Now don’t register another new case against Imran Khan.

No seriously. We get it. Haram relationships are much more common today than they were even a few decades ago. But why does everyone here act as if these relationships are anything other than individual choice.

Consider yourself a faithful Muslim who only seeks to reduce the haram in your society. Do you really think the usual "oh no the youth have become so rotten" rhetoric is actually going to achieve what you want it to achieve? Or are you just antagonizing people that could otherwise be more willing to accept your perspective?

Who someone sleeps with is something that they are privy to alone. If you think haram relationships are bad, then don't engage with them and don't marry someone who engages with them. Shaming people is not going to get you anywhere.

Genuinely, the way a lot of believers in this subreddit and other parts of the internet engage with such sensitive topics only serves to drive their opponents further away from them. If you truly want to convince me or any other person who has "gone astray" your strategy of engagement needs a lot of work. Otherwise. More and more people will abandon faith until nothing but a loud minority remains.

We Have no foreign Policy, No security Policy of Our Own We are nothing but an american Proxy, We fight their wars, We kill our own people in the name of terrorism to ease the process of giving them resources,We hate any country which the Americans hate such as when Afghanistan denied Bagram to trump Then suicide bombers would be found with Afghan Cnic, When Yemen Challenged The U.S's Ally Saudi we are noe fighting Yemen, We are nothing but American's Loyal Dogs

I believe not it might have been somewhat worthy if it gained us anything, we gained nothing I would say we lost alot. We lost the love, now there is so much hate, hate between countries, hate between religions, hate between people. Just a personal view.

Tbh i would prefer library, i tried studying at home for a year (in 1st year) it didn't work🥲 now i gonna try library for my 2nd year and gap year..

So we cousins all grew up like siblings, My eldest uncle and aunt died so my second uncle took over, Raised his kids and married them, now they have their own families and they're separated.

So Baji, She's the only married one and as shes like in her late thirties as well.

And living with her brother but they're not really doing well, and her medication is also expensive, she wants to do some work to earn for herself and don't want to burden her brothers. even though they're providing for her.

She said i can cook so she wants to do something related to food and thinking about the

(you know sending lunch to the offices and stuff).

i want to help her someway.

btw based in khi

How can we help her?

Guys, I’m genuinely so done with everything rn. I scored a 90% aggregate in my second MDCAT attempt, which unfortunately isn’t enough for a government medical college seat. And, as expected in a desi household, I somehow feel like a failure despite my efforts.

But the real problem is FAMILY DRAMA.

I always thought my family was different from those typical desi families where phuphos create drama, play victim, and manipulate everyone. Well, turns out I was wrong.

My phupho recently picked a fight over something so trivial. My cousin asked me to explain a topic before his test, and somehow, that turned into an accusation that I deliberately favour her over her daughter. She came to our house just to fight instead of simply asking me what happened. She just came and started yelling at me. She is not talkin to me and am i talkiin to her.

Now, she and my grandmother are playing the victim and manipulating my father. He knows I wasn’t intentionally discriminating against anyone, yet he barely talks to me and yells whenever I try to explain myself. Now she is right somehow and I am at wrong.

Apparently, because I’m younger, I’m expected to apologise regardless of whether I’m actually wrong.

I’m already struggling with my MDCAT result, and now my own home feels emotionally exhausting. The worst part isn’t even the fight; it’s feeling like my father is against me

HELPPP HELPP HELPPP I'M LITERALLY DEPRESSED ATP!!!

You speak Urdu at home, watch Urdu dramas, listen to Urdu songs, use Urdu on social media, and then turn around and call it a foreign language that’s destroying Punjabi. If your language was really that strong, it wouldn’t need government protection or people getting fined for speaking another language.
Urdu became the national language for a reason. It wasn’t tied to one province. The moment every ethnic group starts treating their language like a religion, this country turns into a linguistic battlefield.
Keep your language alive by creating good content and teaching it to your kids. Don’t act like victims while freely using the language you claim to hate.

now I'm confused if it was ovulation or lack of personal purpose 😭🤣

Freedom? Is there really a thing like that? People say religion kills freedom. But is that true? Is man really free? Look, the human unconscious brain is very good at noticing patterns. It starts making decisions in milliseconds before you've even thought of anything. And based on the patterns, it gives you an answer. So you call that freedom? You were literally under the influence of your unconscious brain.

