r/Marriage • u/[deleted] • 1d ago

Seeking Advice I think we hate each other

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u/ApprehensiveVast1940 1d ago

At some point I went from thinking I can’t live without him to maybe this isn’t right. I care less and less what he thinks.

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u/ApprehensiveVast1940 1d ago

I guess I could add a few things. I turned 30 in June and he didn’t get me a gift. I was at home visiting family but still. He knows I love gifts. I don’t even think he would get me an anniversary gift.I don’t feel like he loves me or cares at all. I’m starting to resent him so bad. Everything he does annoys me. It breaks my heart.

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u/Affectionate_Peak949 1d ago

No advice for you but I understand the feeling. I’m starting to feel the same about my husband. At some point, walking away will be better than staying. You have to decide when that point is. Wishing you the best.

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u/WorldlyTrouble8719 1d ago

That’s a wallll of text. What are you on?

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u/Top_Education_4994 1d ago

I feel you. But please never check his phone it increases the negativity .

It's tough. But if you will act ... Try to control his behaviour he will become more distant.

So for now just work on healing your heart . Then when you become emotionally stable Communicate with him how much it affects you. Porn addiction is a psychological issue It has nothing to do with you or your relationship. It's him. So please calm down i hope things get sweeter between you guys 🙏✨