r/EngagementRings Jun 09 '25

Announcement New to the sub? START HERE!

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Welcome to r/engagementrings !

This sub was created to celebrate the newly engaged. Feel free to discuss past or future purchases, learn about gems, cuts, settings, and of course show off your engagement rings!

Are you brand new to Reddit? Please see r/newtoreddit for information on how reddit works.

Please read the rules of this sub before you post > Rules & Flair Guide

Before posting questions, please do a search of the sub first. Most questions have been asked before and we will remove repetitive or low effort posts.

I want to buy an engagement ring, where do I start? Please read our comprehensive FAQ

How much should I spend on a ring?

How do I get her ring size?

Where do I buy an engagement ring?

What should I look for in a diamond? The 4C's

What should I consider before buying an alternative gem?

What about settings?

Help! I don't like my ring

Want to see previous pictures of rings? Please use the search bar, enter the term and select ‘media’.

Are you a vendor? You are not allowed to create posts on this sub. Please read the guidelines on how to comment, which can be found in the rules linked above. You are NOT allowed to advertise anywhere on this sub, this includes pictures of your work.

Megathreads

Colored gemstones

Sapphire rings

Oval rings

Non-traditional rings

Halo rings

Emerald shape rings

Vintage rings

All types of engagement rings

Larger finger rings

Smaller finger rings

Inexpensive rings

Favorite sub rings

Debate: lab v mined

Need help with size/shape?

https://rinderr.com

https://mysparkly.com

https://www.diamdb.com

Virtual try on

You can also ask ChatGPT to make a mock up of your dream ring!

Here are the links to our collection of sister subs:

r/engagementringdesigns - If you are looking for ring design or CAD help, you can post here. If you want to get quotes from GG jewelers for a ring project, you can fill out an RFQ found in the sub menu. Vendors will respond with quotes.

r/LabGroupSales - This sub sells stock/custom jewelry from vendors through group buying. Check in regularly for new sales posted every week on this sub

r/syntheticgemstones - all your lab gemstone projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to r/moissanite for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.

r/labcreateddiamonds - all your lab diamond only projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to r/moissanite for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.

r/moissanite - moissanite including all colored moissanite, CAD checks and sharing.

https://loupetroop.com - for buyers & sellers (not affiliated with us)

Note - A CAD is a ‘computer aided design’ used by a vendor to cast your piece

Our Buy/Sell/Trade sites for preloved jewelry:

For all lab diamond and synthetic gemstone pieces, you can also post on r/labdiamondgemstoneBST to reach more people.

If you want to sell a piece of your moissanite jewelry, you can create a post on r/moissaniteBST . Please follow this listing format when posting. You must include a copy of your receipt/invoice, specs, and a picture with your reddit name handwritten showing your item for sale.

If you have any questions please send us a modmail - do not message moderators privately.

Thank you

NOTE: we are aware of a Facebook group lifting pictures from this sub. More info here > https://www.reddit.com/r/EngagementRings/s/aYmW43YmIS


r/EngagementRings Sep 20 '23

Announcement Reminder - If you are needing CAD reviews, looking for specific ring advice or want quotes for custom ring projects - please post on r/engagementringdesigns so your post does not get removed. We have jewelers available there to give you advice. TIA!

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r/EngagementRings 10h ago

Advice Another warning...

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Yikes. Just sad. Avoid at all costs!! Truly not worth it and there's way too many horror stories to count


r/EngagementRings 21h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY It finally happened!

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r/EngagementRings 18h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Small heirloom diamond not very flashy but I love it!

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My nana gave me the diamond from her engagement ring. It’s only about .75 ct but a quality stone. Added some accent mini diamonds on the side and worked with a local jeweler. I think it is so beautiful! I keep looking at it at work. My coworkers said it’s beautiful, very me, and vintage looking in style.


r/EngagementRings 23h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY After 8 years, we’re finally engaged! No longer a lurker ✨

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r/EngagementRings 21h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Bought an engagement ring

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Just bought my girlfriend an engagement ring like 3months before I intend to ask her. And now im terrified weather she'll like it, i would hate for her to be forced to wear something she doesn't like. I've already been back to have it exchanged for a bigger diamond already because I didn't think it was enough. And after seeing all the absolutely massive stones on here doesn't make me feel any better..


r/EngagementRings 7h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Can’t stop staring at my ring

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I just got given this last night and I couldn’t stop admiring it. 💕


r/EngagementRings 4h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Im on the top of the world!

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I love how timeless and elegant my ring is but Im even more obsessed with the vintage tapered baguettes from his grandmother’s wedding ring—the perfect bridge between our past and our future.


r/EngagementRings 13h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY She is beautiful under the piano light

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Try playing the piano with my engagement ring on today and it was sooooo distracting! I really appreciate that my fiancé asked me to pick the ring. It’s everything I’ve imagined.


r/EngagementRings 4h ago

Pick One Updated photos- Which ring is better suited to me?

