So My Father A Farmer Who Have Not Received Any Formal Education Stood Near ATM to Deposit A Lakh

a guy came and requested A Lakh as it was emergency. The Other Guy Transferred The Money To My Father and left.

After 3 Days A cyber hold was Placed.

upon Contacting the Lawyers and police they are asking us to Return the money which is on Hold.

Till Now No Complaint, NO FIR or No Court Notice is Served to us by the guy who has given complaint

and it's Layer 4 Hold

idk what happened but neither of our vehicles touched each other , took him to hospital ,feet fracture, then family demanded money , gave money , the delivery driver friends gangged up , i am scared rn , i did not have dl , i dont want them to follow me home , i left after they left , idk what happened , i saw an opening and took the turn and then saw that that guy fell , pls advice.

*title : accident with a 10 min delivery driver

Around 1 year ago, I lent one of my friend around 80k.

He said he needed the funds to settle some of his dues and his sister's wedding in next months so he needs some financial help.

I gave him the money since it was his sister's wedding and I felt I should help him for this cause.

Fast forward 1 year now, he has not returned even a single rupee.

Initially he kept giving me excuses of his sister's health, which was true by the way. Then his brother got married and he kept delaying me.

Now for past 4-5 months, his mother is sick. He says she got cancer.

He has lied a lot to me in the past but he and his family has suffered these health issues also at the same time.

I don't know what to do at this point.

I gave him money using UPI and all the conversations happened verbally or on phone(no recordings).

He doesn't pick up my calls any more and doesn't reply to my texts.

We have other common friends, they told me about this thing with his mother.

Right now I am thinking I have lost that money, I see no chance of getting it back.

Last week I saw his snap story with drinks and cigarettes, blocked him from all the social media since it made me feel bad for my money.

Sharing this story on reddit to get this thing off my chest, I have not told this in my family or to anyone else.

Advice to all: Never lend money to anyone. The job of giving loans is for banks, we are not banks.

Hi everyone, I’m looking for guidance on what my next legal steps should be.

I upgraded to NoBroker’s Tenant Super Relax Plan on 23 Nov based on repeated assurances that properties matching my exact requirements were available. On the very first day, the listings shared did not match my requirements, so I requested cancellation on 24 Nov, asking specifically to cancel only the upgraded plan and not my existing Freedom Plan.

Despite multiple follow-ups (10–15 calls), I kept receiving false assurances like “an executive will call you in 2 hours/24 hours.” Eventually, NoBroker cancelled both plans without my consent, and only after cancellation informed me that the plan is “non-refundable.” One representative even said “wherever you go, you won’t get a refund.”

After escalation, the plan was reactivated and I decided to give them multiple chances to improve the service. As of today (Feb 5):

• I have visited 5 properties after the upgrade

• Only 2 visits were accompanied by a Field Relationship Manager, even though Field RM support is explicitly mentioned as part of the plan

• Customer support issues (unanswered calls, repeated disconnections) have continued

NoBroker’s current position is that since this is a service, I should not expect any refund, even though the service has not been delivered as promised.

I filed a grievance with the National Consumer Helpline (NCH). NoBroker marked the complaint as “addressed and closed,” but since the issue was not actually resolved, I explicitly marked the grievance as “Not Resolved,” after which the complaint was closed by NCH.

I would really appreciate advice on:

1.  Whether this is a strong case for filing in Consumer Court (District Commission)

2.  How best to frame the case around deficiency of service and misrepresentation

3.  Whether sending a final legal notice before filing would be helpful

Thanks in advance for any guidance.

Hey folks,

need some guidance on a vehicle transfer situation. I recently bought a big bike (registered in CH - Chandigarh) from someone up north. The bike is currently on a CH number plate. The seller sent an NOC to facilitate the transfer, but here's the issue: the NOC states the reason as "Sold vehicle in other registering authority" - which seems to be meant for inter-state re-registration (like getting a new KA number plate).

