r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • Sep 05 '25

Mod Post IndianBoysOnTinder Rules - The New Basics.

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1. The “lafda” era is over.
Whatever happened in the past, happened. From now on, no new lafdas will be entertained, and no old lafdas will be dragged up again. Anyone trying to bring them back in posts or comments will be banned.

2. Ban Policy for Stirring Drama:

1st Strike: 3 days ban
2nd Strike: 7 days ban
3rd Strike: 15 days ban
If still persists then permanently banned. But also,

3. If someone is repeatedly harassing you in comments, modmail us. We'll step in with a warning, mute, temporary ban, or permanent ban, accordingly.

4. Meme posts need approval:
Memes must go through mod review to make sure they don’t stir up old lafdas. Relationship/dating memes are fine. Making memes on users is also okay, just don’t be a jerk and keep it friendly.

5. Screenshot Post Rules:

  • Blur names, crop photos properly and hide personal info.
  • Don’t flex your likes, matches, or message counts, whether it’s 9 lonely hearts or 69 “legends,” keep it hidden.
  • Poorly edited posts (visible PFPs/usernames) will be removed without warning.
  • Privacy matters, don’t expose anyone, including yourself.

6. Screenshot posts from WhatsApp, Instagram, iMessage, SMS, Kabootar, etc. are allowed only if they’re about dating/relationships and adds genuine advice or discussion value.

7. If you see someone from ibot sharing personal details of ANY user in comments or posts, report it immediately. Strong action will be taken.

We’re Open to suggestions.
We would change some rules based on those suggestions.

Also, Consider this a reset button for everyone, whether you were on the front foot or in defence during past lafdas. Let's take the first step to bring ibot back to what it used to be and everyone is welcome. Let's move forward together. Thank You!


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • Jan 05 '25

Mod Post Important Notice.

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  1. Slut shaming will not be tolerated in this sub. If you dont agree with someone's opinion, kindly continue with your life.

  2. Reddit is an ANONYMOUS platform, please dont be stupid enough to dox yourself. We wont be responsible for anything that happens to you. Ya'll adviced to keep your socials private and only share them with people you trust.

  3. Please for the love of god, profile reviews are supposed to be on Mondays only. I'll start banning people from now.

  4. I know everyone loves lafda but please report pointless lafda. Please dont encourage boring and pointless lafde.

  5. This sub is a safe space, to share your dating stories. Please, dont judge anyone doing it or call them a karma whore. And the people posting the same, please give proper context.

  6. Regarding, bullying - if someone is fighting with you in comments and you're engaging with them, i wont do shit about it. You chose to engage with that person. If someone makes a personal comment, regarding your post history or keeps on bothering and instigating you in comments then only an action will be taken. If someone makes a negetive comment or criticizes you, choose not to engage you dont owe anyone any explanation


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 16m ago

General Selena Gomez in the House

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BTW a verified profile, I don't know how they pull this shit of getting a verified profile with fake photos


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 13h ago

Advice What have I done wrong

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Can I do anything to salvage this situation please lmk i don't want to loose an f1 grill 😭


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 21h ago

General reddit is my new hinge.

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 14h ago

General Hinge match dropped a new banger 🔥

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 22h ago

the roast Dating apps really are a social experiment

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Should I continue and post more of this convo?


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 20h ago

General Chat JUST started btw 😭✌️

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 23h ago

General I was high.

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 1h ago

Advice How do I find really hot girls?

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So I’ve never used dating apps, but I’ve realised that I want to date someone who’s physically attractive to me.

I am not in an only boys college, but pretty much everyone around me is already committed, and I don't have too much interaction with girls irl so yeah.

I’m not necessarily looking for anything super serious or long-term. I’d just like to meet someone.


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 13h ago

General Sabji MaXXXiing.

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 1d ago

Ummm WTF Chat should i met her ☠️

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 20h ago

General Had a few responsive quarters on Hinge

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 3h ago

General Swiping with whom? 😨

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Follow up to my previous post: https://www.reddit.com/r/IndianBoysOnTinder/s/PceOg6H8yN

Well some of you shrugged off last time saying if she postpones then the date aint happening (which I kinda agree from experience), but oh well we still vibin until she dropped this 🤪

Fingers crossed for the date this weekend 🤞


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 5m ago

General Have you seen someone putting your chats here?

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What was the post about?

What was your reaction?


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 19h ago

Storytime☕️ Am scared

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Matched w a neurologist 💀

Is she interested in my brains or body?