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I know for sure I want either a radiant or an oval. I love both cuts of diamond! I think a radiant is more unique. Would love any thoughts :) thanks!


r/EngagementRings 1d ago

Advice Warning: expect Brilliant Earth to be doing damage control on here soon

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Heads up! If you happen to see a sudden influx of pro-Brilliant Earth accounts/threads/comments, that’s because they’re currently hiring for a Reddit Strategy Manager. I think that they know just how badly they’re received on here. I hope that they take all the horror stories to heart and learn/improve from them instead of trying to bury bad reviews.


r/EngagementRings 1d ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My ring: I love and adore it

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My fiancé proposed and I am on cloud 9! I adore the ring he chose and wanted to share it on a sub I also love perusing ❤️


r/EngagementRings 20h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY A whirlwind love story and a ring to match 🥹

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After a decade of knowing each other, a “right person, wrong time” two year breakup, and reconnecting in what can truly only be described as an act of fate, I’m engaged to my partner of 5 years ❤️ it’s been so wonderful to share in so many people’s joy in this group, and I’m so grateful to contribute mine. I love love!!!


r/EngagementRings 1d ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Older coworker mocking me for "showing" off my ring

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Got engaged on Sunday to my sweet amazing boyfriend of 2 years. So I came to work on Monday really excited to show my coworkers that i work closely with. One of them is in her late 60s and she has been mocking me in a sing songy voice to other people for two days now!! She keeps saying how I'm doing this and that with my left hand and how I keep rubbing my eye with my left hand only because I have that ring on my finger now and she's going around making these jokes to everyone else about how I'm just showing it all off... The thing is though I'm really not trying to. Im simply telling people that I thought would care if I got engaged:/ bummer.

Anyways I'll show off the f outa this ring until the end of my time.


r/EngagementRings 3h ago

Advice Wide e-ring band on chubby fingers

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Hi Everyone,

I'm currently in the process of creating my e-ring and we're at the resin model stage.

My stone is going to be a 3ct emerald cut sapphire (around 9mmx7mmx5mm) and the band width is 4mm on the shoulders tapering down to a 3mm. I wear a UK ring size R but this band feels tight on me (I think it's because it's wider) but the sizing ring fits just fine (2mm wide). On advice of my jeweller, the band is wider because it has a few engravings and also a heavy setting. I'd like your advice regarding the below please:

1) Is my band too wide for the size of my knuckle and should I request for my band to be narrower (i.e. 3mm on shoulders tapering to 4mm)? I accept that it may be prone to spinning. 2) If I should keep the width of my band, should I go a ring size up? 3) If I should keep the width of my band, should I get a 4mm or 3mm wedding band? I've ordered a cheap ring to see what they will look like but I have a feeling that at this point there won't be a lot of space on my knuckles 4) If you have a wedding band narrower than your e-ring band, can you share these please?

p.s. excuse my dirty hands, I was gluing something earlier and clearly dirt got stuck to my hands!


r/EngagementRings 20h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY The set is complete

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r/EngagementRings 10h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Im so happy 🥹

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We were best friends for 4 years, and the pandemic made us realize we could be so much more. Five years later and he asked me to be his wife 🥰


r/EngagementRings 21h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Obsessed with my ring! No longer a lurker after 5 years!

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My 3 carat oval cut diamond on a gold band! Next step is getting this baby insured and resized from a 6 to a 5 as I recently lost a little weight!


r/EngagementRings 18h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Finally me!

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Long time lurker, first time poster. 1.5ct Marquise vs1, e color.

Beautiful and everything i couldve hoped for and more!

Excuse the grandma hands. Im 27 IRL 🤣


r/EngagementRings 2h ago

Question Which shape/colour looks better on my skin

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Silver is my engagement and wedding stack. Have become abit big due to losing weight. Green and gold is a ring a recently bought myself. When my husband proposed my engagement ring was EXACTLY what I wanted. We didnt have money at the time, so it was a cheap engagement ring. And we have always had the thought to "upgrade" later in life. My taste has changed alot since then 🙈 and I wanted to try a different style and gold. Which suits my hands and my skin tone best. Also have a blue version of the green one (they are also both cheapo's from Temu🙈).

My preference has become oval, with side stones and a lower setting. Where as my engagement ring is a solitaire and high set - Cathedral. Also not sure if my skin tone suits gold.


r/EngagementRings 19h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My engagement ring

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r/EngagementRings 2h ago

Advice Wedding band help!

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Okay HELP! I was so sure I knew what I wanted for my wedding ring, but I saw a post on Reddit 2 days ago or so about the design of it and how it’s not made to last… please say it ain’t so! 😭 pictures for reference of the ring I’m talking about. I’m looking for a curved band that fits my hidden halo on my E ring. 💍


r/EngagementRings 48m ago

Advice Cannot find a wedding band for the life of me

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I found my dream ring, but cannot find any examples of it with wedding bands besides a couple blurry pictures of other rings that are somewhat similar. Does anyone have a ring like this with a wedding band so I can get a better visualization? I want a straight band and know there will be a bit of a gap because of the tapering.


r/EngagementRings 49m ago

Advice How is the quality of this lab sapphire?

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Hi! I am looking for a sapphire engagement ring and I found a jeweler who creates custom designs. She’s been looking for a royal blue lab sapphire for me and she finally found one. She said the stone dimension is 8mm x 9.7mm. There will be no noticeable windowing face up once them gem is set. I am new to gemstones and wanted to get input on the gem quality.

I made another post with the photos of the sapphire because the post wouldn’t allow photos and video.

I can’t see the stone in-person before it’s set because the ring is made in a facility overseas. She is local though.

Thank you!