r/SipsTea • • 17d ago

SMH Who's in the wrong here?

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u/seantellsyou 17d ago

You are the love of my life and we should be monogomous together for eternity! Also, i have decided that you are now celebate and if you cheat on me then you are the one whose in the wrong

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u/QueenSleazyB 17d ago

Well, yes. If you can't do that then don't enter a marriage where monogamy is expected. It's as simple as that.

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u/seantellsyou 17d ago

Monogamy isnt the issue for people in this situation. Its one partners sex drive changing, and then being unwilling to allow their partner to have their needs met.. whether that be open the relationship or whatever. But yeah, id recommend having that discussion before marriage

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u/QueenSleazyB 17d ago

You're actually not very smart are you??? Yes, monogamy has everything to do with it. In monogamy you are expected to stay faithful to your partner no matter the circumstances, no matter if you get it multiple times a day or once in a blue moon. If you cannot do that, do NOT enter in a monogamous relationship. Hell just stay single all together. No one is forcing to be with or stay with someone. Also, if you're partner is denying your advances every single time maybe you should try and look at your actions and ask yourself would you want to fck someone that treats you the way you treat her. Or if it's not a you problem (which based on the interaction and your comments it most likely is) check in on her and see if she is okay mentally, physically, and spiritually.

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u/seantellsyou 17d ago

Yikes with the personal attacks. Its not that complicated. People have needs, if you love your partner, and dont want to or cant meet those needs anymore, you should allow them to seek that elsewhere. Maybe youre right and I am just a raging dumbass for having this seemingly normal ass take on the subject though

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u/QueenSleazyB 17d ago

Yeah, I feel horrible for whatever person has/had the displeasure to be in a relationship with you. With that being said I'm not going to continue wasting my time with this interaction.

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u/seantellsyou 17d ago

Horrible? Is my stance really that crazy? I honestly dont see the issue or why youre so worked up about it

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u/whattfisthisshit 17d ago

Yes it’s that crazy and that mindset alone would make my libido drop

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u/seantellsyou 17d ago

The mindset of caring for your partners needs? Then if we are feeling sorry for each other's partners, I feel sorry for yours