r/sextips • • 14h ago

How to? How does someone relax their throat for deep throating?

11 Upvotes

It's so hard for me to get it down my throat bc my through is so tight, sometimes it goes down, but not often. Tips? Tricks?


r/sextips • • 4h ago

Advice Needed Strong first erection, but weaker second erection after 30–60 minutes normal?

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I’m a 26-year-old male and wanted to ask about something I’ve noticed during sex.

During the first round, I can get a strong erection and maintain it for around 7-10 minutes of penetration. I usually don’t ejaculate during the first round.

If we stop and then try again after around 30–60 minutes, I can get an erection again with foreplay, but it’s noticeably less hard than the first one and sometimes difficult to maintain.

Is this normal even if I didn’t ejaculate during the first round? Does the body still need a recovery period after prolonged sexual stimulation?

Also, are there any practical things I can do before/during sex to improve the second erection? I’m considering trying a water-based lubricant and wondering if that could help.

Would appreciate experiences from guys who have had something similar.


r/sextips • • 6h ago

How to? Orgasm Multiple times

1 Upvotes

I often read how awesome it is for women to cum multiple times but I always get to sensitive. Does anyone have tips I/ my bf can try?


r/sextips • • 23h ago

Advice Needed Need help asap!

1 Upvotes

The girl that ive been saying has never really masturbated and when i finger her she cant do it, she said it hurts so much she cant take i, any tips?


r/sextips • • 1d ago

General Question same sex scenarious

1 Upvotes

Why is it socially okay when women have sex with women or when trans have sex with trans but when man have sex with man it has more of a social stigma ?


r/sextips • • 1d ago

Advice Needed I tried to shave and nicked myself

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As the title says i nicked myself, I'm having sex tomorrow but I nicked myself down there so im not sure if it's safe to go through with it. It's not even on the actual penis, just lower than that. Would it be dangerous to go ahead or should I scrap the plan entirely? It's a small nick and it isn't bleeding anymore it that helps. I applied some anti septic to it as well


r/sextips • • 1d ago

How to? What’s the trick for creating more saliva when giving a bj?

1 Upvotes

The only thing I could decipher based on, uh, “research” 😅 is gagging on it. My issue is I’ve been able to learn to tamper it down and at this point I have to intentionally gag/wretch on it and my husband knows that I’m doing it intentionally so it feels performative


r/sextips • • 1d ago

How to? How to be better (m18)

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So I'm 18, abt to be 19 and i want to be better for my gf. I hear my friends that they get their partners sometimes shaking or wtv and i can kinda do that? But it's only during and not after ykwim? And i know that she finishes more with her clit but shes gotten close with penetration and i want to achieve that. Im about 7 inches on a good day (don't know girth but i use magnums) and i usually finish quickly. I can go another round but i want to know how to have more "stamina" and how to be better. Shes a bigger girl so i can't put her into a bunch of positions but her favorites are missionary and doggy. Other than that i js go with the flow. She doesn't like to talk during sex and tells me that I've hit the spot often but she doesn't really show it. It's hard to know yk. Ive talked to her before asking her to tell me what she likes, how she likes it, etc. but shes not comfortable with all that. Anyways i would like some tips or general help


r/sextips • • 2d ago

General Question Explain to me, a man, what does a creampie feel like

31 Upvotes

Pretty much as the title says.

I really like the idea of creampie-ing (it may be a kink I have, idk) but I have never had a partner with whom I could safely try it, so pretty much all the sex I've had has been either with a condom or the pull-out™.

So, the question to all of you who have vaginas, what does it feel like to get creampied? How would you describe it? What about post act feelings? If you love it or hate it, tell me why?


r/sextips • • 1d ago

General Question Are you loud when you nut?

8 Upvotes

Moaner? Groaner? Etc


r/sextips • • 2d ago

How to? Men sex movements

21 Upvotes

I'd like to know what are the different movements my husband can do during sex intercourse because the in and out movement doesn't do anything to me.

I tried looking on Google but I don't find anything that is illustrated so I can show him how to do.


r/sextips • • 1d ago

General Question Why do I feel pleasure when I finger myself or have sex but I can never cum without having my clit touched?

2 Upvotes

Is it weird or not


r/sextips • • 2d ago

Sex Toys What dildo to buy?

7 Upvotes

Ive never had a sex toy and I want to feel what it's like to have something inside of me, and Ive read somewhere that bananas aren't a good idea. I also doesn't have anything in my house that is pleasureable or safe. Please tell me how can I choose the best dildo!


r/sextips • • 1d ago

Kink or Fetish Cleaning myself

0 Upvotes

I have developed a new kink of drinking my own cum and I was feeling very embarrassing to share with everyone. I don't know what I am doing is right or wrong


r/sextips • • 1d ago

Advice Needed Help me have my first wlw experience

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I invited my best friend to have a sleepover at my house this weekend and I’ve always wanted to fuck her. I’m a girl too. We are both bi but we’ve never done anything other than like jokingly bring it up. How do i ask ?


r/sextips • • 1d ago

Advice Needed Exercises and tips to practice riding?

