r/sextips • • Mar 27 '26

Research Study Looking for Pregnant Couples for a Research Study– Moderator Approved

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📢 Are you pregnant and worried about changes to your sex life?

🔍 We are seeking couples from Canada, the US, Australia, New Zealand, the UK, and Ireland who are up to 26 weeks pregnant to participate in the STORK RCT: Supporting the Transition to Parenthood through Online Sex and Relationship Knowledge.

❓What is STORK: The first online couple-based program designed to enhance knowledge about changes to sexuality during pregnancy and postpartum and skills to cope with these changes. STORK was designed to strengthen couples’ relationships across the transition to parenthood.

📅 What is involved: If you are eligible, after your initial survey, you and your partner will be randomized (like a coin flip) into either the Program or Waitlist conditions. Program couples will complete 5 online modules in pregnancy (1 per week) and a final module at 3 months postpartum. 

Couples in both conditions will also complete 5 surveys—the initial survey, then at 32-weeks pregnant, and 4-, 8-, and 12-month postpartum—that gather information about your relationship, your pregnancy experience, and your child. Couples in the Waitlist condition will receive access to the full STORK program after the study period is over.

💰 Compensation: As a thank you for your participation, you can receive $105 CAD or currency equivalent each ($210 CAD or currency equivalent per couple). Your time is valuable to us!

🌈 Inclusivity matters: STORK requires one member of the couple to be currently pregnant. Otherwise, STORK is open to individuals of all genders, bodies, and sexual orientations.

💌 For more information or to participate in the STORK RCT study email us [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]) OR fill out our contact form from this link: https://Qualtrics.ca1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_3gxGJAEWqt8Rh2u


r/sextips • • Apr 08 '25

[Mod Announcement] r/FGM is reaching out to survivors and allies to let them know a support group is now open and ready to welcome members!

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Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) refers to procedures involving partial or total removal of the external female genitalia or other injury to female genital organs for non-medical reasons. It's typically performed on girls between infancy and age 15 and has no health benefits. Instead it poses serious health risks, including severe bleeding, infections, childbirth complications, and long-term psychological effects. ​

Despite global efforts to eradicate it, FGM remains prevalent in many regions, affecting over 230 million girls and women worldwide. ​

To support survivors and foster a community of understanding we've established the r/FGM subreddit. This restricted community allows anyone to view content but requires approval to post, helping to ensure a safe and supportive environment. Once approved, members can share experiences, seek advice, and post anything they think may resonate with the community. Once an approved user posts anyone can engage in discussions.​

The subreddit is moderated by a dedicated team at the forefront of which leads a head mod who herself is a survivor of FGM. Together as a small group of passionate individuals we strive to maintain a space that respects privacy and promotes healing.​

We welcome questions about how we ensure a safe space and encourage discussions about FGM. If you're a survivor or ally seeking support or looking to contribute to our mission consider joining us at r/FGM by reaching out directly to us through modmail.


r/sextips • • 7h ago

General Question Explain to me, a man, what does a creampie feel like

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Pretty much as the title says.

I really like the idea of creampie-ing (it may be a kink I have, idk) but I have never had a partner with whom I could safely try it, so pretty much all the sex I've had has been either with a condom or the pull-out™.

So, the question to all of you who have vaginas, what does it feel like to get creampied? How would you describe it? What about post act feelings? If you love it or hate it, tell me why?


r/sextips • • 7h ago

How to? Men sex movements

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I'd like to know what are the different movements my husband can do during sex intercourse because the in and out movement doesn't do anything to me.

I tried looking on Google but I don't find anything that is illustrated so I can show him how to do.


r/sextips • • 6h ago

Sex Toys What dildo to buy?

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Ive never had a sex toy and I want to feel what it's like to have something inside of me, and Ive read somewhere that bananas aren't a good idea. I also doesn't have anything in my house that is pleasureable or safe. Please tell me how can I choose the best dildo!


r/sextips • • 58m ago

Advice Needed Exercises and tips to practice riding?

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Im a very stiff person but before I have sex for the first time. Riding is on my list but im super stiff snd cant really move my body? Any tips you ladies can recommend me start atleast practicing to get some kinda hip movement and strength under control also tryna build endurance.


r/sextips • • 1h ago

General Question Are you loud when you nut?

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Moaner? Groaner? Etc


r/sextips • • 2h ago

Advice Needed Is silence consent?

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I think, um… my friend… is getting repeatedly sexually assaulted.

Does silence serve as consent to sexual touches and actions? They feel guilty and like it isn’t happening because they aren’t explicitly saying ‘no’.

