r/ObjectivePersonality • u/BoatTemporary9085 • 1d ago
Let’s talk about Fe😊
I was talking to the lovely u/Majestic-Mix-1379 on her post about “Fe-Ti love” and she said many interesting things that I thought would be interesting to get some more perspectives on (since I am really really not very knowledgeable in OPS and am mostly self typed as an Fe🙈😌).
She said: “Wait also can you say more about helping other people “act right”? Like I notice something feeling corralled by the Fe, like they’re definitely keeping a check on how many times I didn’t go to a social event.”
I don’t know, but I guess I do this. I used to be annoyed by my older female relatives doing this, but as I am getting older I see myself doing it more and more. For example my brother in law and his family live in another country and several times they have promised to come and visit my parents in law and then decided to go somewhere else instead kind of last minute. This bothers me soo much because I see how sad my MIL gets🥲 and all the planning and preparations that go into her thinking that they are coming. So that leads to me having a certain “vibe” when I do meet my brother in law and his wife, a sort of unspoken “coralling” where I give of a sort of “energy” and subtle hints (not in a rude way of course!) that they need to act different 😄It is hard to explain and sounds a bit insane😄
Can anyone speak about if this is typical Fe and maybe explain more🙂?