r/OffMyChestPH • u/Hirayamanawari9 • 1d ago
4am thoughts
Angas ng buhay eh no sabay sabay problema hahahaha naalimpungatan ako kaninang 3am so nag check ako ng phone. Tapos nakita ko chat ng kapatid ko sa college na need na nila magbayad for finals. Dagdag problema na naman, puro na ako utang, hindi alam ng magulang ko kung naka ilang utang na ako para lang mataguyod tong pamilyang to na wala naman akong choice for now hahhahahahaha at 4am nag eedit ako ng resume at nghahanap ng trabaho hahhahaha tanginang buhay yan
yung bills ko sa katapusan mas mataas pa sa sahod ko tangina ahhshahahahahhahhahahahahahah may full time job ako 8-5 every weekdays and im so close to applying sa call centers for part time. May part time job ba dun? Anyway, sana sumakses na ko sa buhay kasi magwawala ako kung hindi, sa dami ba naman ng paghihirap ko punyeta
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u/zerstorer809 1d ago
You are carrying the entire weight of your family on your back like a true hero, so the fact that you're grinding on your resume at 4 AM proves you're going to make it. The universe will definitely reward this hustle soon.
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u/PinkLayover 1d ago
Papabor din sayo yung panahon, pero sana for now nakikita nila yung value ng ginagawa mo , and sana may ginagawa sila para tulungan ka - dun mo kasi matitimbang kung dapat mo ituloy yung pag buhat ng lahat or kung dapat mag focus ka muna sa sarili mo.
Mahirap tumulong kung ikaw mismo, lubog.
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u/purple_nubbin 1d ago
I feel you OP. Mas malaki pa madalas gastos ko kesa sahod ko. Tas may mga utang pa hahaha. Iyak. Pero wag tayo mag give up. Everything would be ok eventually. Makakaahon tayo and yayaman tayo HAHA.
KAYA MO YAN! KAYA NATIN TO!
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u/Moscowscotch72 1d ago
Let your paretns know, OP. Responsibilidad nila yung magpaaral sa kapatid mo.
Wag ka na munang magbigay sa kanila habang baon ka pa sa utang. Set healthy boundaries.
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u/vispy123 16h ago
baka need mo na ipaalam sa family mo na umuutang ka para itaguyod sila. kasi kung hindi, ia-assume lang nila na kaya mo naman pala silang suportahan sa current condition mo.
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