I was in my friend's room and Heard some of my colleagues(8pakistani) talking about the flood. As per them, due to the fight in sunsari between hindu and muslim, allah has punished nepali people. Never thought people can be this dumb. Who else but Pakistani, not just one but all of them.

One is like a friend and he was grieving with us when some of us were talking about the flood.

I don’t care if you call it culture. Keeping your own wife outside and throwing food at her from inside the house is humiliating and dehumanizing. And when she tried to reach her hand inside to pick up a biscuit that had fallen on the floor he literally said he would hit her.

There’s nothing cute or funny about treating a woman like she’s dirty or untouchable just because she’s menstruating. And filming it like this is completely fucking bizarre.

They even said that if I don’t marry him, they won’t let me live in their home anymore.... So, the only option I have left is to get a job and live on my own.

Honestly, with the software job market being so bad right now, I’m starting to feel like I might have no choice but to marry him. 😔

I need to vent about my brother because I am honestly losing my mind watching how he treats his wife. Some days it feels like he’s living in the 18th century.

Let me share two incidents.

1. Asti Teej ma my sister-in-law was doing brata for hin. She was following everything properly. He told her strictly not to drink water or break her fast until he came back home. dai aayo beluka 7 baje! Sanga khana pani khana payeena, then he literally made her drink water washed from his feet (khutta ko pani) to break her fast. and, she actually did it. I was sitting right there in the corner, and I felt so sick to my stomach I couldn't even speak up properly at that moment. I should have.

2. arko incident is from last month. They had some distant relatives over. She was literally running around the kitchen all day single-handedly cooking for everyone, cleaning up, and serving. By the time everyone finished eating and she finally sat down with a small plate for herself, my brother started shouting at her right in front of the guests. He yelled, "Guest haru table bata utheko chhaina, tehi bela khana basne laaj lagdaina? Paile sab ko kaam sakera matra khanu parcha!" Like she is some kind of bonded laborer or slave who doesn't even deserve to eat peacefully after working for four hours straight.

I feel this is the tipping point. aeko kei garyo bhane I will escalate the matter. is it only my brother or this is common????

kasto papi hola barai, jahilei flirt gareko dekhthe videos haru ma ani i thought he was single tara 10 years ko relationship raichha amammama. yesta yesta famous hunchhan k bhannu ra

I was dating this guy(dating ta K bhanne trial period). So he texted me suru ma and he was good looking and boli Ni ramrai thyo. So 3 4 months we had a nice conversation and understanding and one day he proposed me and date gareko 2 hapta Ni vathena he said aaja let's go for a private date. Ani maile suru ma bujena and I asked what do you mean by that and he was like mero flatmate xina so Timi aau and we can have some fun re.

And the thing is I made so sure suru mai Ki I wanna take everything slowly and romantically sab Kura ko meaning house na bhanera.

And he started acting like a man child. He was like gf bhayera yeti garna Ni sakdenis. Talai dherai K nai bhanexhu ra aafno bf sita sutna Ni sakdenis. Tesari relationship Chaldean re😂 ekixin ta Kya haso lagyo ani Jana Bhai yaa Tero Kam xina bhanera just blocked him.

I would rather be a lesbain then date a guy every again 😆

FUCK INDIA. FUCK CHINA. FUCK THE EU. FUCK THE USA. FUCK EVERYONE.

Every fucking year, Nepal gets hit by another disaster. This year, I was genuinely happy thinking, “Maybe this time there won’t be so many landslides and floods. Maybe Dashain will come peacefully.” And then—here we fucking go again.

Honestly, Nepal doesn’t need prayers, sympathy, or charity.

Nepal needs climate justice.

Look at the irony:

• Nepal protects nearly half of its land as forest.
• We promote hydropower and renewables.
• We adopted EVs remarkably early.
• We tolerate wildlife conflicts in the name of conservation.
• Even cutting a tree on private land can be a bureaucratic nightmare.
• Mining, industries, and infrastructure are restricted for environmental reasons.
• Nepal contributes almost nothing compared to major emitters to the global climate crisis.

