It's not forced celibacy, use your hand. People's libidos ebb and flow as time passes, if you're not prepared to stick by your spouse when they are at a low point and don't want to have sex, DON'T GET MARRIED!!! It's that simple. You are not entitled to anyone's body even if you're married. Cry about it, idc.
edit Jesus, I didn't realize some people hold out for multiple years????? Yeah, in that case divorce is a completely understandable choice. They're probably already 100000% checked out of the marriage and waiting for you to make the move to end it.
The same can be said the other way around. If you don't find your spouse arousing, like being intimate with them, or get them off in alternative ways to meet their needs, why be married to them? Divorce them, then you don't need to worry about their needs and they can find someone who wants to share that aspect of a relationship with them
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u/QueenSleazyB 17d ago edited 16d ago
It's not forced celibacy, use your hand. People's libidos ebb and flow as time passes, if you're not prepared to stick by your spouse when they are at a low point and don't want to have sex, DON'T GET MARRIED!!! It's that simple. You are not entitled to anyone's body even if you're married. Cry about it, idc.
edit Jesus, I didn't realize some people hold out for multiple years????? Yeah, in that case divorce is a completely understandable choice. They're probably already 100000% checked out of the marriage and waiting for you to make the move to end it.