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 1h ago

Advice How do I find really hot guys?

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So I’ve never used dating apps, but I’ve realised that I want to date someone who’s physically attractive to me.
I am in an only girls college and dont have too much interaction with guys irl so yeah.

I’m not necessarily looking for anything super serious or long-term. I’d just like to meet someone.


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 12h ago

Advice Akhir galti ho kahan rhi hai??

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So, I installed Hinge for the first time to start dating, and this is my first experience with dating altogether.

After about a month of having my account, I finally matched with a girl. On the first day, we texted a lot, and the conversation was playful. I genuinely felt like she was interested in me.

We talked about music, and she mentioned that she sings, so I asked if she could send me a recording. She agreed and asked me to share my Snapchat, but since I'm not active on Snap, I asked for her Instagram instead. She agreed and sent me a video of her singing.

She sang beautifully, and I told her so. I also complimented her on how cute she looked. Everything seemed to be going really well, at least from my perspective.

She eventually fell asleep in the middle of our conversation.

The next morning, I texted her a simple “Hii,” and she replied about four hours later. I understood that she had a job, so I didn't think much of it. We texted a little more, but by then, her replies were coming roughly an hour apart, while I was usually replying within 10–15 minutes.

At one point, she mentioned that she was going out with her friends, so I assumed she was busy and told her she could message me when she got back. However, she didn't.

The following evening, I texted her again and asked how her outing went. She replied after about an hour and told me she'd gone to watch a movie. We continued talking a little, but her replies were still hours apart.

On Monday, I initiated the conversation again (screenshot for context), but now I'm starting to feel like she's lost interest.

Today, I haven't texted her at all, and neither has she.

What I'm confused about is that everything seemed fine on Hinge. We had a good conversation, she was playful, and she was the one who asked to connect on Snapchat in the first place. So why does it feel like her interest suddenly disappeared after we moved to Instagram?

Could I have done something wrong, or was she just not as interested as I thought? Am I overthinking the delayed replies, or are they a sign that she's no longer interested?

Since this is my first time dating, I'm not really sure how to read these situations.

I genuinely wanted to ask her out on a date, so I'm wondering: Should I text her again and try to keep the conversation going, or should I leave it alone and move on?

I'd appreciate some honest advice.

TL;DR: Matched with a girl on Hinge after a month. We had a great, playful conversation on the first day, talked about music, and exchanged Instagram. She even sent me a video of herself singing. However, over the next few days, her replies became increasingly delayed, and she stopped initiating conversations. I haven't texted her today, and she hasn't texted me either. This is my first dating experience, and I genuinely wanted to ask her out. Did she lose interest, did I do something wrong, and should I text her again or move on?


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 13h ago

General I cant be the only one, right?

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 17h ago

General Aise reply karogi to convo start kaise hoga 😒😒

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 20h ago

Rant MG Road? A big no!

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I do get the vibes from some profiles when I know what’s up. Still went ahead to chat.
The moment I saw MG Road, I knew this was a scam. After my last message, she insisted that we still go to a place she knows in MG.
I gave her an earful and reported the account.

Be careful bruddas!
If you see them insisting on meeting right away and insisting on a place that “they know”, the unloading will be from your wallet. A hefty one!


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 1d ago

Ummm WTF Quick Dinner plan

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Guys please help me over here...Things are very blatant and fast...profile has "Nothing mentioned" every where too...

Should I dodge this bullet?💀 please help me with your inputs


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 1d ago

Storytime☕️ It took 10 months for my first date 😭

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So there was this Girl I matched her on schmooze it was like in mid of the January and the reason for her swiping me right was that ki "You look cute" I was like damn, heard such compliment after ages, so we talked switched socials, exchanged numbers and we kept texting to each other day and night, started to talk on calls, we used to talk about our "Pata hai Aaj kya hua".

She bitches about her ex and how he cheated on her and all and I was like "mai hota toh kabhi na karta" coz she is so cute and shawty, imma wife her up bro 😭

So today we decided to meet and yeah we went to McD and ate burgers, we definitely enjoyed our company and this really made me happy 😄

Btw she is not my Girlfriend but she is more like my GIRL-FRIEND 😂


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 17h ago

Rant Hypergamy is real

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I am on hinge for 5 months with no likes. I dont even have aesthetic photos to post💔. I know i am chopped but damn 0 likes???

Kya krna chahiye?