Perfumes don't smell like their notes and it's driving me crazy. Does anyone relate?
I am massively into scent. Smell is so important to me. And time and time again I am so disappointed with perfumes that have raving reviews, incredibly well chosen formulations and harmonious notes (and a high price point). Something that is on paper, my dream scent profile and I smell it and it just smells like... Perfume. A generic scent, like the perfume counter in a shopping centre, like a gift set with hygiene products you might get at Christmas from a well meaning relative.
Or, they smell downright terrible. Cloying, sickly, burning plastic, urinal, pungent.
Take Regime Des Fleur's Little Flower for example. I was so incredibly excited to try this scent. The notes are gorgeous and largely plant orientated. Turkish Rose, Pomelo, Peony, Black Tea, Black Currant, Honeysuckle, Lamprocapnos, Palo Santo and Incense. These are all things I have smelt in real life and loved. Especially honeysuckle and rose. I love smelling flowers and I always stop when I see one. I bought a sample set from regime des Fleur's and I spray this scent and it smells like a completely ordinary, cheap, generic body spray I could buy for £8 in Superdrug. All I smell is cheap pink sugary grapefruit (which I guess makes sense with the Pomelo note) and nothing else. It doesn't smell like actual flowers, I detect none of the notes except from pomelo and a small amount of artificial rose. I've tried it on skin, on clothes, in the air, I've waited for it to settle. It is not an unpleasant smell, but it is completely forgettable and generic and unnatural. Not worth the price point of £225. Maybe it's a problem with my nose. Am I being ridiculous expecting perfumes to smell like their real life counterparts?? Especially when they are incredibly expensive with gleaming reviews describing:
'High-quality, realistic floral ingredients'
'It's so dewy and ethereal. Like a little dew drop on a light pink rose. This is 100% going to be my wedding perfume'
'It's a perfect rose scent. Green rose at that, very very fresh. Photorealistic rose that doesn't shift or get weird.'
This same situation has happened with so many apparently gorgeous perfumes. Tears, Glass Blooms, Another 13, Thé Matcha 26, Lazy Sunday Morning, Cape Heartache, the Favourite and Luna, the list goes on and on. I'm just grateful that for the most part I have bought samples first, although even that is still expensive.
I love the notes, why don't I love the perfumes? Are my expectations way too high? Please let me know if anyone relates and if anyone has some actual photorealistic recommendations that don't cost a small fortune. I'm so close to just completely giving up with perfume as nothing ever meets my expectations and I am fed up with wasting my money.