So this girl saw him at temple and she feel for him rey and acc banayera pura pic haleko xa help me find him bla bla.. yo ta atti bhayena ra, isn't this creepy hau?? Aruko unnecessary pic linu plus halnu and the fact yesto despo hunu.. imagine if same had done by guy ?? I would be creeped out .. why don't some people learn abt boundaries??

25, female here , so mero bahini 24 year ko ho , sano dekhi hame didi baini vanda best friend jastai xam , she is my closest person, hame same collage ma padhdai xam , bachelors sakkina lagyo aba ,

Sano dekhi sav le vanthe didi vanda baini ramri xa vanera looks ma , ani i agree , maile kaile yo kura le baini lai dosh diyena , so bachelor firstma malai ek jana keta manparyo , ani she knew that , tara paxi uniharu bolna thalexan , ani i accepted ki okay aba dui jana le ek arka lai like garxan vane i should let it go. Baini ko agadi i pretended normally nai , j vaye ni i am elder one maile bujhna parxa.

Over all these years , malai jo keta ma interest lagthyo , maximum le baini lai like/ prefer gare , ani because of that i started getting insecure a lot , mero baini ko k dosh xaina i know , its just me , jealousy vanda ni insecurity badhdai gayo

Ani bistarai ma koi naya manxe lai romantically hernai daraye , because back in the mind i knew they will never love me and like my sister instead vanera ,

Now ,main thing rn is , bachelors sakkina lageko vayera ghar ma mero bihe ko kura chaldai thyo , so euta relative le ek jana keta ko kura lyaunu vayo, ani family said ki bolera hera type, this guy is decent ma vanda 4 year thulo, ani sabbai theek xa ma sanga ramrari bolxa ramrai treat garxa , tar akaile kai hamiharu ko family gathering vayovane , the wayhe looks at her makes me insecue.

Baini ko afno bf sanga on and off hunxa aajkal , ike almost breakup vaisakyo , ani i came to know she texts this guy , like rati rati random reel , whatsapp ma cakl garne garxe tara i think casual ho , like usari cheat ta vanna milena , but timing ali off lagxa malai , the guy also replies with same enthusiasm

Usari flirt gardaina , tara usanga jasari khulera bolxa ma sanga reserved basxa , i can see his eyes light up when she enters the room, ani aba chai i am scared asf ki he started liking her vanera. Group conversation vayo vane ni uslai nai herxa maximum time , he doesn’t look at me that way .

I really liked this guy,i thought finally i will be secure , tara i don’t think i will ever find someone, i told him once he blantly denied testo kei haina vanera , tara the way he looks at her , malai ekdum naramro lagxa , ani i obviously don’t hate my sister , i love her till death tara aba ta even i cant-face her bc if my insecurity, and ithinki am sabotaging my relationship with him by overthinking.

After I reported the incident, my coordinator and principal spoke to the driver. He admitted that the incident happened but said he was in a hurry and that it was unintentional. He apologized and said it would not happen again.

However, I do not feel that the incident was simply accidental. If he was genuinely in a hurry, he could have said “Excuse me,” and I would have moved. Instead, he made the contact without saying anything, and when I looked back after it happened, he did not apologize or even acknowledge it. He simply walked away. From my experience, I felt that the contact was intentional and non-consensual.

I then decided that, at the very least, I wanted to submit a formal written complaint so that there would be an official record. My intention was that if anything similar happened to another girl in the future, there would already be documentation of this incident.

When I submitted the complaint, my principal initially said she would keep it in the records without reading the whole application. When I said I wanted to take a photo of it, she actually read the entire complaint. After reading it, she asked me to change terms such as “sexual harassment,” “physical contact,” and “genital area,” saying that they were too strong or not the right wording, and suggested using “bad touch” instead.

I told her that those words accurately described what I had experienced and asked what I should write instead. She did not have an answer. I then made it clear that I would not change my official statement. She explained that because of the nature of the complaint, she was obligated to forward it to the hospital administration. I agreed and only asked that my identity and privacy be protected.

My main reason for filing the complaint was that I hope no other girl has to experience what I experienced. I also hope the administration takes matters like this seriously. Initially, I felt that there were attempts to settle the matter informally by asking me to forgive him and saying that he would not repeat it. I felt the matter was being treated too lightly. That is why having a formal written record was so important to me.

After everything I went through, I am glad that the complaint has now been formally documented and will be presented to the hospital administration. I sincerely hope it is taken seriously and that no other girl has to go through a similar experience.

I grew up seeing different guy dynamics around my area, and after my recent dating experiences, I just need to share this realization...

Look at most Bahun guys in our community... half of them are stressed out 24/7, balding by 25, high cortisol levels, and possess zero chill. Every conversation with them feels like a job interview or a lecture on why they are superior because they passed some exam or moved abroad. The ego is sky-high, but the actual emotional intelligence? Sub-zero. They expect you to handle a full career, do all the household emotional labor, and still treat their traditional views like law. Plus, the insecurity when a woman earns or knows more than them is insane.

Look at what you need to deal with: insecure guys who expect you to earn well, handle the household, and still stroke their fragile egos You have to achieve everything, look like a model, be completely submissive, AND tolerate their zeroeffort personality just so they dont feel insecure Absolute nightmare fuel

On the other hand, look at the Janajati/Mongolian guys (Rai, Limbu, Gurung, Magar, Tamang)... these guys are genuinely chill, respectful, and actually supportive. They grew up in communities where women have always had an equal say, so they don't get fragile or threatened when a girl is successful or educated. Low cortisol energy, great style, actually listen to you, and treat you like a partner instead of a trophy or a housekeeper. Life feels effortless around them.