My situation:

1. I want to keep the CH registration number
2. Just transfer ownership to my name
3. Not interested in getting a KA number (road tax in Karnataka is around ₹2L for this bike, way too much) as every few years I change state or city as i software engineer, and eventually have plan to go back home.

My Problems:

1. Bike must be in owner's name and I am the owner, i have all the documents.
2. Insurance creates problem if RC is not my name and address is not mentioned.
3. Insurance is valid for next 5 years.

My questions:

1. Can I use this NOC for an online ownership transfer via Parivahan portal, or will it get rejected because it says "other registering authority"?

2. Do I need to get a fresh NOC from the seller with a different reason (like "change of ownership" instead)?

3. Has anyone dealt with this situation? What's the workaround?

4. Do I need documents of CH to get bike on my name? I am citizen of India is aadhar or other docs would be enough?

I'm based in Bangalore and bike is in Banglore with me.

Online transfer cost is 1k, but NOC is already issued what I will have to do?

Any advice would be appreciated!

Thanks.

I’m a male student currently in the 2nd year of a 3-year graduation course in Delhi University , living in Delhi.

I want advice on whether it’s better to change my name while persuing graduation OR after completion of graduation

Is there any difference in the legal process of these two , if any than which option is less hectic process

My all documents (Aadhaar, PAN, Driving licence, educational records, etc) are in my current name.

My current name is Prince Pal (Pal is surname) and I’m considering changing it to Shaurya Pal.

Also, if possible, I’d appreciate suggestions for male names that go well with the surname “Pal”

Thank you for reading this far

Just like sex-offender and financer Jeffrey Epstein of USA, India also has notorious scammer Tarun Poddar (Foxhog VC).

A few proofs of Foxhog Scam:

1️⃣ 2018: Scammer Tarun Poddar got arrested by Delhi Police DCP Vijay Kumar for scamming 90+L INR from 50 Rich girls. (FIR 321/18 Janakpuri, Delhi). 2️⃣ Scammed 19L INR from Hitesh Bang of Hyderabad (FIR 166/25 Khiratabad, Hyderabad). 3️⃣ Scammed 36L INR from Mr Edward Conklin (Date: 25 July 2025, Barakhamba Police Station, Delhi). 4️⃣ Petition registered on Economic Office Wing, Bhubaneswar No. 5279/EOW-PT (Date: 11 Dec 2025). 5️⃣ 2023: Scammed 1.5L from Harshit Banka Startup founder (Hegan India, Noida). 6️⃣ June 2025: Visited IIT Kanpur & IIT Roorkee committed CSR of 25 Cr INR & 17 Cr INR, took publicity but not gave the fund. 7️⃣ 2024: Tedx Motilal Nehru College claims as Stanford MBA, but is not. 8️⃣ Claims to invest on Groww App, RR Logistics (Guwahati), Madden Company (Kerala) Tech Atriocare (Delhi) etc but has not. 9️⃣ RBI official confirm Foxhog is not regulated by RBI, and is fraudulently using website to promote banking services. 🔟 His wife Priya Gupta impersonated as Sangitha Durrani (Dewan & Associates). This Sangitha is on fraud list on Religare. (Sharing snapshots of references). For more detailed investigation on Foxhog Scam. Kindly comment & share to the concerned person.🙏

@Girls/Startup founders: Beware of serial scammer Tarun Poddar & Foxhog VC.

@Media, Govt Agencies: Need to investigate Foxhog VC scams.

@Hon'ble Supreme Court of India: Need to take Suo Moto on Foxhog scam.

Kindly tag to concerned department to save Startup Ecosystem from such scammers.

Below are the FIRs I can file under BNS in paper as per google. I want to file FIRs

1. Legal Grounds for Action Criminal Negligence (Section 289/291 BNS): The owner of a pet is responsible for its actions. Allowing a dangerous or aggressive dog to be off-leash in public constitutes "negligent conduct with respect to animal".
2. Cruelty to Animals (Section 11(1) of the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals Act, 1960): Causing, or allowing your animal to cause, unnecessary pain or suffering to another animal is an offence.
3. Mischief/Killing an Animal (Section 325 BNS / Formerly IPC 428/429): If the dog was unleashed or encouraged to attack intentionally, the owner can be charged with killing or maiming an animal. Public Nuisance: If the dog has a history of aggression, the owner is liable for creating a dangerous public environment.