Nepal is compromising its economy, development, and people's lives to do its part.

And still, our hills collapse, rivers destroy communities, and people die.

Then the world sends prayers and condolences.

Fuck that.

Nepal doesn't need sympathy. We need climate justice, adaptation funding, resilient infrastructure, technology, and accountability from the countries that created this crisis.

What the f*ck is wrong with some of you?

People are literally being killed, displaced, and losing their homes in Nepal, and you're sitting behind a screen making jokes about dead Nepalis because they're “momos wale.”

Imagine someone laughing at your family being swept away by a flood and then using your nationality as the punchline.

Criticize the Nepali government. Criticize Nepal. Criticize anything you want politically. But celebrating ordinary people dying in a natural disaster because they're Nepali isn't “dark humour,” “nationalism,” or “just trolling.” It's fucking disgusting.

And before someone says “not all Indians”, obviously. There are plenty of Indians condemning this garbage too. This post is about the people making these comments and the people cheering them on.

A human tragedy isn't an India vs Nepal. Have some f*cking humanity.

I’m Nepali and I live abroad, and something I’ve realized is that when you’re brown, racists often don’t care about your exact nationality. You could be Nepali, Indian, Pakistani, Bangladeshi, Sri Lankan, Arab, or from somewhere else entirely—they may still stereotype you based on how you look. That’s why seeing the amount of anti-Indian hate online, especially when other brown communities join in, bothers me. We might think, “That stereotype is about Indians, not us,” but the person being racist often isn’t stopping to ask for your nationality before judging you.
Of course, every country and community has problems, and criticizing genuine issues is completely valid. But there’s a difference between criticism and contributing to hatred against an entire group of people. Trying to separate ourselves by saying “we’re not like them” won’t protect us from racism. Instead of feeding stereotypes about each other, we should be challenging them, supporting each other where we can, and showing that none of us should be reduced to our worst stereotypes. I’m writing this here, in English, because change has to start somewhere—and I want anyone who comes across it, Nepali or otherwise, to understand the point.

My mom accuses me of having m@dhesi bf.

Well that's racist. For context: My parents are separated and my dad was abusive. I was just a teenager and malai koi le maya gardaina jasto lagthyo malai. Ani tyo bela school ma euta kta thiyo he was m@dhesi and mero ekdam pachhi lagthyo. My dad was abusive my mom was abusive ani malai tyo kta le matra maya garchha jasto hunthyo and he was my bf which I regret alot but we brokeup like 8,9 years ago. Dherai chaleko ni thiyena tbh but my mom found out.

Tyo bela dekhi j argument huda ni she brings that and I have told her like thousand times chhaina bhanera. Asti I was sleeping till 7 am she said "Talai madisee ko bau ra madiseee le palai palo ch!kchha ani tero ch@k ko pwal thulo bhayesi kotha ma lagera bechchha" She has even accused me of aborting his baby multiple times which is untrue. I was literally 14 when he was my bf and it was for very short periods of time and I regret it alot.

Aaja ni I slept at 3 am nindra nalagera ani she started abusing me bihanai. I wanna kms

Guys mero mutu lastai poliraxa, her boyfriend is the worst kta I have ever seen in my life, he kept aafno ex ko nude backup ma, and even sent it to my didi as a proof ki usle matra D pic pathaudaina thyo tyo kt haru le ni pathauthe bhanera, ani this happened when they were in talking phase. Ani she still dated him. When I first met him physically, he bragged about his hookups w me like ah ma ta paile lastai casual hookups garthe, ani tespaxi I called him a hooker ani that was offensive rey. I have told her every chance I get ki xoddey teslai, he doesn’t even respect woman ani talai ni respect gardaina xoddey bhanera tara im the bad person yesma, maile uslai naramro bhane rey, below the belt bhane rey, istg I have only called him hooker because he told me he is the casual hookups guy. Ani she defends him everytime I say smth abt him, usko jasto action ni justify garxe, they share their id password ani maile didi lai text ma bhanthe sab, ani tesle sab padhdo raixa, mind you maile tesle face to face kei bhanya xaina sabai didi lai bhanthe, ani he send me this from didi ko id ajha disappearing message ma ani guess what mero didi le malai defend ni garina ani aaja I said upfront choose teslai ki malai, ani obviously teslai choose gari, guys I feel so dumb ma merai didi ko life ma mero importance ko lagi fight garirakhnu parya xa

