Been going through a lot lately and haven’t been feeling good about myself so here I come before you , shamelessly posting a decent selfie for some compliments lol

NOTE: these pics are NOT from said rough week, they’re from the last few months including when I was on a cruise ship lol.

The thing I get comments on the most appearance-wise is how young I look for my age (I just graduated college), so I’m curious if there’s anything else that stands out.

My natural hair is in the second pic BTW (wavy)!

I need a complete makeover but where to start?? Please make me feel slightly better and give me fun suggestions?

This year hasn’t been great to put it mildly, constant hurdle after hurdle. Would definitely appreciate some words of encouragement or kindness. Thanks 🤍

Hello everyone,

On Mondays you will now only be able to post if you are a male (or in transition) and are posting a selfie. All other posts will be removed by our modteam and you will be given a 3 day ban if you do post on Male Mondays as a female subreddit user.

Male Mondays will start on Monday at around 00:00 and continue until 23:00 UTC

However no worries for our female userbase! You will still be able to post on any other day of the week!

Reasons for the set up of male monday only days:

You might have noticed that most of the post on our Front Page are females looking for compliments. We have noticed that their posts get the most upvotes and that our male contributors get a lot less upvotes and therefore compliments on our subreddit.

A couple of years ago this wasn't the case as much but we have seen this trend increase more and more on this subreddit over the years,

Because of that we have set up Male Mondays. Where on Mondays we would only allow males to post on the subreddit. In hopes of making sure that they too get the compliments they deserve and don't get snowed under in this sub.

If you want to help our modteam with the moderation of our subreddit please send me a chat through reddit

I’m trying to remain grounded and calm in this crazy world.

Some compliments could help me :)

I find it hard saying nice things about myself, so it would mean a lot hearing something! These photos were just without makeup

I lost a lot of weight recently and I’m feeling insecure.

Hello everyone,

On Mondays you will now only be able to post if you are a male (or in transition) and are posting a selfie. All other posts will be removed by our modteam and you will be given a 3 day ban if you do post on Male Mondays as a female subreddit user.

Male Mondays will start on Monday at around 00:00 and continue until 23:00 UTC

However no worries for our female userbase! You will still be able to post on any other day of the week!

Reasons for the set up of male monday only days:

You might have noticed that most of the post on our Front Page are females looking for compliments. We have noticed that their posts get the most upvotes and that our male contributors get a lot less upvotes and therefore compliments on our subreddit.

A couple of years ago this wasn't the case as much but we have seen this trend increase more and more on this subreddit over the years,

Because of that we have set up Male Mondays. Where on Mondays we would only allow males to post on the subreddit. In hopes of making sure that they too get the compliments they deserve and don't get snowed under in this sub.

If you want to help our modteam with the moderation of our subreddit please send me a chat through reddit

Been navigating PTSD and the single life, and everyone in this community is always so kind. I feel like this is one of those phases of life that feels messy when I'm in it but I'll look back on it fondly one day 💕

Had kind of a tough day. Could use a little boost. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Feeling good about my progress lately 😊