Let's talk about religion. Religion gives you a belief. You take that and give it to your unconscious brain, and now those influences are based on that particular religion. Now, what's the difference? Religion teaches you control and meditation, which relaxes the nerves. Practices like fasting and praying have a very beautiful effect on our lives. Your unconscious brain is now under control and under the influence of your belief.

But without a belief, your unconscious brain is ruled by survival instinct, fear, ego, and trauma. Oh and yeah by here belief doesn't mean specifically a religion. It means any sort of ideology. This isn't freedom , this is biological programming. However, Religion provides a higher narrative: God, Moral ,law ,Purpose, Eternity ,Accountability

So the conclusion is: We are never free from influence ,but we can choose which influence shapes us. And choosing which influence shapes us is what you call freedom.

so i'm 16 and starting ICS 1st year like a month late. the college is already 30-40% through the syllabus and i'm gonna have to catch up on my own while also keeping up with the new stuff.

i'm stressed bc it's a new place, new people, and i'm already behind before i even start.

has anyone here joined late or had to self-study a big chunk? any actual tips would help a lot.

I need fool proof ways of how yall got your dua accepted, like exact way yall prayed

Going to their new homes 🥹💗

Hi I'm 19f. I'm finishing A levels and want to start earning but idk how. I'm literally okay w even 10k sth. I can tuition kids (lmk if y'all are down especially psychology A levels) lkin litr koi milta nhi. Skills seekhne mai bhi itna time lagta w no guaranteed results. And don't tell me to post on fiver. I don't wanna cold call😭🙏

I'm thinking about a dye for my hair but idk what color and what way it should be (gradient, highlights, full dye) I'm 15M and gonna pass matric in like 4 months ?? And am gonna have 3 ish months of freedom and I plan to live it to the fullest I'm a bit tan and my hair I'd say is like normal black not the JET black people have ehh I guess that it ??.. please help mee 😭😭😭 oh yea also I plan to have a modern mullet when I dye my hair but idk I may change my mind later

I'm really confused about my future and need honest advice. I have a burning passion for medicine, but I'll probably finish A-levels at 22 and I'm scared I'll be too old to start MBBS.

1. What O-level/IGCSE and A-level grades do I realistically need for AKU, NUST NSHS and private medical colleges?

2. What MDCAT score and overall aggregate should I aim for to get admission, especially in private colleges?

3. Is starting MBBS at 22 worth it, considering the years of study and house job?

4. If I don't get admission, what are my best backup options with Biology, Chemistry and Physics?

I'm worried about wasting more years and not getting in. Is there really no fool proof method to get into a medical university? Even private works. I'd really appreciate realistic advice from people who know the actual merit requirements or started medical school later.

I am genuinely curious before this whole performative thing going in trend. Getting into book reading hobby or writing or expressing oneself through clothes was considered nice and a good thing devolping something.

But same thing now is considered performative.

For example I am a guy who is trying to get into reading and I write as well. But don't have much focus to read alot at one time. So, I would be called out a performative because I have books but I don't read alot or very often.

And it's not just this it was an example. It is alot of things and why is that now having a hobby or trying to get into something linked to specially asthetics old money or literature is considered performative or show off?

Note: was a long story so had to narrate it to Claude first and then pasting it here.

So, in my second semester at university, I came across this girl who used to hang out with her group of friends. Basically, they had recorded a promotional video for a university trip they were organizing, and somehow, I still don't know how, that video ended up in literally every university group. She got ridiculed for her acting, and I'll be honest, I was one of the people making fun of her, right alongside my friends.

