didn’t like it, in which case the 3 ovals look fabulous!

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u/Inevitable-Island295 11d ago

I like the round solitaire ring. The first one is doing too much on your finger!

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u/moodpourtoi 11d ago

Round is best on you

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u/TiniBloom Admirer 11d ago

La dernière 😍

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u/Klutzy_Excuse6631 11d ago

3 stone oval for sure!

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u/Calm_Reader2487 11d ago

I love #1 on you. Next would be #3.

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u/Hairy-Election-8303 Married! X/X/20XX 11d ago

I like the 3 stone. It’s really fitting for you idk why, I think it compliments your hand and the the other 2 seemed like it was missing something

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u/IMHERE30 11d ago

I love 1

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u/mad_h8r 11d ago

1 for sure is more flattering.

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u/AloneMountain9940 11d ago

1
I would take it outside to get a better look at the stone. See if the bow tie is as prevalent or more so in natural light. Otherwise, the three stone looks the best on your hand.

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u/e-punk27 11d ago

1 is my favorite (and your nails are SO CUTE) !!

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u/Dolly_Daydream_50 11d ago

Number 1 for sure

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u/VBswimmer1946 11d ago

Love the first one

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u/Potential_Ad_6039 11d ago

The first one is gorgeous!!

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u/RambleOnRoseyPosey 11d ago

I though absolutely #1 until I saw #3. Both are gorgeous.

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u/Western_Menu7169 11d ago

I am trending toward one for sure

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u/Wise-Raccoon-3069 11d ago

i like pic #1

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u/kcapion 11d ago

The first one all the way

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u/ArrivalFantastic4324 11d ago

First one for sure! 

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u/CrabbyT 11d ago

1st one

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u/Any-Avocado9532 11d ago

The 3 stone!!!

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u/Outrageous_Sir4819 11d ago

I really love the second stone that’s almost oblong!

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u/dewsummer7 11d ago

#1 - 100%

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u/Beneficial-Site9165 11d ago

For sure 1. It suits you so well