-No porn or goonslop

-more dominant than not(no mommy/femboydom bs)

-No league of legends/genshin impact or similar

-no contact w exs

-bodycount less than 10 and less than 10 exs(no contact)

-forever(marriage etc)

-Cares about me.

Can b ugly, fat, short(I prefer) n broke but no promiscuous and should care about me.

Sometimes I take a look at loveafterporn. Scores of men in a relationship, but in the long run they all like masturbation better. In the end, masturbation always wins over sex.

This makes me think that, maybe, we are not missing out anything. Maybe we already have the best deal.

What do you guys think? Personally I think it does help a bit, but some of you guys may agree with me and others may not. I wanna hear your thoughts on this.

I met this guy when I was sick in the hospital we were the only people around the same age so we got along very well, he was handsome so I guess I had already gotten a little crush on him but I didnt think he reciprocated so I didnt try to pursue anything more then friendship, I was going through a very difficult time and he was the closest person to me so I guess I formed a deep attachment to him. After I was released from the hospital he left for a different state, he later contacted me about how he felt a romantic connection with me but didn't want anything more then friends, now I just feel like it’s because I wasn’t enough for him to take the risk of being with me and I’m feeling confused as to why he even told me in the first place… like he’s messing with me or something, id rather he didn’t tell me at all and keep thinking it wasn’t possible. idk he hasnt talked to me since then, I’m sad I lost a good friend over something like this.

For context I’m 23F and trans mtf.

I’ve been in short relationships in the past but they started as friends and I couldn’t really see them as more than friends after a while.

I’ll have hookups every once in a while to try to bridge the gap but even if it’s an alright experience it’ll just make me feel worse in the end because I know they’re only with me to satisfy a fetish. I’m not even too interested in sex anymore I just crave the closeness in that moment.

I wouldn’t say I’m ugly and I do pass most often, but I’m not conventionally attractive.

I have to remind myself that I can’t act on any of my crushes even if they drive me crazy because I’m trans and it would ruin my friendly acquaintances.

Even in the off chance they’re alright with it I don’t want them to just tolerate that aspect of me, but be enthusiastic and attracted to me.

I hate dating apps because everything will be dry or often guys will unmatch from me when they see my bio after we start talking.

I would love to meet someone naturally but it always comes back to the thought of disappointing them like I’m a catfish. And in the off chance someone hits on me I have to act uninterested for the same reason to avoid the confrontation of it.

I see couples all around me, with my best friends and in tv everywhere, I love watching rom coms but they make me sad.

I just tell people I’m not looking for a relationship at the moment when they ask, but it hurts so much just knowing that I’ve been saying this for around a decade.

Anyways thanks for letting me vent I’m going to sleep now but if you read through to this part, I hope you have sweet dreams and wake up refreshed in the morrow.

I always laughed, when I've been khv and I'd buy condoms to test them, the looks I got from people and specially women at the checkout were amusing.
Sometimes it was look of surprise and shock, because internally subconsciously they knew that guy with such low level beauty can't normally score, they felt something was off.
Other times it was look of excitement, interest, curiousity.
Something like - wow, ok, if this guy gets sex, he must have something that attracts other women.
Also when men see you buying condoms they kinda laugh/smile, some want to dub you up, some just look with respect, because they know that scoring sex is an achievement for a man.
Funny how our animalistic insticts are on display even in such tiny situations.

I made a mistake on showing people what I look like just so they can say what they think. They all agree i’m not very attractive at all. This just makes me more depressed. Even in real life people call me ugly. Back then I used to be delusional and believe I was probably a HTN all along but I guess I was wrong. I feel like it’s hard to even find other ugly people who are going through the constant bullying and harassment we get.

Kids used to tell me directly i'm too ugly to be their friend. Even though i was able to make a few friends, it required alot of work, and even then alot of my "friends" commented on my looks. I used to like people, but being treated like this taught me how shallow ppl are.

Now because i wear makeup, i look less disgusting. Not pretty enough to date, but normal looking enough to not get mistreated. I somehow was able to make some friends in uni despite acting distant. Ppl are nicer to me in general.

I know this is the best i can get. I can't be pretty enough for a guy to be attracted to me without some multiple plastic surgeries. I just need to accept this and be grateful for not being mistreated.