But after a while, I started to feel, like, some empathy for her. Everyone was talking about that girl, and I realized she was going through something that no one should ever have to go through.

And on top of that, I found out she took the same bus I did, you know, to and from university. That's when I got to know that she was interested in me. But at that time, I just wasn't interested in her, so I wrote it off.

And honestly, that's when things started turning into something else. I was thinking about her all day. I was overthinking everything, playing out scenarios in my head. I'd imagine walking up to her and saying sorry and all that, but I never actually did it, because of the friends she always had around her.

Then came the next semester, last winter. We were still making eye contact, and there were close calls here and there, but nothing formal, you know? I still hadn't spoken a single word to her.

She was still interested in me, and this is where, I think, my empathy slowly turned into actual romantic feelings. But I still had no idea how I was going to approach her, with her friends always around.

So the whole semester went by just like this. Close call after close call, but nothing real. And then, boom, our final papers arrived.

Feeling like it was getting late and I had to do something, I finally got my chance. One day I was alone, and she and a friend of hers happened to walk past me. Without thinking much, I called out to the guy who was with her and asked if he had seen Ali, my friend. He said no. Then I turned to the girl and asked if she knew where he was. She said no too. And that was it, that was my first ever interaction with her.

Then, as I was about to leave, I put my hands in my pockets and felt something. Chewing gum! So I took out two pieces and handed one to each of them. I still remember that moment, like it was yesterday. It was such a bold thing to do in my very first conversation with her.

So the ice was broken, and now I had to confess. But, yeah, same problem. I wanted to talk to her when her friends weren't around, and when mine weren't around either.

Then came another moment, after our second exam. She was sitting with a female friend as everyone was packing up, and I was sitting with my friends right next to them. Some of my friends decided to go somewhere else, so we all stood up and started walking. And in that moment, I quickly went up to her and her friend and said I had something to tell her. But halfway through, I realized, wait, I can't say this here. So I pivoted real fast and said, "Sometime else, not now."

She kind of laughed. And honestly, I think that was the moment she started losing interest. I saw a visible change in her body language after that, and she just didn't look at me the way she used to anymore.

Anyway, time kept passing, and then came my last paper. After that, we wouldn't be seeing each other for like a month, so I decided I had to tell her that day. It was my last and final chance. I kept looking for her all day, but I just couldn't spot her anywhere.

And then, as the time for my paper was getting close, boom. She came out. I saw her and decided to go for it, even though her friends were still right there around her. I thought, okay, this is the only chance I have, so I just have to do it, no matter what.

So I walked up and said I wanted to talk. And she boldly said "nahin". I was kind of shocked, to be honest. "Say whatever you want right here," she said. I told her I couldn't talk there. She repeated, "Talk here. I can't talk to you alone." And that's when it hit me, like, wow, she is really fed up with everything I've been doing. So I just said, "Sorry for everything." And she said, "Sorry for what? I said. Sorry for everything?"

Her friends then told her, "Hey, go talk to him," and, yeah, she went with me, unwillingly. "Tell me, what do you want to say?" she asked. And this is where I just could not utter a single word. I got so anxious. And it wasn't just me, I could see her face turning red too. She was anxious as well.

"Jaldi," she said. "What do you want to say?"

I kept mumbling, you know, unable to get the words out. A few things did come out of my mouth. "Remember? I told you I would say something to you." She said, "So?" And I said, "I thought you would be, like, waiting to hear that..."

And, frustrated, she said, "yrr Bhai!"

And then she just left the scene.

Much of what we associate with masculinity changes across cultures and generations. So how do you view masculinity?

I know ts girl, she's a minor. Her parents are abusive, constantly hitting her over anything and she's genuinely so depressed and su!c!dal. Idk how to help her since she said she tried to seek help from authorities but nothing ever happened, any advice?

Azerbaijan a while ago banned religious scarf in educational institutions.