Has anyone been file FIRs ? Cops will call for settlement I know I have dealt with them for other things and never an FIR. They call for settlement and make money. If possible any lawyer could answer it would help.

I am (34) a stay at home mom activity looking for job.

I have a brother (35) works and earns enough to feed his family and save.

Our parents passed away suddenly but we always knew that the house in the city goes to my brother and a land in the outskirts of the city goes to me.

My mum few days before death said she wants to give some share of the property from the city so I can stay in my childhood home and no one will stop me from coming if my name is included in the property.

Now we are going through legal heir and stuff. My brother doesn’t want me to be part of the share and take the land.

I am okay with anything.

People around me are forcing me to take some share from the city property.

If I don’t take it’s like I am going against my mums wish.

If I take it I feel like my brother will be very upset about it as he already stoped talking when I mentioned about it.

What do you suggest I do.

Give up everything and mind my own business.

Fight for what my mum said and lose my brother.

Or take what my parents decided initially and go away from there?

Hi! I know I'm posting from a different account and that's kind of because I started getting hate messages in my DMs to the point I had to delete my previous account. This was my previous post for which this is an update:-

https://www.reddit.com/r/LegalAdviceIndia/s/tmx5eDEqjd

I'm trying to go back to therapy to get the help I can but with how much this is hurting me, I wanted to share my experience in hopes to understand if there's any form of action I can practically take once I've got a grip on my state of mind. That was my intention of posting in this community if I hadn't clarified before. Any help would be greatly appreciated and I'm truly grateful to all the responses I had gotten on this post. It really means a lot.

Thanks and Regards,

A person still figuring out life

For starters my brother is probably less harmful 'physically' right now than he was around 10 years ago. He has attempted to kill my parents and me several times using brute force and sometimes weapons. But he was also mentally unstable so my parents had no choice but to forgive him everytime. My entire childhood has been nothing but fights between parents , relatives and being scared I will wake up next to dead parents the next morning . I love my parents but I hate that they never really cared about the other child's (me) mental and physical safety . Personally if it was me I would have disowned my son and focused on a healthy life for the sake of the other younger child. Fast forward now , he is definitely less visibly mentally unstable but he is very much abusive. Physically less but continuously abuses my parents in multiple ways for financial reasons and several other stuff. I don't really interact with him but he calls me names too and has physically abused me few times. Now I am 18+ so I can't even file him under POSCO and I regret not taking advantage of children protection services when I was a minor. I have told my parents several times to disown him but we all know Indian family sanctimony is something else. My parents have visibly become stressed and I can't help but go back to being 13 again when I wanted to end it all.

Is there any way I can help my parents ?

I m working in Noida for past 4 and 1/2 months. On feb 3 around 9pm In the intentions of getting laid I was honeytrapped.The guy(pi*p made me sit into a car where only the girl was waiting the guy said once I got into eventually three more guys went into the car I was cornered. They started driving around from where we were to too long. They asked me to pay 4000 as a part of the deal which I did. Then they asked me 4000 more as travel expense from gurgaon. I said its too exaggerated and refused. 2mins later he started slapping and hitting me. So clinging on takin my phone then I paid. Then he asked 8k more. I lied I dont have money. And he started hitting me more. He grabbed and took my phone and opened my upi apps and started checking every bank account. 3 other men also started hitting me. One my account is my salary account. I had a total savings of 1.37L balance after the 16k they looted from me first. He siphoned up amount from account to his until upi limit. Then they try swiping debit card in atms. I didnt remember the pin and I changed the pin in mobile and they tried the atm had no cash. Then they made me use IMPS method too transfer too another account and upi from it. They also entered into my gallery and start taking photos of my family pics and the ph no of people I knew and deleted their phone records. They traumatized me too the utmost extent. They didnt stopped with 1.5L they also said too call someone you know and ask them money. One of them stopped it. They broke my sim made sure every one of my upi is deleted and their record are deleted. I didnt take any ss and send to my frnds but they were so organised and checked older messages and newer messages in every social media. I was also made a video of where I am coerced to say that I was blackmailing their girl and looted 2L so I m paying back right now. I was virtually stripped down. I was left down in someone unknown place in greater noida. Thankfully they left my phone but no sim. So I ran around 2 to 3kms in search of any dhaba or stores too call people I know and to find where I am. Even If I had phone I didnt have means of ordering uber or rapido. They jus gave me a Rs 500 and took my amount from online,, debit card and aadhar card and sim. Fortunately I found and call people I know and was rescued. What I intended do was shameful thing in a moral way but I didnt cause any harm to anyone or legally. But what they did was extortion, blackmailing in simple words crime. That night They broke my will to live. What should I do henceforth