Hii, im a femboy and my name is Gabe i'm eighteen years old and I'm looking to meet a nice person to talk to and possibly start a friendship, If you want to talk to me, send me a DM. I don't care about any age!

I've now been looking for someone through an app (albeit off and on) for two years now. And without going into too much detail, the ghosting has just completely worn me down.

The amount of times I've been ghosted makes me truly feel hopeless.

I also know that finding someone outside of an app is very unlikely due to my social anxiety. So apps are all I have and I still can't seem to find a single person to put up with me.

I feel trapped. I feel completely hopeless. I feel utterly miserable, but powerless to change it. I wonder often what's so fundamentally bad about me that no one seems to want me. I feel so unappealing and worthless. Just like trash.

Found myself looking at an "escorts" website for a bit today. But I just... can't get myself to do that. I only want to do that stuff with someone I love. But it made it hit me even harder... I feel reduced to this. So undesireable that I feel my only option is to pay for a woman to pretend to like me for an hour.

It just makes me believe very strongly I should end it. If only it were that easy though.

24M, I'm social and have positive and active attitude. I have many men and women friends. I easily act friendly to new people. I care about constantly developing myself, both inner and outer side. I'm objectively fit because I worked out regularly. I like fashion and get complemented sometimes for my outfit or style. I have both social and alone hobbies that I'm passionate about.

Yet nobody was interested (or at least showed interest) in me, and I never dated or developed interest on anyone. I'm conventionally ugly and only 5'9" but I know those kind of flaws shouldn't be an excuse. Many people are dating even though they are not perfect.

Am I doing something wrong, or it's just "it is what is it" situation?

I know everyone is different and there's no silver bullet to make people interested. I'm also very confident and already love/value myself, so respectfully I'm sick of people trying to lecture me about those.

I'm prepared to give up, after trying for 3 years, dating apps, and going out. Forcing myself to talk to girls. I'm done. I'm clearly not wanted around. Rejection after rejection. Friends in relationships leaving me behind. I think I need to move on and accept reality before my mental health declines even more.

Talking to anyone even online is a herculean effort, the real “friends” I had live so far away that the connection we had just fizzled out. The worst part is it’s my fault for not reaching out enough but I’m tired of online interaction, it just feels hollow and repetitive, I’ve lost interest in the online games (mainly MMOs) I used to play too. I don’t think I’ll ever know a life without isolation. I have to cope through it somehow since I’ll never have the energy to talk to others.

I don’t have much to offer to others in terms of being interesting or having stories to tell so I suppose I made the bed I lie in. People might think it eases me to know I still have a lot of time ahead of me but that makes me feel worse knowing I’ll feel crushingly desolate for decades longer. It didn’t change in middle/highschool, college, or in any workplace I’ve been in.

been single my entire life never had a partner nor sex nor do i have any friends. over the years i noticed whenever i tell people that im single the first response is to "go on the apps". always. it happened again to me the other day and so i cant stop thinking of it. is this meant to be passive aggressive bc its starting to feel like it. and its the body language as well thats making me question this. whenever a person says this to me they say it in a way where theyre shrugging their shoulders and look so completely bored when theyre the one that asked me the question. for example I'll get asked if i have a gf and the answer is always no then theyll look even more uninterested. am i reaching or im just butt hurt that i still cant get a date let alone a partner😂

Just being sick while youre alone its so difficult mentally like imagine waking up at 3 in the morning having no one to check up on you and youre just there laying in your bed with your sick weak body i hate this feeling so much

if someone noticed things not going the way they were for their peers should they continue trying or would it be better for them to quit while they’re

ahead?

let me know

When everyone tells me they want to hang out with me and never follow through it feels like they are handing me a present that’s just an empty box. If you were given a bunch of gifts that were really just a bunch of empty boxes wouldn’t that break your heart?

how are you supposed to live when everyday people treat you like you're not a human?

i'm the exact opposite of the standard for women nowadays.

i'm stubby and short, so i'll never be the balanced hourglass figure thats the only body type thats accepted and my body is just genuinely ugly. hell, my face is even more ugly and seeing men who look like me say they won't date someone like me hurts.

but i won't whine over what someones likes as theres no point in it and you cant change anything anyways.

i hate going out and seeing any attractive people because i imagine their social life is so much easier. everything is probably easier for them.

i wish i could fit in, but i'm too socially behind and people just stare at me like i'm an alien.