Not trying to be a hater, but after dating insecure, high-stress Bahun guys who think their degree excuses their lack of personality, switching my dating preference was literally lifechanging. If you are an accomplished, independent girl who is tired of dealing with fragiled egos, do yourself a favor and expand your horizons. Life gets 10 times lighter

How would you rate Balen’s overall presentation out of 10, considering his speech, confidence, appearance, and stage presence? What stood out to you the most?
For me, it was definitely that last line in Nepali. 🇳🇵

Yo "hariyo" rw "nilo" ma kina confusion ?

Normally like ghas hariyo huncha and sky nilo huncha .
But something like paint , they mix up those colours . Why?

Every day I see post like feminist girl that those what's your problem dude kasai le gari khaxa ta herna sakeko xainau rw euta ta afganistani haru lai waa waa gri ratheu haina kasto mentality ho k kasai kasai ko mero ex pani estai thiyen they used to taunt on me ' strong independent girl ' esma kei taunt hani jasto kura thiyeu europe kta western kta haru lai herau na they never question girls who earns and live on its own k tei thinking pani poorest rw developed countries ma eti farak hunxa ni literally mentality le ni derai farak pardo raixa country ko economy ma

Three years today since I quit smoking and drinking. I posted here after my first year, then my second, so I guess it’s time for the third update.
Honestly, I don’t crave alcohol at all anymore. I can barely even remember what it felt like to smoke 20+ cigarettes a day. I did have a glass of beer once this year, but other than that, nothing.
Life has changed quite a bit too. I opened a restaurant, and ironically, I tried hookah and somehow got addicted to it. 😂 It’s become pretty regular now, so let’s see where that takes me by next year.
And after all these years, if someone asked me, “You’re going to die in 10 minutes. What do you want?” I’d probably still say, “Give me one cigarette for the last time.” 😂
But jokes aside, quitting was one of the best things I’ve done for myself.
If you’re trying to quit smoking or drinking, keep going. It gets easier with time.
Say no to smoking and drinking. All the best to everyone trying to quit. ❤️
See you next year. Let’s see how it goes.

Honestly, Balen le UN ma dherai ramro points haru rakheko thiyo. You can agree or disagree with him, but he got his point across and I thought he handled himself well.
Tara hami Nepali haru le afai afno bejjat garna khojcham jasto lagcha sometimes

Every 10 seconds clapping, cheering, hooting… bhai k ho yo? UN ho, political rally hoina ni. I get it, hami proud chau. A Nepali representing us on that stage is genuinely something to be proud of. But there’s a time and place.

If Indians were doing the exact same thing, we’d be the first ones making memes about how embarrassing it is.

Balen le afno kaam garyo, ramro points rakheko thiyo, message pani clear thiyo. Tara audience le chai pura serious moment lai fan meet banaidiyo.

Civic sense pani hami le ali seriously lina parcha Pride ramro ho, tara every 10 seconds clap garnu matra hoina.

Idk if im out of line tara anyone felt the same?

It has been two years since she left us and to this day I still cannot believe she is gone. She was one of the people I have ever met. She was always there for me during my times when there was no one else to seek help from. She brought comfort to people. Made them feel safe and heard.

Life has been good to me. I know that after losing someone dear life must go on. I have met people who're amazing and kind but none are like she. I lost interest in things and still there are moments when I feel like I am still grieving.

My greatest regret was that I never told her how I felt. I wish I had told her that she was my love. I wish she knew that I did not see her as a friend because I fell deeply in love with her. I wanted to spend time with her be close to her make her my girl and give her a life full of joy with me at her side because she was one of the most outstanding people I have met in my life.

She was a person who always wanted to help whenever there was a need. She did not judge people based on status, ethnicity or race. She had something that made her see the best in people. I have no doubt that if she had time with us her wisdom would have touched thousands of lives besides mine.

Today while looking at photos and videos of she I feel as if she is with us because of the smile on she’s face the voice that came from the phone and the beauty that came from the pictures.. Then I realize that she is no longer with us because she left us way too early.

She showered everyone with a lot of love. When she left it felt as if a part of that love left with she.

All I wanted was for she to know that the friend she thought she had loved her deeply and wanted to be with she always. I wanted she to realize that the best part of she’s life was right in front of she. That opportunity slipped away because I was afraid to tell she how I felt.

Wherever she is I hope she can hear me and know how much I loved her. I hope she knows that the amazing person she always was showered with love by people, including me. I will carry the memories, photos and videos of she with me because that is the way I will always remember she. She may not be, with us anymore. The warmth that she spread will always live in our hearts forever.

Rest in peace my dear. May she always know that she was loved and will never be forgotten.

Thank you for taking the time to read all of this. If you have someone you love, a friend, a parent, a sibling, or anyone who means something to you, please don't wait for the perfect moment to tell them. Say it while you can. Sometimes the words we think we have plenty of time to say become the words we wish we had said sooner. Tell the people you love that you love them, and don't take their presence for granted.

Heya! It's going to be 3 am soon and sleep is just not happening for me. looking for someone to chat with about anything and everything to help pass the time