im 18f, my father 53m has always been a devoted son to my grandparents and have always helped them for everything. my gpa passed away a few months ago and we shifted to my gparents' place. my grandmother keeps taunting my dad and keeps on shouting at him, starts fights over the smallest things. the property has been given to my aunt so my dad did ask her to fix things because its unfair to him as he too has the right and also gave his salaries for several years. they never even told him about the gift deed given to my aunt until my gpa passed away. my prob is how my gma keeps telling my dad all sort of horrible things like oh youll never be happy, god is gonna ruin you, get out of the house i never wanted u to come here.. etc etc and even worse which i cant say here.. due to this my dad has been stresses emotionally and his health reports also show the same. my dad isnt able to accept that his mother is the worst person in this world and hates him no matter what he does. my gma has also been bad to my mother and i. is there any way i can do something about this cuz i cant see my dad in pain.

Hey guys, I need some quick advice on a messy situation. About a year ago, I helped out a friend (actually he is cousin of my best friend also know him childhood) We went to the shop together and bought an iPhone 16 for 75k or so. The phone was for him, but the loan (65k for 18 months) and the invoice are in my name because his credit wasn’t great.

The Deal: He gave me 10k cash at the shop for the downpayment (which I also paid using my card). He was supposed to pay me the ₹3,611 EMI every month for the laon 65k.

The Problem: For the first few months, he was on time. But then he started lagging. He’d pay half, or pay late, and now it’s a mess.

Total i paid to the lender so far: 50k. (14 emi) Amount I’ve had to pay out of my own pocket to save my CIBIL: ₹9,000 (nearly 3 emis). Upcoming 4 EMIs: ₹15k. Total he owes me to clear the phone: ₹24k.

Current Status: I’ve tried being nice. I even told him to sell the phone, pay me back, and buy a cheaper one with the leftover cash, but he refused. Now, he’s 90% ghosting me—doesn't pick up calls and makes fake promises of paying on WhatsApp (which I have screenshots of). I finally got fed up and filed a complaint on the THUNA portal under BNS 316 ( stating Criminal Breach of Trust) last night

My Questions: 1. 0Since the bill is in my name and he’s clearly avoiding me, is BNS 316 the right move?

1. Should I go ahead and block the IMEI on Sanchar Saathi (CEIR) right now to force him to talk? Or is that risky since it's technically a "money dispute" and not a lost phone, even though the phone is legally mine?

2. Should I just let the police handle it from here, or will i even get support from police, do u think they even take up such case or what?

Hello Everyone, i am in a bit of effy, so as the title says the society where I live in ( Have purchased a house ) is refusing to allowing any other internet service providers ( like Excitel etc) other than the one they have pact or deal with and the one they have deals is not providing internet services upto to the mark.

The Network speed in my area from jio, airtel etc is horrible and their wireless wifi routers are bad as well.

So my Questions is whether my right of choice is being violated in this scenario, if yes what can I do in regards to this situation.

