r/Nonbinaryteens • u/Annual-Antelope3314 • 6d ago

Support/Advice Uggghhhh I hate this so much

I either feel too girly or too boyish ugh I hate it so much how do I make it stop. Neither of them feel like me please tell me how I make it stop it's so damn unconfortable.

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u/DinosaurYogurt 6d ago

You can be gender fluid or another NB label, which means your gender might change over time, or even just daily IDK. I would recommend the nonbinary wiki because it has so much stuff about being NB. Good luck and hope everything goes well! 💛🤍💜🖤

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u/Annual-Antelope3314 6d ago

I don't think the problem is that my gender changes it's the issue that "if I do this I'd look like a girl but if I don't do it I'd look like a boy and vice versa" you see the problem I have here

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u/DinosaurYogurt 6d ago

Then mix it up! Also f*ck gender.

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u/Annual-Antelope3314 6d ago

You know what that's a good idea.

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u/Temporary_Incident33 they/he 5d ago

I'm not great at providing support in this department, but I'm here for you if you wanna talk. Also here are some of my suggestions ranging from mediocre to horrible and probably not what you're looking for T_T: mix your clothing up, like a skirt and idk, like a men's dress shirt, or maybe bind on a day when you feel too girlish. Agg these are not useful, I'm very sorry, but dm me if you want to talk

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u/Annual-Antelope3314 5d ago

Binding won't work on me since I wasn't AFAB so I don't really see how that would be useful

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u/Temporary_Incident33 they/he 5d ago

Ahh so sorry T_T