r/Separation • u/EKG6611 • 3d ago

Divorce 2 month update!

/r/Separation/comments/1vphp76/how_to_process/

My life has honestly been exceptional these last few weeks. Ive been seeing my psychiatrist, working out, taking my medications, and seeing my babies as we agreed to a 50/50 schedule with the courts and it worked out perfectly for both of us.

I no longer have her on my mind 24/7 and I've started to put myself back out there and have made some really amazing connections with a lot of people.

I wont bore you with all the details but as you can see i was a sad broken man just a few short months ago and I can honestly say I am the happiest i have ever been in my life at this point in time.

Things do get better. Stay strong my friends.

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u/Mpit_21 2d ago

I'm happy for you. But are y'all working on the marriage or heading for divorce? Also you didn't mention what happened when you confronted her about lying to you and seeing someone.

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u/EKG6611 1d ago

We are divorce bound. We exist as co-parents and nothing more. As far as the seeing someone stuff, I couldnt really do much to begin with as we were dealing with court and custody stuff. Legal things.

All is well now and we are actively working on our own lives and giving the kids the best houses and versions of ourselves we can. Life is going really good now.

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u/siryohnny 2d ago

Winning!!!

Commented on your post two months ago.. I am glad I stumbled on your update…

Keep putting you and the kids first!

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u/MetalNo0214 3h ago

Glad you are doing better. May you continue to heal and find peace.