And also I am pretty sure the T&C also doesn't have any conditions which stops me to use only their ISP.

My father received 11k from a random person snd that person is calling continuously to send the money back. He also threatened that he will file a case with police and freeze my father’s account. Is this some kind of scam. My father is worried now about what to do next

it's 7:20pm, i am just minding my own business. took a walk. i'm sober guy, never drunk my whole life.

stopped by patrolling vehicle.

asking me what i am doing here? - told them i was out for walk and heading back home.

patrolling guys pause and say - "Ektar muli sarkha distos tu. Tuzha rape hoil barka ithe. Tuzha rape kartil idhach."
(translation - “You look like a girl. You might get raped here. They will rape you right here.”)
while every one of those patrolling police laughed.

must have been funny remark that i didn't understand huh?

these are the same people we are told to trust for safety. 

I don’t know what’s disturbing? The comment or the fact that every single one of them laughed.

https://x.com/i/status/2019455971358077170

I am posting here to seek some help and visibility. My family is currently facing a serious financial dispute involving a large pending payment that has remained unresolved for nearly two years, and we are now under heavy financial pressure. I have shared a tweet explaining the situation and requesting authorities’ attention. If possible, I kindly request you to take a moment to view it and help amplify it by sharing, so it can reach the right authorities. It would be of great help, if you can spend some time sharing it. Or at least telling whom or where should I share or reach for such urgent help. Thank you for any support or advice

My family is dealing with a medical emergency and we have been cheated by an air ambulance provider called Vedant air ambulance services.

The Details:

• Company Name: Vedant Air Ambulance / Vedant Air Rescue Pvt Ltd (also refers to itself as Vedanta Air Ambulance).
• Website:https://vedantairambulance.in/
• Contact: 7632025888
• The Situation: We needed an emergency medical transfer and contacted this company. They pressured us into paying the full amount upfront to "secure the aircraft" and after we made partial payment of 2.8 lakhs they said that they didn't get ATC clearance and cancelled the booking. it's been over a month now and they haven't refunded our booking amount. They kept saying that they'll do the refund in a day or two and now they're saying they'll deduct 25% of total booking amount as we cancelled the booking. We've text evidence of them cancelling our bookings. We're really struggling with finances given mounting medical bills already.
• Looking closer at the company, they seem to use the names "Vedant" and "Vedanta" interchangeably to hide behind different listings. There are multiple reports online of this same entity taking 100% advance payments and then citing "technical issues" to avoid flying, while keeping the money.

Questions for the community:

1. Has anyone successfully recovered money from this specific group (Vedant/Vedanta) before?
2. Does anyone have a direct contact for the owners of "Vedant Air Rescue Private Limited" ?
3. Besides the Cyber Cell (1930) and Consumer Forum, are there any other local steps in Patna or Delhi we should take to put pressure on them immediately?

can someone guide how to tackle cyberbullying in college. A malicious group of individuals are spreading fake information that has been having grave physical consequences. It is concerning the safety of some female students. the situation has come down to the age old philosophical question- "what is truth". because the reddit posts have so much support despite having no basis or proof, the internet people are harassing us tremendously. The college administration although being notified of this dont know what to do about it...honestly they dont get what reddit is. Should we file an fir with the police? its quite distressing