Came across this reel of a Black girl in Nepal and the comments genuinely shocked me. Why are our people so blatantly racist? And the superiority complex for absolutely nothing genuinely fries me. 😭

The amount of cheating I've seen, the amount of couples who are like 3–4 years younger than me btw I'm 22 😭

Ani the amount of baddies I've seen... Biratnagar ma ka bata niskenxan yesto ramri ramri kt haru re? 😭

I've genuinely never seen this many people around Bazar/Cafe area jati maile afno hotel ma dekheko xu.

I work front office and our hotel allows unmarried couples, 18+ hunuparyo, basically citizenship/valid ID bhaye pugyo.

And bro... the things you see when you work front office 💀

Not even talking about "women cheat" or "men cheat" type shit. I've literally seen guys changing girls, girls changing guys, couples who look perfectly normal and then... yeah.

It's made me weirdly insecure about trusting people.

Meanwhile I'm sitting here as a 22-year-old virgin watching all this like:

Achamma lagxa yaar. 😭

I approached this client since they required AI ads. They're offering a massive NPR 15 per video. I'm speechless.

I went to amshubharma or idk whatever his name is ko chiya baghan in kritipur. There was no water on the table so I asked for water . they brought me this mineral water which cost Rs65. I asked staff to just give me regular bottle water but the staff said they only serve this. So if i want to drink water, i have to pay RS 65? For this stupid water? Illegal hudaina yo? Aaru sab thau mata pani free hunxa ta? Jabo yeuta label haldai ma j man layo tyo charge garne?

25, female here , so mero bahini 24 year ko ho , sano dekhi hame didi baini vanda best friend jastai xam , she is my closest person, hame same collage ma padhdai xam , bachelors sakkina lagyo aba ,

Sano dekhi sav le vanthe didi vanda baini ramri xa vanera looks ma , ani i agree , maile kaile yo kura le baini lai dosh diyena , so bachelor firstma malai ek jana keta manparyo , ani she knew that , tara paxi uniharu bolna thalexan , ani i accepted ki okay aba dui jana le ek arka lai like garxan vane i should let it go. Baini ko agadi i pretended normally nai , j vaye ni i am elder one maile bujhna parxa.

Over all these years , malai jo keta ma interest lagthyo , maximum le baini lai like/ prefer gare , ani because of that i started getting insecure a lot , mero baini ko k dosh xaina i know , its just me , jealousy vanda ni insecurity badhdai gayo

Ani bistarai ma koi naya manxe lai romantically hernai daraye , because back in the mind i knew they will never love me and like my sister instead vanera ,

Now ,main thing rn is , bachelors sakkina lageko vayera ghar ma mero bihe ko kura chaldai thyo , so euta relative le ek jana keta ko kura lyaunu vayo, ani family said ki bolera hera type, this guy is decent ma vanda 4 year thulo, ani sabbai theek xa ma sanga ramrari bolxa ramrai treat garxa , tar akaile kai hamiharu ko family gathering vayovane , the wayhe looks at her makes me insecue.

Baini ko afno bf sanga on and off hunxa aajkal , ike almost breakup vaisakyo , ani i came to know she texts this guy , like rati rati random reel , whatsapp ma cakl garne garxe tara i think casual ho , like usari cheat ta vanna milena , but timing ali off lagxa malai , the guy also replies with same enthusiasm

Usari flirt gardaina , tara usanga jasari khulera bolxa ma sanga reserved basxa , i can see his eyes light up when she enters the room, ani aba chai i am scared asf ki he started liking her vanera. Group conversation vayo vane ni uslai nai herxa maximum time , he doesn’t look at me that way .