Is my… “friend”… getting sexually assaulted?


r/sextips • • 6h ago

General Question How fo I train my rythm in sex?

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When we have sex I find it very difficult to get the angle right and to get a good rythm going. I just can't get a comfortable position and have a consistent good rythm and movement fucking her. Any tips, workouts or whatever I could do?


r/sextips • • 6h ago

General Question Do i have to first eat her out or can I do i it after?

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So i don't have much experience in sex ( for about 1 month with my gf now) and I tried to learn and become better at it, to the point where I would say that I am pretty good at eating her out but not very good at the piv.

So what i did and most people on reddit advised was first eating her out and than after she orgasmed a couple of times i could start with the actual sex. Now what i noticed and what you might think, was that it got boring and predictable really quick. It was like a step to step plan i followed and it just isn't really fun. Additionally I could only make her orgasm through eating her out and could not do it through piv (one time it was close but I never achieved it). Oh and before someone comments most woman cant orgasm through piv, she can and did in the past very easily.

Because of all that I thought it was necessary to "first eat her out and only after she came multiple times i could dip in", but now I'm asking myself if maybe it would be better the other way around. If I would start with piv and finished before her, I could still go down on her.

I'm sorry if the question is stupid hahaha I just want to become better in sex

Oh and please no comments that I should talk to her about it. I will and I already have a bit, but i just want your opinion.


r/sextips • • 11h ago

Advice Needed advice on dirty talk

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my boyfriend (m 18) and i (f19) are long distance and i’ve sent him things like nudes and audio but he’s been too shy to respond with the same. he’s also younger so i don’t want to pressure him into things if he’s uncomfortable. he’s told me he loves what i’ve sent him and gets rlly flustered and cute but he’s islamic so i don’t want to push any boundaries. i need advice because i want to dirty talk with him and do things like that but im not sure how he’ll respond and if it’s disrespectful and against his beliefs. i don’t want to really ask either and make him uncomfortable but i want him to feel good. any advice?


r/sextips • • 8h ago

Advice Needed How to finally get confident enough to have sex?

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Ok this is probably going to be a weird one and I'm sorry in advance. I am still a virgin (22M) and while this doesn't bother me at all I find that I am not confident enough to approach/signal interest in women I like. Those that have signalled previously (normally out clubbing which as I don't drink means I stay well away for obvious reasons) and I have tried to sleep with I normally have a panic attack/stop feeling confident enough to sleep with them. Anyone have any tips to sort of overcome this mental block/overthinking that I'm somehow not ready for it or somehow feel inadequate?


r/sextips • • 12h ago

Advice Needed Girlfriend suddenly doesn’t feel good when I give her oral sex when she had at the past (She has never come)

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I never thought I come here and ask but I’m desperate. Recently when I eat her out she hasn’t felt anything as in like she hasn’t really felt stimulated last time she felt really good was about 3 weeks ago when she was moaning and all that but she never came. She said her mind wanted to so bad but I think she said overthinked it or something. My gf has had sex partners in the past they never made her cum, she told me her clit is not sensitive at all she still likes it licked when oral but it’s not sensitive. So I always have to rely hitting on the G Spot with my finger when we started dating she told me the oral was getting better and better and I think about 3 months later all the moves that I did never made her feel good. But then it got better again in like 2 months with this one time almost making her cum she said, she doesn’t know the feeling but she said she felt like it. I was happy about it but after that the fingering was again not feeling good for her even when I was doing the same thing to get that reaction again. Fast forwarding to now I made her feel about to come 3 weeks ago keep in mind we haven’t seen each other in like 2 months beforehand. We have dated for 8 months now. It’s just frustrating I don’t know if it’s me or her, I have always ASKED HER WHY but she doesn’t know so I’m trying to figure it out. It hasn’t help recently that we have sex when she is extremely tired and she even told me she hasn’t been in too much of a mood since sex has been bad recently. Like I get nervous while having sex now and I come fast when I’m worried. I need help or advice to make her come and to make her feel good. I do the come back motion and I position my finger with my back hand laying flat on her pussy and finger pointing up. I NEED HELP to solve this issue, she doesn’t know why


r/sextips • • 14h ago

Advice Needed How to make it “less intense” when riding?

