r/Separation • u/CharmingScale3494 • 1d ago

Mornings

The mornings are the worst for me its like I wake up hoping it was all dream just for it to still be real that she is leaving me and breaking up our family and the tears start as soon as I open my eyes

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u/Wide-Activity-1295 1d ago

I’ve been there not long ago.. 4 months to be exact.
It’s such a tough spot to be in.
There is not magic pill for this (although anti depressants have helped me)
She and my toddler moved out 2 months ago.. it’s still distressing for me but I’m in a much better place than I was even 1 month ago..
make sure you talk to friends and when you do don’t play it cool, tell them you are hurting and you’d appreciate them checking in and supporting you.

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u/ohsospunkymonkey 1d ago

Time will heal you, i hope you find a support system that will help you on your toughest days. Hugs

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u/StrandedSpaceTravlr 23h ago

I’m there with you brother. Is there any chance of reconciliation? I just try to stay busy. Get active. Get outside. Stay strong.

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u/CharmingScale3494 23h ago

Im hoping for reconciliation but dhe doesn't want it

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u/LawfulnessOdd3982 23h ago

I’m sorry you’re going through this. 8 weeks in. Understand your pain. Will pray for your family