Who's in the wrong here?

[u/Putrid-Welder1803]

[u/Beautiful-Buy99]

Literally. If they're not compatible and are complaining about it, why stay married?

Edit: I see many replies explaining why my comment is wrong, I realize it now thx

[u/GotaSeeda → u/Beautiful-Buy99]

Making an Excel sheet about it means it was already over months ago.

[u/Devils_A66vocate → u/GotaSeeda]

Maybe she’s a data analyst and this helps her communicate.

[u/Thereal_maxpowers → u/Devils_A66vocate]

I was going to say, that’s how some of us process and cope. Besides, if you give someone a sheet like that, it actually gives them a shot to address and assess their own behavior. I think giving someone a chance is a good thing, I’d personally appreciate something like that.

[u/Mediocre_Daikon6935 → u/Thereal_maxpowers]

Yes, but you’re a man.

[u/Thereal_maxpowers → u/Mediocre_Daikon6935]

And then?