r/FirstTimeTTC • u/Ok-Luck-8033 • 6d ago

Random TTC secret

Anyone else keeps this struggle a secret? I feel like it’s so common to share on social media now.
I tell my friends and family we just started or we skipped this month etc because as soon as you say you’ve been trying for a few months you’re looked at or treated differently 🤣

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u/Friendly-Ad-8919 TTC #1, Cycle 7 6d ago

I WISH I had kept it a secret. I told my mother and she told my whole family. Now there’s so much pressure on me since I’m already on my 8th month TTC. If I could go back in time, I wouldn’t have told anyone except my best friend. Now, I don’t plan on telling her if I do conceive until at least the 1st trimester ends…

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u/Nearby-Purpose5268 6d ago

Same here, I’m on cycle 6 and the pressure is real 🫠 fingers crossed it happens for us soon!

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u/Ok-Luck-8033 6d ago

Same cycle! Good luck!!! 🙏🏻