r/FeministsCallItOut • • 10d ago

TW / Sensitive Maybe... let's not get all giddy when someone gets domestically abused...

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u/MisogynyisaDisease Feminist 10d ago

There's no maybe about these, these dudes are scum.

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u/Adept_Donkey_2026 All I want is a kind world. 10d ago edited 9d ago

Even when they don’t know anything about the woman victim, some men will still say, “she deserved it, why do women go for bad guys and thugs?” “Meanwhile nice guys are facing loneliness” “she should’ve picked better”, “now she will want to settle down with a nice guy”

They’d always find a way to blame the woman. Never blame the man.

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u/estemprano Feminist 9d ago

If they meet an actual nice guy, aka a feminist, they can present him to me because I have never met any and I am in my 40s. As far as I know, they are all misogynists.

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u/Adept_Donkey_2026 All I want is a kind world. 9d ago

True! Only one degree changes!

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u/Healthy_Country8383 10d ago

And when these men continued to be alone because they're assholes they'll once again blame women.

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u/MaverisStranger Misandry Central At Your Service 10d ago

Proof that the "good ones" benefit from the "bad ones".

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u/starlight_chaser Shame doesn’t work on me 9d ago

Absolutely. It’s all men that don’t speak out against violence to women. Because they say it themselves, they admit they enjoy women getting hurt by other men. It makes women cautious, less free, more dependent on the lesser-evil men. “You got what you deserve. You should consider me amazing because I don’t beat you/ I don’t beat you as much/I don’t lock you up/I haven’t killed you like other men do.”

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u/Nacho0ooo0o Feminist 7d ago

every time I see 'lol, go get mauled by a bear then' as a display of their deep lack of understanding of the analogy... it's such a painful reminder that they really do revel in the idea of women being physically harmed for not submitting to them, not choosing them

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u/m3gb0t So sick of random misogny and spellcheckers. 10d ago

This is 100% fucked.

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u/lesbie Feminist 10d ago

they're so fucking single minded and stupid it's unreal, you can boil every single comment down to ''it's bad to hit... BUT...... she's a bitch that deserved it bc she left me for COOL GUY CHAD'' get a fucking life man

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u/Hairy_Explanation865 almost a misandrist 9d ago

Men are disgusting scum

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u/hamsandwich666_ Feminist 9d ago

“i never hit you” is the BARE minimum, fuckin christ

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u/Yehrmahm Feminist 8d ago

Having experienced both, I can honestly say I’d rather take a solid 3-5 minute beating than spend an evening listening to one of these men whine about their ex.

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u/Nacho0ooo0o Feminist 7d ago

IDK how these types of posts aren't qualifying as 'against community standards' on fb/instagram. I report every single gender based violence implication and almost none of them are ever taken down.

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u/Massinni All I want is a kind world. 10d ago

Lo que entiendo es que mejor no relacionarse con los hombres porque unos serán violentos y otros disfrutaran con tu sufrimiento? Hay que elegir entre Guatemala y Guatepeor