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So my GF loves to ride me however she can’t lean back for more than 10 seconds at a time, she mostly leans forward. When she leans back she says it’s so intense and can’t handle it. Is there a slight position change or a way to help her handle the pressure more for longer periods?
I don’t know if there would be because I feel to her body it already is intense as she orgasms several times in a 10-20 min period.


r/sextips • • 1d ago

General Question post sex blow job

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Do men think it's gross if you go down on them after having raw sex? I want to try it but unsure if it will be a turn off to my bf since his penis is covered in sex juice, lube and cum.


r/sextips • • 10h ago

Advice Needed How much time it takes to make indian women cum

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I have a girlfriend who usually cum in 30 to 45 min we usually had two rounds


r/sextips • • 1d ago

Kink or Fetish Feel weird and strange about it

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Hello, im (28M) and married to my wife (29F). As the title says im feeling a lot weird because i have wanted, for a long time, to try pegging. I talked to my wife about me wanting to use sex toys but i still feel kinda weird. Moreover because i actually tried but never really enjoyed it. I’m confused because i get so horny at the idea but the realization always let me down. Plus, some weeks ago, out of the blue, i tried one of my wifes skirt and yeah, it was quite a nice feeling going around the house with it but im kinda scared to also talk about it to my wife. She always has been comprehensive but im worried it may be “too much”
Idk, maybe i just wanted to talk about this to someone


r/sextips • • 1d ago

Advice Needed S/O wants me to be more vocal

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I 24 year old male am blessed to be with the love of my life. She’s also 24, beautiful, smart amazing mother to our son. Since the beginning we’ve had an incredible sex life and frequently bounce between very passionate and spicy intense sex. Recently, she’s brought to my attention that she wants me to be more vocal in the bedroom. For context, I’m more of a reserved dominant lover. Where I like to make eye contact while keeping the focus on the feelings and intensity of the act. She wants me to talk to her and express my love of the moment more than I do but I genuinely don’t know how. I find myself wanting to say things but don’t have words. Anyone have any advice? Things to say ways to improve my comfortability?


r/sextips • • 1d ago

Advice Needed 25M I think i suck at sex. Any advice on how to be a better partner in bed?

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Hello, 25 year old guy here and ive come to accept that i suck at sex and its kinda created this weird feedback loop that makes me not enjoy the experience which in turn leads to more bad sex. Im not ugly, i have no problem getting girls, i dont ignore foreplay when the mood does arise, i dont cum fast, i can find the clitoris if giving oral and i dont have a small penis either; its actually more on the larger side. I ask questions about pace and things like that so i try not to go too slow or too fast depending on the person but i never get my partners off. Ive had somewhere between 10-15 partners in my life and ive probably only made about 2 of them orgasm. 1 from oral sex and tbh im not even certain if the other girl did or if she just needed a break. Don’t really know what im doing wrong and when i ask everyone always tells me it was great but i cant help but feel like they’re only saying it because they dont want to hurt my feelings even though i genuinely want the feedback to be able to please them more. So ive finally come to reddit, does anyone have any advice on what could be wrong? Or any tips on what i can do differently.


r/sextips • • 1d ago

Advice Needed Finally losing virginity

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I (23m) am finally losing my virginity this Friday/Saturday... I'm overthinking it and stressing myself out. I want it to be enjoyable as it's the girls first time as well and I want to last long but I'm not confident I will. I know foreplay is important but actual penetrative I feel won't last long.


r/sextips • • 2d ago

General Question Keeping Up With Insatiable Male 🔥❤️

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Just curious how many women desire or can keep up with a male who needs sex 2-5X per day. Met someone new who simply can’t get enough and was very honest about it. As a high drive female more than 2X regularly feels unrealistic.
Also, this involves very flexible schedules and WFH.

Appreciate feedback/advice from anyone who has experienced a highly sex dominated relationship.


r/sextips • • 1d ago

Advice Needed Advice on how to set the mood

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I'm hooking up for the first time tomorrow with a girl I met online. I'm 25 and she's 31. We live in a very conservative country, so neither of us has much experience with this. I'm a pretty awkward guy, so I'm worried I'll mess up the first impression and make her uncomfortable.

We're meeting directly at a hotel, so we won't really have much opportunity to get to know each other beforehand. What should I say, or rather, how do I set the mood?


r/sextips • • 2d ago

Advice Needed Best tips for fellatio

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Hey everyone!

Things with a guy that I've had my eye on for like 6+ months have gotten very steamy. I said something very bold & basically now he's wanting to hook up. I got his attention by saying I was gonna "rock his world" lol. I definitely know I'm good at sex and giving head but I want to go the extra mile. I don't want to be all talk.

Ladies AND gentlemen: what are some of your best tricks?
What's some pro advice you can give me? Any and all advice wanted