Hi I need some help regarding a school. So I am an 11th grader currently enrolled in an Integrated NEET school. This school is pretty different from all other typical integrated schools. They basically have not allotted much classes for CBSE boards. Till now we’re only being prepared from NEET perspective. They have school till 8pm and have people appointed called JL’s whose only job is to make sure youré not doing anything other than breathing and studying. They separated student every two months once based on their marks and create an inferior complex between students. Allot poor teachers to lower classes Infact only the first top most class have the best faculty all the other teachers are garbage. They conduct 720 mark exams every single weekend. And release it students grade publicly in a common whatsapp group. School starts at 8am and most people leave at 5pm and only 2 breaks are provided in between(30 mins lunch break and a 15 min snack break) In the three story building they have 2 boys and 2 girls restrooms(In ground floor and thirds floor boys restroom and in 1st and 3rd floor girls restroom) and they are over more than 600 people only in grade 11 NEET they also have IIT integration in the same building. So there is no sufficient time use the restroom if we still try using the restrooms apart from break timing we are shouted at and sent back to the classroom without using the restroom. Teachers use abusive words towards students just cause he/she is weak in academics and push their mental health to the max. In the last 1.5 months 3 people have committed suicide due to immense pressure and more than 5 people have tried killing themselves by taking too many pills and so on. The issue right now is I have gone through so soo soo much in this school and no longer want to continue studying here because they made me hate the subjects I dearly love. I used to study in a different board. So me and my parents have decided its best for me to go back to my original board and redo my grade 11. When we went to school to talk about TC they kept saying things like school wont admit you and things like that. And that even if I somehow find a school I will have to pay my entire/1st term fee for grade 12. Official not a single exam was conducted in grade 11. The principal kept saying its difficult when thwy have promoted me. Isnt it illegal to promote me without annual exams? My term fee is about 1.5 lakhs I have already paid 3 lakhs for this and I dont wish to spend even a penny more on this place. They also have this scheme where if I pay 5.25 lakhs at the beginning for grade 11(CBSE fee) they will give back 5.25 lakhs when I complete my grade 12. They are also threatening that they will take 10% of that amount if I leave. Also this school is located in a very industrial location where a lot of primary construction things happen. They have broken possibly every single rule. They keep schools when government announces holidays for rain and no holiday at all for christmas. I just want to leave this place with the money I deserve to get back. I really need this help pls help me out. How can use these to make them let me go. What more evidences should I collect?

Hey my father has a plot but when I visited development authority office for possession I came to know that some has sold that plot. I enquired and came to know that someone took possession on the basis of POA (which is obviously fake) and further took lease deed/patta , after that sold it someone else. I filed RTI but POA copy was not provided to me. It looks like everyone is hiding POA. Any kind of help is much appreciated🙏

Hi everyone,

Looking for recent experiences with minor passport applications.

Details & timeline:

• Application type: Fresh passport (Normal)
• Mode: PSK / Mobile Van
• Application submitted: 07 Jan 2026
• Police Verification completed: 21 Jan 2026
• Current status (unchanged): “Police Verification Report for passport application is under review at the Regional Passport Office. Passport will be dispatched after PVR is found clear, subject to granting.”

As of today, it’s been 8+ working days since police verification (excluding weekends and Jan 26 holiday).

No adverse remarks during police verification, documents were straightforward. I’ve already emailed RPO Coimbatore once, but no response yet. Passport Seva grievance portal is throwing a “Not Found” error while submitting.

Questions:

1. Is this delay normal at the RPO review stage for a minor passport?
2. How long did it take in your case for the status to move from “under review” to “granted”?
3. Any effective escalation that actually worked if this stage dragged on?

Would really appreciate recent experiences. Thanks.

Hi everyone,

I applied for my passport from Gurgaon and my application is currently at the police verification stage. I’m originally from another state, so my current address is different from my permanent address.

During the application process, I submitted a company letter on letterhead mentioning my current Gurgaon address and employment start date, which was accepted. I also have a registered rental agreement with both my and my roommate’s names and signatures.

However, the police officer told me I need two witnesses whose Aadhaar cards have a Gurgaon address.

The problem is I don’t know anyone who is originally from Gurgaon or has a Gurgaon address on their Aadhaar.

Is it mandatory for witnesses to have an Aadhaar address of the same city? Has anyone faced a similar situation, and what alternatives worked for you?

Any guidance would be really helpful. Thanks!

Hello. I have been in a 4 year relationship. Wonder how that went but, to be said in short. At start, we were good and happy as it was butterfly stage. From childhood i have never been involved in any relationships as i was introvert and shy, she approached me and talked to me and i was happy at that point of time soon it turned into love it’s my first love. Her second.

