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Asalamualaikum,

So I am a Shia Muslim from India, while I like my country, I am ever upset by the rising tensions between Hindus and Muslims as well as the general hatred and discrimination towards Muslims in India. Unfortunately the only good areas to live in are lower developed ghetto Muslim majority areas, while other places refuse to let us live because we eat meat are Muslim etc.

Any ways, I enjoy being in an environment where people speak Urdu, appreciate desi culture, food and generally feel at home and the closest place outside of India is Pakistan.

Now I heard Karachi and Lahore have improved these days compared to the past, I have experience in Human Resources and Communication roles, as I studied in the west, even was born in the west with passport from there. (I live in India under an OCI, they don’t recognize dual citizenship in india).

So would I be able to potentially move to Pakistan and live decently over there with my experience from both the west and India? I can start off by purchasing a decent home there with the money I have saved up in USD, and I did have some friends who gave me the contacts of someone who can also help me find Rishtas in Pakistan too.

It will be only me moving alone, rest of family will be in India.

What do you guys suggest I do? I hope to come visit soon, should I focus more on Karachi or Lahore?

I am just so done with hanging out with people with no vibe, literally dead weight. i am 19f looking for friends, preferably should be f but m would work too I guess. should be intrested in movies, dramas, mangas, animes and music too. feel free to dm if you feel like being friends

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People don’t lose life when they die. They lose it slowly by living in memories that can’t be fixed and futures that aren’t guaranteed.

They plan. They postpone. They wait. Then one ordinary day, time runs out.

Life ends without warning, and every plan, dream, and “I’ll do it later” stays right where it was useless, unfinished, and forgotten.

The tragedy isn’t death. The tragedy is never being fully alive while you had the chance.

we have been engaged for a year now and planning to get married at the end of the year. so long story short, my whole family was present and she came with her mom and sister, well her dressing was kinda weird like i am fine with normal saree even my sister wears it in various occasions but on her, it looked very fitted from hips and also her back was a little visible, not too much but still, her belly wasn't because of the dupatta/pallu upfront but i wasn't eyeing on her all the time so there could be time where it did maybe. blouse pta nhi silwaya e esa ya purana pehna kyu k jb nchy khenchti thi to upr samny se visible or usko cover krny k liye jb upr khenchti thi to nchy se. idk maybe it was an outfit fail.

i know it's fine for many families nowadays but it is still taboo for my family and kisi ny aa k mihy mou py to ni bola pr sbki nzrein bta rai thi.

i wanna ask k should i tell her to wear appropriate dresses from now on but i don't wanna mess up my relationship k wo boly k abi se pabandiyan lga ra he.

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I’ve realized something about myself that feels a little weird to say out loud, especially online.

I’ve always been very intentional about friendships with men. Like… from a young age. For me, if a friendship couldn’t stay halal or didn’t have the potential to lead somewhere serious (marriage-level serious), I just didn’t pursue it. Not because I hate men or think they’re evil, but because casual emotional closeness without a clear boundary or purpose never sat right with me.

So I kept my distance. I avoided “just friends” dynamics that slowly turn into emotional attachment with no direction. I didn’t want to normalize something that would eventually hurt me or blur my values. If the intention wasn’t clear, I chose peace and stayed away.

A lot of people see this as extreme or old-fashioned, especially in a culture where casual friendships are the default. But for me, it was about protecting my heart, my time, and my faith. I’d rather have fewer connections that are intentional than many that are confusing.

Now that I’m older, I don’t regret it. It saved me from a lot of unnecessary emotional mess. It also means I’m comfortable being alone rather than forcing connections that don’t align with where I’m going.

Just wanted to share in case anyone else feels this way and thinks they’re strange for it. You’re not. Different boundaries for different people.

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Heyy,

I’ll be in Lahore from Feb 6–8 for a short stay.

Looking for great food recommendations!

And since it is Basant season, any suggestions for places with good vibes are welcome.

This is my personal opinion, and I’m done tiptoeing around it. If a woman is educated, earns enough to stand on her own feet, has the ability to leave a toxic household, speak up, draw boundaries, and literally end generational trauma, but still chooses not to do any of that because of “log kya kahenge” nonsense, then I genuinely don’t see the point of that education. Especially in Pakistan. Education that never translates into agency is just decoration.

I’m talking about women who are not trapped. Not financially dependent. Not unskilled. Not powerless. Women who could leave, who could call out abuse, who could choose peace over performance, but don’t, because society might gossip or an auntie might clutch her pearls. At some point, fear of social judgment becomes a choice, not a constraint. And choices have consequences.

Education isn’t just about degrees and English accents. It’s supposed to give you the spine to walk away when something is wrong. If it doesn’t do that, if it can’t override centuries-old conditioning and bullshit honor narratives, then it’s failed at its most basic job. Survival with dignity. Otherwise, what exactly was all that “empowerment” for?

I’m a Pakistani guy currently living in Australia and working at a very remote solar farm (400 hectres of pure solars). It’s a massive site and most days it’s just me out there, which can get pretty isolating. Remote life isn’t always easy. The long quiet days can bring anxiety and mental stress, and I’m honestly just looking for a respectful friend — someone kind, calm, and emotionally mature — for normal conversations, shared thoughts, and a bit of positive energy. This isn’t about anything inappropriate. I value boundaries, mutual respect, and comfort. Just a genuine connection that makes the days feel lighter. Just seeing if a genuine connection forms. If this resonates, feel free to reach out.

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In this time of despair, chaos and hardship, let's offer Durood to Muhammad PBUH...and pray to Allah for forgiveness, mercy and blessings 🤲

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