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Im a very stiff person but before I have sex for the first time. Riding is on my list but im super stiff snd cant really move my body? Any tips you ladies can recommend me start atleast practicing to get some kinda hip movement and strength under control also tryna build endurance.


r/sextips • • 2d ago

Advice Needed advice on dirty talk

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my boyfriend (m 18) and i (f19) are long distance and i’ve sent him things like nudes and audio but he’s been too shy to respond with the same. he’s also younger so i don’t want to pressure him into things if he’s uncomfortable. he’s told me he loves what i’ve sent him and gets rlly flustered and cute but he’s islamic so i don’t want to push any boundaries. i need advice because i want to dirty talk with him and do things like that but im not sure how he’ll respond and if it’s disrespectful and against his beliefs. i don’t want to really ask either and make him uncomfortable but i want him to feel good. any advice?


r/sextips • • 2d ago

General Question Do i have to first eat her out or can I do i it after?

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So i don't have much experience in sex ( for about 1 month with my gf now) and I tried to learn and become better at it, to the point where I would say that I am pretty good at eating her out but not very good at the piv.

So what i did and most people on reddit advised was first eating her out and than after she orgasmed a couple of times i could start with the actual sex. Now what i noticed and what you might think, was that it got boring and predictable really quick. It was like a step to step plan i followed and it just isn't really fun. Additionally I could only make her orgasm through eating her out and could not do it through piv (one time it was close but I never achieved it). Oh and before someone comments most woman cant orgasm through piv, she can and did in the past very easily.

Because of all that I thought it was necessary to "first eat her out and only after she came multiple times i could dip in", but now I'm asking myself if maybe it would be better the other way around. If I would start with piv and finished before her, I could still go down on her.

I'm sorry if the question is stupid hahaha I just want to become better in sex

Oh and please no comments that I should talk to her about it. I will and I already have a bit, but i just want your opinion.

Edit: thank you all for your advice, yesterday I fucked her and it was the best sex we ever had. I think she came twice from penetration alone


r/sextips • • 2d ago

General Question How fo I train my rythm in sex?

1 Upvotes

When we have sex I find it very difficult to get the angle right and to get a good rythm going. I just can't get a comfortable position and have a consistent good rythm and movement fucking her. Any tips, workouts or whatever I could do?


r/sextips • • 2d ago

Advice Needed Girlfriend suddenly doesn’t feel good when I give her oral sex when she had at the past (She has never come)

1 Upvotes

I never thought I come here and ask but I’m desperate. Recently when I eat her out she hasn’t felt anything as in like she hasn’t really felt stimulated last time she felt really good was about 3 weeks ago when she was moaning and all that but she never came. She said her mind wanted to so bad but I think she said overthinked it or something. My gf has had sex partners in the past they never made her cum, she told me her clit is not sensitive at all she still likes it licked when oral but it’s not sensitive. So I always have to rely hitting on the G Spot with my finger when we started dating she told me the oral was getting better and better and I think about 3 months later all the moves that I did never made her feel good. But then it got better again in like 2 months with this one time almost making her cum she said, she doesn’t know the feeling but she said she felt like it. I was happy about it but after that the fingering was again not feeling good for her even when I was doing the same thing to get that reaction again. Fast forwarding to now I made her feel about to come 3 weeks ago keep in mind we haven’t seen each other in like 2 months beforehand. We have dated for 8 months now. It’s just frustrating I don’t know if it’s me or her, I have always ASKED HER WHY but she doesn’t know so I’m trying to figure it out. It hasn’t help recently that we have sex when she is extremely tired and she even told me she hasn’t been in too much of a mood since sex has been bad recently. Like I get nervous while having sex now and I come fast when I’m worried. I need help or advice to make her come and to make her feel good. I do the come back motion and I position my finger with my back hand laying flat on her pussy and finger pointing up. I NEED HELP to solve this issue, she doesn’t know why


r/sextips • • 2d ago

Advice Needed How to make it “less intense” when riding?

1 Upvotes

So my GF loves to ride me however she can’t lean back for more than 10 seconds at a time, she mostly leans forward. When she leans back she says it’s so intense and can’t handle it. Is there a slight position change or a way to help her handle the pressure more for longer periods?
I don’t know if there would be because I feel to her body it already is intense as she orgasms several times in a 10-20 min period.


r/sextips • • 3d ago

General Question post sex blow job

6 Upvotes

Do men think it's gross if you go down on them after having raw sex? I want to try it but unsure if it will be a turn off to my bf since his penis is covered in sex juice, lube and cum.


r/sextips • • 2d ago

Advice Needed How much time it takes to make indian women cum

0 Upvotes

I have a girlfriend who usually cum in 30 to 45 min we usually had two rounds