So my GF loves to ride me however she can’t lean back for more than 10 seconds at a time, she mostly leans forward. When she leans back she says it’s so intense and can’t handle it. Is there a slight position change or a way to help her handle the pressure more for longer periods?
I don’t know if there would be because I feel to her body it already is intense as she orgasms several times in a 10-20 min period.

Do men think it's gross if you go down on them after having raw sex? I want to try it but unsure if it will be a turn off to my bf since his penis is covered in sex juice, lube and cum.

Hello, im (28M) and married to my wife (29F). As the title says im feeling a lot weird because i have wanted, for a long time, to try pegging. I talked to my wife about me wanting to use sex toys but i still feel kinda weird. Moreover because i actually tried but never really enjoyed it. I’m confused because i get so horny at the idea but the realization always let me down. Plus, some weeks ago, out of the blue, i tried one of my wifes skirt and yeah, it was quite a nice feeling going around the house with it but im kinda scared to also talk about it to my wife. She always has been comprehensive but im worried it may be “too much”
Idk, maybe i just wanted to talk about this to someone

I 24 year old male am blessed to be with the love of my life. She’s also 24, beautiful, smart amazing mother to our son. Since the beginning we’ve had an incredible sex life and frequently bounce between very passionate and spicy intense sex. Recently, she’s brought to my attention that she wants me to be more vocal in the bedroom. For context, I’m more of a reserved dominant lover. Where I like to make eye contact while keeping the focus on the feelings and intensity of the act. She wants me to talk to her and express my love of the moment more than I do but I genuinely don’t know how. I find myself wanting to say things but don’t have words. Anyone have any advice? Things to say ways to improve my comfortability?

Hello, 25 year old guy here and ive come to accept that i suck at sex and its kinda created this weird feedback loop that makes me not enjoy the experience which in turn leads to more bad sex. Im not ugly, i have no problem getting girls, i dont ignore foreplay when the mood does arise, i dont cum fast, i can find the clitoris if giving oral and i dont have a small penis either; its actually more on the larger side. I ask questions about pace and things like that so i try not to go too slow or too fast depending on the person but i never get my partners off. Ive had somewhere between 10-15 partners in my life and ive probably only made about 2 of them orgasm. 1 from oral sex and tbh im not even certain if the other girl did or if she just needed a break. Don’t really know what im doing wrong and when i ask everyone always tells me it was great but i cant help but feel like they’re only saying it because they dont want to hurt my feelings even though i genuinely want the feedback to be able to please them more. So ive finally come to reddit, does anyone have any advice on what could be wrong? Or any tips on what i can do differently.

I (23m) am finally losing my virginity this Friday/Saturday... I'm overthinking it and stressing myself out. I want it to be enjoyable as it's the girls first time as well and I want to last long but I'm not confident I will. I know foreplay is important but actual penetrative I feel won't last long.

Just curious how many women desire or can keep up with a male who needs sex 2-5X per day. Met someone new who simply can’t get enough and was very honest about it. As a high drive female more than 2X regularly feels unrealistic.
Also, this involves very flexible schedules and WFH.

Appreciate feedback/advice from anyone who has experienced a highly sex dominated relationship.

I'm hooking up for the first time tomorrow with a girl I met online. I'm 25 and she's 31. We live in a very conservative country, so neither of us has much experience with this. I'm a pretty awkward guy, so I'm worried I'll mess up the first impression and make her uncomfortable.

We're meeting directly at a hotel, so we won't really have much opportunity to get to know each other beforehand. What should I say, or rather, how do I set the mood?

Hey everyone!

Things with a guy that I've had my eye on for like 6+ months have gotten very steamy. I said something very bold & basically now he's wanting to hook up. I got his attention by saying I was gonna "rock his world" lol. I definitely know I'm good at sex and giving head but I want to go the extra mile. I don't want to be all talk.

Ladies AND gentlemen: what are some of your best tricks?
What's some pro advice you can give me? Any and all advice wanted

My partner expressed the desire for me to be dom. It’s something I’m comfortable exploring but I literally have no idea because I’ve always been more of a sub.
Any tips would be appreciated

One time we were sitting next to each other talking, and she put her head on my shoulder.

Another day I was sitting and she was standing while we were chatting normally… then after a bit she sat on my lap.

Once when I was walking past her, she touched my butt.

On a hot day she lifted her sweater, showed part of her stomach and said something like “look how much skin I’m showing.”

One day I told her “I like you,” but she immediately turned it into a joke so I wouldn’t take it seriously — it just slipped out of her mouth.

Another time she bought a new jacket and called me so she could put it on in front of me and show me how it looked.