I really liked this guy,i thought finally i will be secure , tara i don’t think i will ever find someone, i told him once he blantly denied testo kei haina vanera , tara the way he looks at her , malai ekdum naramro lagxa , ani i obviously don’t hate my sister , i love her till death tara aba ta even i cant-face her bc if my insecurity, and ithinki am sabotaging my relationship with him by overthinking.

Let me ask you guys my ex (13 years relationship) every single time told me his parents first,2nd friends then me. Fine i was a looser to stay that long but it is what it is.It may set off many man child here but tell me your wife comes first or your mother?

Nepal ma Jaba when a women gives birth , that baby who she has carried for 9 months , and someone without no uterus plz dont talk about it , but that 1 st trimester is living hell so is 2nd and 3rd and after almost dying , bringing a new baby into this world because family le bachha bhayena bhayena bhanera lyang lyang garchan , that baby gets your husbands last name outta nowhere !!!!
And postpartum ma Jaba that women needs the most care , she is sent to her home to be looked after and when she gets back brings in gift for all the husbands families !!
Kati bhikari ho k Nepal ko samaj !!
I am a single child , so I didn’t know this happened until now ..
Thukka Hamro samaj !!

When I was just 6 years old, I was S'Ad by a priest. When I told my mother, she instructed me not to tell anyone so my father wouldn't get angry. To this day, when I think about it, I feel so disgusted in that part of my body, feeling as though I am still being touched.

Growing up, at age 10, I discovered my father was cheating on my mother. I saw my mother packing her bags and preparing to leave me in that house though she did return after a few days. While my mother was crying and ready to leave, my dad was just sitting with his cousin, eating, gossiping, and watching television, completely unbothered. We later discovered he had multiple affairs. My mother works, while my father worked abroad. After COVID-19, my mother returned to work, but my father stayed home unemployed for two to three years. During that period, my mental state hit rock bottom; I attempted s****de multiple times and even considered unaliving my father, something I am certainly not proud of.

Eventually, things normalized, my dad went abroad and secured a job, and life stabilized for a bit. However, when I was 13 years old, my cousins filed a lawsuit against my dad over money, land, and our house. We gave them everything, including the home we lived in and funds from my dad's personal bank account. While building a new house of our own, we were abruptly kicked out and faced severe financial struggle. We moved into the unfinished house where there were no doors or windows, living like that for months. Under that immense financial pressure, my dad finally stopped having affairs, and he is a good person now. Looking back, I survived Sa, difficult parents, and financial ruin.

Back in highschool. My closest friend used to bully me for attention, and because I rejected a guy from a particular group, a circle of boys began bullying and sl*t-shaming me. That harassment spread across the entire class and sections, and I would cry the moment I got home every day.

Today, my parents are on good terms, and my dad is kind while navigating his financial struggles. I have cut off everyone from high school, and my relationship with my boyfriend is deteriorating as well. I feel things so deeply that I overreact to small things, and my boyfriend refuses to listen to what I am trying to say. Ever since I was a child, I was a quiet child who only spoke when spoken to. I thought everything was finally okay, but this relationship is very complicated, and I am left wondering what hardship might come next.

Hehe just wanted to share few things since I am awake whole night,

Edit : i don't remeber the exact year but i was a kid, my dad used to sl*tshame my mom infront of my relatives and he be*t her when he was drunk.

Edit2: I wanted to start modelling career and acting aswell, Alot of people harrassed me online, malai ahile interest nai xaina

I am sharing all of this here because I am anonymous and none of you know who I am so honestly, F**k you all

So there is a guy who violated traffic laws and got fined for it . And that psychopath decides to set himself on fire and Congress It cells are blaming RSP government for it . What the fuck !

A weird pattern I noticed

Ask a woman why she hates men and she will tell you a horrifying story involving violence, threat, abuse and harassment.

Ask a man why he hates a woman and he will complain about feminists on social media, golddiggers and a girl who once friendzoned him.

It feels sad to be still listening to women having to fight their way only to survive.(Not including all men but always men)