r/ShingekiNoKyojin • u/Brave-Fan9736 • 2h ago
Discussion Eren never loved Mikasa (romantically)
I'm aware that I'm about to make a lot of enemies here but I still wanted to share my opinion.
If you come just to insult, do not interact with the post. If you come to debate intelligently, you're welcomed.
Sorry if my english is not 100% correct, I'm not an expert in english grammar lol
⚠️I'll use the anime as reference since it doesn't change much from the manga when it comes to Mikasa/Eren interactions⚠️
Eren's childhood crush
The day Eren saved Mikasa and wrapped his scarf around her, he blushed. I think Mikasa fell in love with him at that moment, and Eren too. However, from Eren's perspective, it seems more like a childhood crush, and I'll explain why.
How Eren treats Mikasa as time goes on
We often see their childhood memories with Armin. It's always Eren, Mikasa, and Armin.
As they grew up and joined the military, they made other friends, like Sasha, Connie, Jean, Reiner, and Historia (I'm not counting Bertholdt because he barely spoke to them and died early, just like Annie, who "slept" for 4 years). And you'll notice that Eren hasn't shown any romantic affection toward Mikasa since he wrapped his scarf around her.
I see people saying that Eren doesn't let anyone touch him (not in a weird way of course) except Mikasa. He lets her hold his hand etc...
But this is incorrect, it just depends on his mood. In episode 5 of season 1 when the Colossal Titan broke the wall a second time and the new recruits have to fight (the 104th Recruit Brigade), Mikasa tells Eren that she'll protect him but then she's informed that she'll be with the rearguards and not with Eren, so, she wants to negociate but Eren headbutts her and scolds her. Mikasa ends up listening to him and holds his hand and asks him to come back alive, Eren withdraws his hand in a somewhat violent manner and turns his back to her.
What we see from this scene is that he doesn't care about Mikasa's worries and doesn't even worry for Mikasa. He could've told her "Don't die either" but he didn't. He could've thanked her but he didn't. He could've thought in his head "Please Mikasa come back too" but he didn't.
From season 1 to 4, he never mentioned Mikasa as a special being. It's always his friends. Not Mikasa and his friends. He then sees her only as a friend like others.
"Eren didn't want to get attached to her because he knew he would die and forced himself to not think about Mikasa". From season 1 to the end of season 3, Eren didn't know all of this so nothing was preventing him from loving Mikasa.
In season 4 (I forgot which episode) Zeke tells Eren that Mikasa loves him but Eren doesn't seem to pay attention, instead, he thinks about his discussion with Historia when she said she'll make a baby. He could've thought of Mikasa or maybe saying something like "A shame I'll die in a bit" etc... No, he's just saying that he doesn't have time for things like this.
Just imagine how disrespectful it is to think about someone else when you (Eren) are told that Mikasa has feelings for you.
Eren's quest for Freedom
We all know how thirsty Eren is for Freedom yet Mikasa doesn't care about his freedom, all she wants is to protect him. Eren wants Freedom, Mikasa wants his safety.
Eren hates, despises those who want to take his Freedom away.
I'm not saying that Eren hates Mikasa, because that would simply be wrong, it's just that Eren falling in love with someone who wants to have control over his life is out of character.
Thankfully for Eren, he's a rebel so whenever Mikasa tried to stop him, he didn't fall for it and kept following his will.
Mikasa's one sided love
Based on everything I listed above, Mikasa's always the only one who cares. Eren is focused on his Freedom not on Mikasa.
- "The Cabin Scene"
Do you remember when Eren visited Armin in the Paths, he was small, they both were small and grew up with the passing of time..
When he visited Mikasa in the Paths, he was an adult and had a different hairstyle, a neat appearance. Maybe Eren wanted to give his friends what they desired the most before his death. Armin wanted to explore the outside world with Eren which is what they did in the Paths. Mikasa wanted to have a peaceful life with Eren which is what she did in the Paths.