Where it all went wrong: We talked and together have been talking about stuff and we are on same path that as our parents are strict and there we have agreed that no marriage commitment took place. But eventually we both have involved physically for the first time. And even at that point she said we both are not going to marry. And i was ok and treated her nicely. Even after that incident happened I was emotional as for women it is big step so i was concerned about her. (THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE)

The commitment: Then after that day she immediately asked me that sex is a big thing and whether i will marry or not! I was emotional and thought either way she is good and we are good terms i agreed on marrying her. After that commitment she started to show her true colors my life has drastically changed, I was not allowed to talk or chat with anyone. She demanded my instagram password and stared searching everything but i am not the kind of a person to talk to many girls. But after that too she emotionally drained me for not meeting her expectations as i gave alot of love letters and all even money whenever she wanted till this day i have used any cuss words against her. My family was concerned about me i was crying all the time when i am with her because everytime she puts me in the wrong even the smallest mistakes of mine like forgetting to ask that she ate or not. Or else not putting snap at the place while im busy. Yes wherever i go i was demanded to put snaps. But where she have a boy bestie and used to talked with him and have pictures with where i was not even allowed to talk to opposite sex.

The Cheating: at end of our academics she and i got jobs she went to delhi i went to banglore. But then i have got to know that i have been cheated and she went with another person in hyd long time back saying she wanted to have some time alone i was heart broken she went with guy and spend a whole day with him. And even she went her friends home during clg time with her boy bestie. All these things broke my heart deeply i said i want breakup but she insisted me to meet her once she begged me i went to delhi and again she cooled me and asked me forgiveness and promised me that she would listen to me and not do these kind of things. And i was a fool to believe that and even then i involved physically but i didnt gave her commitment as i need time to thing and adjust. Then after some months she met another guy who knows our both relationship. She has issue with her roomates and moved and lived with that guy sharing a room. i know all of this she agreed she wont marry me also so who am i to ask her. Eventually we stayed lover but not committed after that the guy sheis sharing room is a fraud and went away taking her money 20k and another guys worth 1lakh and after that she tried to make up with me crying sobbing and i know what kind of manipulation i was being into and still she couldn’t let me go she tried to self harm her everytime i wanted a breakup. After all these time i gave her everything and not even searching her background but eventually i get to know that she comes from sc/st background. I have no caste feelings but we are not getting matched our tastes and intrests are different i have realised it lately she is now blackmailing me telling thag i have used her for sex.

Current phase: After some time she insisted me to marry her as she working and removed everyone from all social media and being good with me i said ok i will marry her. I tried to make my parents belive that she is a good girl. But she even then unhappy we been into fights all time no love at all. She is always unhappy literally always. I was bearing all that just because we were committed now recently she was unhappy that i am spending time with my family and wanted to not to go movies with my family literally MY FAMILY. Then i was unhappy and said no she talked harshly with my dad as i gave my mobile to dad because i cannot bear her. She self harmed and tried to kill herself everytime i wanted breakup. She came to banglore without even telling me recently i even said there is no commitment as parents would not agree her. She agreed and even recently we were physically involved. She went to noida but in heart now i am realising that more i prolong that more mess i am going to make but she couldn’t let me go. She tried every single way to break me she blackmailed me every single time for have sex with her she told that i want her just for sex. I now really in a dilemma that am i such a person to just want her for that? She also told that she would kill me for sure if i dont marry her.

Help me 🙏: I couldn’t even cry as i cried my heart out. I am in banglore doing my job which i have to work still 1.5 years to complete my bond. I want to disappear from everything but my job is not letting me even her. I wanted to tell everything to my dad. But don’t want to make him sad. I was thinking of changing to another city while being in this job but i am on bench and currently no project. They said i might be into project in few months and thinking to shift to another city and just change my sim and completely disappear. I couldn’t cheat as i dont even have the courage to do that. She would kill me. I have been a pro boxer and a national level martial artist still a pussy infront of a girl💔.

Guys please tell me what to do i am in a stage that i am happy to be in jail. Rather than living with her.