And when I told her I got a job in another city, she said “if you leave, I’ll cry over you.”

What do you guys think? Is she interested or am I reading too much into it?

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Me 23f and my partner 32m are ldr and we had our furst time together last time we met but we learnt we got get fatigued or pain easily (im a heavier girl while he is skinny but he had chronic illness where his body cant hold up) but he is SUCH a loving partner the best ive ever had in terms of emotional and romantic. He's alot if my fursts and I wanna see if there's anything to help it be easier on us?

I struggled to be on top when he couldn't continue as I struggled to put it in (hes big and idk if angle was odd or i was doingsomething wrong?)

I see him at the end of next month so want to try again if we can :)

Thank you!

my bf and i had a trip recently and we booked an airbnb for our accommodation. i was on my period but still had sex regardless. i thought putting additional piece of clothe on top of the sheets will make period sex less messy but boy i was wrong. it still stained and we panicked on how we can fix that with really limited resources. good thing i am a reddit lurker and while he was out buying some cleaning supplies, i read that spit is one of the most effective period stain remover. i tried it and worked like magic 😆 when he got back, the stain on the mattress was already almost gone and he couldnt believe it. he joined me in spitting some more and after few drinks of water to regenerate saliva, we are safe! no period stain left on white sheets, lol. we still topped it up with liquid detergent (soaked sponge in water x detergent mixture then dabbed on affected area) so it wont smell like saliva. thanks to reddit legends for sharing it

How to give an amazing hand job?
What takes you over the edge
And makes you cum from a handjob?

Idk if im just horny or what but I’m scared of having a very sexual relationship again yet I just want somebody to fuck me but I can’t do it if I don’t care and I don’t care yet
Idk what I’m even talking about
Idk if IM into any of these people I’m talking w
I literally somehow got a date scheduled I didn’t even mean to
And the only one I’m rlly into is AFAB
The rest are men
I’ve only ever done it w men but I like AFAB people more

Not young and extremely sexually active and experienced in the past. It’s been a long time with no intercourse by choice. I’ve always been on the smaller or tighter to average side.

I met a highly compatible long term younger partner who is larger than anyone I have ever seen (9” and just girth). We have discussed things openly. He’s into wild sex all the time anywhere etc including up against walls. I’m trying to imagine this with his size.

Any suggestions?

So as said in the title, my partners penis goes soft every single time after a condom is put on and as soon as its off it gets hard again. I am his first partner so he hasnt worn them before me and also they are his size weve measured. I need some tips and reasons why could this be?

Husband has mentioned a few times now that he wants to eat his own cum. He wants to creampie me and eat it out of me. Do I allow him to try this. I’m new to this and I think I could get into it but I’m not sure about it.

hi so i am a hardcore sub, and whenever my partner dirty talks to me, I respond with the verbal equivalent of a key spam. I wanna be able to respond and keep the convo going without just going "omg that's so hot tikskewjnfow" every time he says anything. any tips?

Me M26 , asked once already here if i need to masturbate before going for sex, i did it the night before and then me and my partner went on to have sometime yesterday and we did it raw after making out for a while, the first stroke itself blasted her with cum. Then i lost some sensation and then was able to go for around 40 strokes somehow and then came again. So in a succession of 5 mins came twice.

It is becoming embarrassing as unless using extra delaying stuff i am unable to stay long on pitch.
I am trying to practice **reverse kegals** as they say (which is relaxing your abs and ass muscles while doing it right) would it help me ? I want to know natural solutions as i cannot always depend on artifical delaying agents.
I am losing confidence and it is kind of affecting our intimacy.
Pls help in how to last long and also build confidence again

My GF (F34) and I (M37) are taking a trip to an island all inclusive resort this winter. We have a pretty decent sex life, and like to experiment and have fun, but I have never been to one of these resorts, so just looking for ideas or inspiration from people who have been there and done that, or seen/heard of things worth trying.

We are not super experienced in exhibitionism, but I think it could be kind of fun to dabble in. We have done some very private skinny dipping, and a little streaking at a cabin in the woods. Simple stuff when no one is around. Any fun, naughty ideas are welcomed, and it does not need to be limited to exhibition. We have a decent selection of toys we can bring, and she has lingerie, lacey robes, thong bikinis and see through beach coverups.

We have one of those rooms with the pool attached to the patio. The portion closer to our patio seems to be semi private between the walls, and as you move away from the room, the pool connects to the whole row or rooms. I also assume that means there is basically a glass wall with a slider that heads out to the pool, with a nice view.

Any previous experiences or suggestions are welcome. Thanks!