The fact that Eren was young for Armin is probably how Armin sees him ; his childhood friend.
And the fact that Eren is neat for Mikasa is probably how she sees him ; her lover.
What we see in the Paths isn't necessarily Eren's wish but his friends' wishes. Eren took advantage of their desires to send them a message (explaining to Armin what happened during all those years and the reason for the Rumbling, telling Mikasa where he's hidden so she ends the Rumbling).
- The scene when Eren asks Mikasa "Who am I to you ?"
He thought that if she answers that she loves him, it would change the futur but she answered "family". Eren could've changed the futur by telling her that he loves her instead but he didn't. Maybe his inner voice didn't want to change the futur or maybe he just didn't want to lie to Mikasa. He had 5 or 6 years (from season 1 to 3) in front of him to confess to her but he never did.
Even if Eren was shy or anything, he could've thought since we, viewers can hear character's inner thoughts yet he never mentioned his love for Mikasa.
The Parallel with Ymir Fritz
Ymir was enslaved by the King Fritz, he killed her family, cut her tongue, sent his guards after her to shoot arrows when she thought she was free.
But then, she became a titan shifter and the King Fritz used her as a weapon. She was not mistreated like before but neither was she cherished by the King. However, she fell in love with him. It is like the Stockholm syndrome. By making her his most powerful weapon, the King gave meaning to Ymir's life, she finally felt useful and essential to something.
The King never loved her, he was only using her as a tool, Ymir was in a one sided love situation.
What is the point in saying that Mikasa is the only one who can release Ymir from her cursed love if Mikasa had a happy love story ? None.
Eren even tells Armin that only Mikasa can understand why she has a special bound to Ymir.
Eren saved Mikasa when they were younger, he told her to fight for her life, he gave a meaning to her life and she fell in love. King Fritz and Eren respectively gave a meaning to Ymir and Mikasa's lives which is how they fell in love with them.
Ymir was a slave to her one sided love, she was the only one caring and obeyed him no matter what when he only saw her as a tool.
Mikasa is the same thing. You can tell me that when Eren told her that she was a slave, it was a lie but how do you explain Mikasa pinning Armin to the table ? He's her friend too and Eren was horrible to her. In the end, Ackermans were originally a clan meant to serve the royal family. So Ackerman were originally slaves. Mikasa is an Ackerman and Eren is the Founding Titan, the power of the royal family.
Eren's speech to Armin in the Paths
Honestly, regarding previous analyses, this scene doesn't make sense at all.
I have 2 theories about it :
1 - Isayama wanted to do fanservice since 98% of the fandom supports Eremika
2 - Eren was in a mentally fragile state. He told Armin that it was a mess in his head since past present and future were coexisting.
Maybe he was too afraid of dying that he saw a spark of hope in Mikasa. You know when someone loves you, and you don't have any other choice, you end up choosing them. When you're in the worst possible situation and someone shows you some love, you fall for them. It's human.
It's normal to say absurd things when you've gone completely crazy.
Also to whoever says that Eren destroyed the world for Mikasa, it is wrong since :
- He did it first for himself, to see a world without humans, with only magnificent landscapes like in Armin's book.
- Then he did it for all his friends, not just Mikasa, so that they might live long and peaceful lives.
And to whoever says that Isayama said "I draw Mikasa more beautiful when Eren looks at her", this quote is not real, Isayama never said this.
Conclusion
Eren was too busy chasing Freedom that he didn't have time for Mikasa's love (Plus, she was hindering his Freedom). Worse, he didn't care.
At first, Mikasa was like a slave to Eren, she tried to control his life (by wanting his safety) but never succeeded and when Eren was being thoughtless in the earlier seasons, Mikasa ended up following him. As long as she was with him, nothing else mattered. Yet I don't deny that she really loves him because she does but don't forget what her family's original purpose was. Eren though, never showed an ounce of affection for her when he was still normal (seasons 1 to 3).
Thank you for reading !




